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  1. I can't believe that I actually liked Kail when I watched the first few shows, then I got smart.

    It melted my heart when I think they were meeting to drop off/pick up Issac, and

    they showed Jo standing there holding that cute little Lincoln. I was expecting Kail to have

    a cow over it, but she didn't seem to mind. Jo looks natural holding babies.

    I stopped watching for awhile, and did not see that Jo's parents divorced, which really

    shocked me. Does anyone know what happened to their marriage?

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  2. "Kick the fucking ball and make a goal or you can walk your half-Puerto Rican ass all the way home!"

    LOL-you made me spit out my cocoa! I can just imagine her saying it that way to the poor kid.

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  3. Talking about stumpy hands- like the ones I have to live with! - during most of After BIP, all I was thinking was how small and delicate CH hands are! I wish I had cute little hands like he has! 

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  4. If Chelsea & Cole break up, I think she has really grown up and matured, and yes, will be needing Randy. But I just can't see her running to Adam for a quickie, I hope she is a lot smarter than that.

    If she is getting treated like a princess by Cole, then of course a break up would tear her up. 


    Off to Farmer`s Market, have a great day:)

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  5. I only began watching Teen Mom2 moms when Kail was living with Jo's parents. I was shocked at the way she treated them, after all they gave/did for her. She just didn't give a rat's ass about mooching off of them, as if it was their duty! I was happy when they booted her out. Kail seems to lack a conscious. And a brain.

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  6. With the divorce rate being so high these days, Aubree must be around other kids with a dad and step-dad, or live-in boyfriend. I wonder how those kids talk about their real dads as well as live-in or step-dads. There must be a lot more in Aubree's situation, we don't know what things she hears while around other kids. Kids do talk about those things.

    Having grand kids, I am so surprised how fast these kids grow up these days, I sure wasn't that smart when I was their age! 

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  7. No, I think people on this site truly care about these little kids. I just feel like a failure for getting pregnant so young, girls who let that happen are pretty dumb, and the kids always pay the price if things go south. I don't have much self-confidence. 

    Yes, my story turned out great, but it could have gone bad just as easily.

    Aubree is the same age as my only grand daughter, they look and sound so much alike.

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  8. I have to confess, even though you guys may think I am a p.o.s. I was 16 & pregnant, kept the baby to raise by myself. I met a man 10 years older than me, my kids was only 3, but it was her that decided to call him dad. I tried hard to get her to stop, her own dad hardly ever saw her, so I think she was just normally wanting a dad in her life, like her friends had. Anyway, he and I married after knowing each other for 6 months. This December we will celebrate our 35th Wedding Anniversary. And now my daughter has a real relationship with her bio-dad and his new kids, as well as the other 2 daughters my husband & I had. And has given me 5 grand kids.

    I was pretty much the first girl he ever loved, and at that time, his mother was pretty much ashamed that he was marrying a kid, with a kid. After all of these years, I love her as a mother.

    Given more time, these things can work themselves out for what is best for the kids. They do have minds of their own, like Aubree does, and are not dumb when they are still so young. We don't give them enough credit for knowing themselves how they feel. 

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  9. I'd like to say something in Jeremy's defense. One feature we see over and over in "16 and Pregnant" is the rude shock to both father and mother when financial realities hit them like a freight train. Their romantic notions of "working it out together" are popped like a bubble as soon as the baby arrives -- and so you get an immature, unmotivated, directionless boy floundering around trying to get a shit job, qualified for nothing, constantly being harangued by the girl for money. He takes refuge in video games or goes out with his friends to get away from what he has created. If he's lucky enough to get a job, he feels like he's supposed to sacrifice his whole life, freedom, happiness, etc. to work like a slave at his first full-time job (it's a rude shock!) hand over the check to the angry, exhausted girlfriend. Never enough sleep, get up, rinse repeat. Constantly broke. Exhaustion. Hopeless drudgery for minimum wage. Always whatever he does, it's not good enough. On some level he knows the girl is as much a victim of these circumstances as he is, but he also knows he can walk away, and so he does. Because he's 17. 

