Agreed. Nothing wrong with being gay. I'm gay. However, if you're not being honest with yourself or others about who you are and you're marrying a woman who you haven't told, or doesn't see it for herself, thats very wrong. Abusive even.
Multiple wives? I don't think so. Nobody upthread mentioned the possibility so I'll put my suspicion out there: I get a really strong gay vibe from Fatter Tony. Mykelti should run for the hills.