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Ha ha!! I thought the same, exact thing. She talked about how she had said "towel" once and Babs thought she meant Tal. Well that's because she calls Tal "Towel"!!! :D

Perhaps this is off-topic (although the thread is about Buddy) but Heather needs to get a clue. She needs to read the book Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering A Breakup and Taking Back Her Power She needs to stop being anywhere Buddy might be and have absolutely no contact with him. If she does "happen" to see him somewhere (without her attempting to run into him) she needs to act "Light and Breezy" and happy with her life and excuse herself very quickly. Buddy needs to believe he has lost her forever. Her acting like an injured puppy is never going to get Buddy back. If Buddy never comes back to her, she needs to have her self-respect intact. Mr. Right is out there and she's a beautiful young woman with a lot to offer.

While some may believe that NLP has been "discredited" it's still taught in sales situations and used by many in psychology today. I don't totally understand it, myself but I do get the idea that people "view" the world in different ways. This I know for sure is correct as I can see it clearly in my own family. A lot of what NLP is about is to pattern oneself after successful people; nothing wrong with that. I don't get their "maps" and "models" and all of that but I believe that Whitney is the sort of person who views the world with her nose. If she was all about food and taste and smell and all of that, she would have been a person who had a weight problem for her entire life. Most people do not balloon up in a year or two the way Whitney did; for most "weight" is a life-long struggle. Saying that, I don't believe she's even trying, now. She could eat healthier with lean meats and lots of veggies and fresh, brightly colored produce and those sorts of things. If *I* were Whitney, I would dance for several hours every day. If she did that and got her heart rate up and kept it up, she'd drop weight pretty quickly, most likely. The exercise would help her blood sugar and several other things too. While I was pretty "pro Whitney" at the beginning, I am beginning to see that both Whitney and the show are headed into the crapper.

Neuro Linguistic Programming divides people up into several groups: People who are "visual" who see the world mostly through their vision and eyes, people who are auditory who hear the world. My husband is one of these and he'd rather listen to music than watch TV. Those people say things like "I hear you" and such when talking to you. Visual people say things like "I can see that happening". Kinesthetics are people who are about movement and touch and feelings. They are more interested in "moving to the music" than sitting and listening. They love petting soft kitties and those sorts of things and they are also very "feeling oriented" in that they get their feelings hurt easily and things like that. Other people see the world by smell or taste. These people are very rare but they do exist. Whitney is one of those who "sees" the world with her nose.