     

    Unlike most of the boys on this show who ejaculated into their girlfriends, Jeremy has a job that earns well, but it means he has to be away from home a lot. She wanted a new house. She wanted a nice home. She wanted makeup and expensive hairdoos. She wanted her kids to be provided for. All that costs money. Instead of being grateful that her husband had the earning capacity to provide all that for her, instead of connecting with her enormous local family support system, she went into victim mode.

     

    I'm sure Jeremy works hard when he's away and is probably triple exhausted when he gets off work and has limited time and energy for emotionally needy wife constantly complaining. It's human nature, he'd start setting some boundaries: only return calls after work, don't reply to texts where she's just venting. She feels neglected and abandoned, so she goes to the thrift stores and gets a few new things, gets some pills from the doc, and quickly becomes addicted to both. The house starts to go to hell. Jeremy comes home and finds the house a disaster, the cat colored blue, the baby never dressed, heaps of thrift shop crap everywhere, the kids running wild, and Leah a mess, endless whining about how she needs more money. She has no idea how hard he works, how much he needs a little R&R when he is home from work, and how upsetting it is for him to see the money disappear when all she does is complain. He starts to look forward to going back to work. Voila. 

     

    Jeremy wanted an adult, an equal partner in creating a good life together. He felt like he held up his end of the deal and she didn't. When he was talking about how Leah used to have goals, I think he meant she used to have her shit together, took care of the home, was a responsible adult who could get her kids fed and clothed and to school on time each day. Wanted her kids to be able to have dance lessons or extra therapy. Now he is married to this train wreck. Yes, I know it's hard to raise 3 kids, but that's the deal she signed up for. Yes, he is gone a lot, but he wasn't out partying or riding four-wheelers with his friends. All this crap about "I have issues!" -- gets old, when a person does nothing to take steps to address them.

     

    And THEN he finds out she cheated. AGAIN. I'm NOT saying he is without responsibility for the situation, but I really don't blame him for wanting to walk away.

    YES, YES!! You hit the nail right on the head, this is the best description of Jermy's life! So dam true!

    I'd like to say something in Jeremy's defense. One feature we see over and over in "16 and Pregnant" is the rude shock to both father and mother when financial realities hit them like a freight train. Their romantic notions of "working it out together" are popped like a bubble as soon as the baby arrives -- and so you get an immature, unmotivated, directionless boy floundering around trying to get a shit job, qualified for nothing, constantly being harangued by the girl for money. He takes refuge in video games or goes out with his friends to get away from what he has created. If he's lucky enough to get a job, he feels like he's supposed to sacrifice his whole life, freedom, happiness, etc. to work like a slave at his first full-time job (it's a rude shock!) hand over the check to the angry, exhausted girlfriend. Never enough sleep, get up, rinse repeat. Constantly broke. Exhaustion. Hopeless drudgery for minimum wage. Always whatever he does, it's not good enough. On some level he knows the girl is as much a victim of these circumstances as he is, but he also knows he can walk away, and so he does. Because he's 17. 

     

    Unlike most of the boys on this show who ejaculated into their girlfriends, Jeremy has a job that earns well, but it means he has to be away from home a lot. She wanted a new house. She wanted a nice home. She wanted makeup and expensive hairdoos. She wanted her kids to be provided for. All that costs money. Instead of being grateful that her husband had the earning capacity to provide all that for her, instead of connecting with her enormous local family support system, she went into victim mode.

     

    I'm sure Jeremy works hard when he's away and is probably triple exhausted when he gets off work and has limited time and energy for emotionally needy wife constantly complaining. It's human nature, he'd start setting some boundaries: only return calls after work, don't reply to texts where she's just venting. She feels neglected and abandoned, so she goes to the thrift stores and gets a few new things, gets some pills from the doc, and quickly becomes addicted to both. The house starts to go to hell. Jeremy comes home and finds the house a disaster, the cat colored blue, the baby never dressed, heaps of thrift shop crap everywhere, the kids running wild, and Leah a mess, endless whining about how she needs more money. She has no idea how hard he works, how much he needs a little R&R when he is home from work, and how upsetting it is for him to see the money disappear when all she does is complain. He starts to look forward to going back to work. Voila. 

     

    Jeremy wanted an adult, an equal partner in creating a good life together. He felt like he held up his end of the deal and she didn't. When he was talking about how Leah used to have goals, I think he meant she used to have her shit together, took care of the home, was a responsible adult who could get her kids fed and clothed and to school on time each day. Wanted her kids to be able to have dance lessons or extra therapy. Now he is married to this train wreck. Yes, I know it's hard to raise 3 kids, but that's the deal she signed up for. Yes, he is gone a lot, but he wasn't out partying or riding four-wheelers with his friends. All this crap about "I have issues!" -- gets old, when a person does nothing to take steps to address them.

     

    And THEN he finds out she cheated. AGAIN. I'm NOT saying he is without responsibility for the situation, but I really don't blame him for wanting to walk away.

    YES, YES!! You hit the nail right on the head, this is the best description of Jermy's life! So dam true!

    I'd like to say something in Jeremy's defense. One feature we see over and over in "16 and Pregnant" is the rude shock to both father and mother when financial realities hit them like a freight train. Their romantic notions of "working it out together" are popped like a bubble as soon as the baby arrives -- and so you get an immature, unmotivated, directionless boy floundering around trying to get a shit job, qualified for nothing, constantly being harangued by the girl for money. He takes refuge in video games or goes out with his friends to get away from what he has created. If he's lucky enough to get a job, he feels like he's supposed to sacrifice his whole life, freedom, happiness, etc. to work like a slave at his first full-time job (it's a rude shock!) hand over the check to the angry, exhausted girlfriend. Never enough sleep, get up, rinse repeat. Constantly broke. Exhaustion. Hopeless drudgery for minimum wage. Always whatever he does, it's not good enough. On some level he knows the girl is as much a victim of these circumstances as he is, but he also knows he can walk away, and so he does. Because he's 17. 

     

    Unlike most of the boys on this show who ejaculated into their girlfriends, Jeremy has a job that earns well, but it means he has to be away from home a lot. She wanted a new house. She wanted a nice home. She wanted makeup and expensive hairdoos. She wanted her kids to be provided for. All that costs money. Instead of being grateful that her husband had the earning capacity to provide all that for her, instead of connecting with her enormous local family support system, she went into victim mode.

     

    I'm sure Jeremy works hard when he's away and is probably triple exhausted when he gets off work and has limited time and energy for emotionally needy wife constantly complaining. It's human nature, he'd start setting some boundaries: only return calls after work, don't reply to texts where she's just venting. She feels neglected and abandoned, so she goes to the thrift stores and gets a few new things, gets some pills from the doc, and quickly becomes addicted to both. The house starts to go to hell. Jeremy comes home and finds the house a disaster, the cat colored blue, the baby never dressed, heaps of thrift shop crap everywhere, the kids running wild, and Leah a mess, endless whining about how she needs more money. She has no idea how hard he works, how much he needs a little R&R when he is home from work, and how upsetting it is for him to see the money disappear when all she does is complain. He starts to look forward to going back to work. Voila. 

     

    Jeremy wanted an adult, an equal partner in creating a good life together. He felt like he held up his end of the deal and she didn't. When he was talking about how Leah used to have goals, I think he meant she used to have her shit together, took care of the home, was a responsible adult who could get her kids fed and clothed and to school on time each day. Wanted her kids to be able to have dance lessons or extra therapy. Now he is married to this train wreck. Yes, I know it's hard to raise 3 kids, but that's the deal she signed up for. Yes, he is gone a lot, but he wasn't out partying or riding four-wheelers with his friends. All this crap about "I have issues!" -- gets old, when a person does nothing to take steps to address them.

     

    And THEN he finds out she cheated. AGAIN. I'm NOT saying he is without responsibility for the situation, but I really don't blame him for wanting to walk away.

    YES, YES!! You hit the nail right on the head, this is the best description of Jermy's life! So dam true!

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  10. Since everyone is talking about lasagna,my recipe seems strange! I live in Saskatchewan, everyone I know makes it this way, still with layers of noodles. First some tomato sauce, then the noodles, then a layer of browned ground beef in tomato sauce, more noodles, then a sauce using cottage or ricotta cheese with chopped spinach and raw eggs, more noodles, then lots and lots of shredded mozzarella cheese on the top. I have never bought a frozen one, since I was always a stay-at-home wife/mom, have always made them myself. Now I just may buy one, just to see what they taste like!

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  11. jbobchuck, I know that Ami has less than desirable teeth, but I would give ANYTHING to have what she has! I survived a disease that should have killed me, and after so many years of taking medications for the pain, I developed what is called 'meth mouth', and they all rotted and had to come out. Now I have none, and even dentures don't work for my mouth. So even though Ami has screwy teeth, I would take them any day!

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  12. Ah, feeding tubes. I was paralyzed with a rare illness,had to be in I.C.U, put on ventilator and feeding tube directly inserted in my stomach. No nose tube,was too sick. As I got better, DH came for visit,sat on said feeding tube, sent me back to surgery to get it back in. No feelings, don't even know you have it.

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  13. At least Jon didn't have the kids on TV when he did Couples Therapy.  I don't mind Kate on Celebrity Apprentice because the kids aren't on with her. I don't like watchin her not deal with her kids. Her over exaggerated expressions and constant moaning about how hard she has it are too much for me.  She wanted those kids - she made the HOMs happen. No one else did that - it was all Kate!

     

    And for the person who said that they thoght Robert's book was made up or something... he got that from Kate's own mommy journal.  She wrote about beating her children, leaving them in their cribs for four hours every afternoon becuase she couldnt deal wtih them.  She praised Jon in her journal because he took care of the kids - he bathed them, dressed them, fed them.  He only became disposable to her when he wanted to quit filming. ANd she is not single-handedly raising those kids - Jon has them quite a lot. He doesn't pay child support, but that is court ordered and is usually because there is a 50/50 split of parentling time.  Jon is a calming factor in those kids' lives., They are lucky to have him.

    Greylady, agree 100% with all you say. It is difficult when some of us know what has/is going on, after so many years, to try to convince those who don't know. With every show, the kids only got 15%, out of the alleged $40,00. per show, those kids WERE the show! They will never see it, not a penny of it.

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  14. Princess Sparkle, I agree with you about the dumb Producer! Leave things alone, let them play out instead of always butting in! Sheesh, the guy deserved any wrath that Nev was giving him, it was not Nev doing anything wrong. How much does a new I-phone cost compared to the huge bills these people have been left with?


    I have to admit, Nev and Max can do no wrong in my eyes.


    Kidd Cole kind of reminds me of an older brother of Steve Urkle!

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  15. So THAT'S the little bump she is freaking out about?! It is not even visible with clothes on? I have the worlds ugliest scar from a tracheotomy, along with a few other big scars from other tubes that were stuck in my neck-and I have never once freaked out over them! It is such a small, stupid thing to even bring up, how shallow can she be? And I used to really like Tori, but as every show passes, I am re-thinking that feeling. Sheesh woman, grow up already!

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  16. I had a very hard time focusing on what they were saying, because of that awful blond/white hair on Tori! Can't she look into a mirror and see how bad it makes her look? Why can't any of her friends say anything to her? Surely I am not the ONLY one who feels this way-am I??


    Please don't tell me I am being shallow! Don't we all feel better if we look better? It is just such an-unreal hair color!

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