seahag50

I really don't need marriage advice from someone who is 2 years married. Maybe after 46 years of it I should do a blog..."How to avoid smacking the crap out of your spouse" I like Zach and Torrie down to earth people

I hate when I go into a store and need help with something and no one is around. A few years ago my husband and I went into Walmart to get his fishing license. We went back to the counter and waited for someone to help. waited and waited and waited....I kept asking this one clerk can you find someone to help us. After 15 minutes of waiting I had enough. I picked up the phone in the department and pushed the speaker button. Over the entire store I said assistance need in the sporting goods department............waiting waiting another 10 minutes.....I picked up the phone again and this time I said Hey I have a lot of money to spend do you think maybe someone could come over here and take it.....Guess what...I got waited on....my husband wanted to crawl in a hole.As I walked down the aisle one gentleman said to me Remind me to take you with me when I go shopping.....

Oh a place I can talk at..im glad. I have 4 step children three of which lived with my husband and me and we raised them. The eldest is 47 she has 5 children and is married. I have in total 18 grandchildren. I call them my children and grand children because I put 33 years of my life into them. My daughters eldest is a total and complete brat. She is mouthly and loves to talk about other people all the time..like her mom...her mom is a hypochondriac and was always sick. To make a long story shorter...not short...I retired in 2011 my daughter then decided to get a job. She had a night job and her husband a night job. The kids stayed here (4 of them the eldest was out of the house) parents would drop them off they stayed here got on the bus and the youngest that was 4 stayed till mom picked him up...this went on for months. I was tired and not well my spouse could care less about how I felt.....one day I am on face book and I put in how happy I was that I had 4 healthy kids and 18 healty grandkids......she jumped on and called me an old bitch said I don't have any kids or grandkids cause I wasn't a mother...and I'm a lying piece of S***, this child once got mad at her grandfather and yanked his shirt ripped it and hit him....my husband was held back by her dad who said don't hit my kid Yep a real doozey. I called her mother and told her what happened and she said oh well you know how she is. So my lazy daughter decided to send this daughter to pickup my grandson...I saw her drive in I went out to the car rapped on the window and asked her who the hell did she think she was...she got scared and started to yell...I called her the c word and said oh C eat s*** and die I'm sick of your crap. She got mad and started to jump out of the car. I said hey if you feel froggy jump but you hit me unlike your grandfather I will have you arrested for elder abuse and abuse of the disabled. ( I am.) She went home told her mom I was kicking her car and hitting it and said I was going to kill her and her sister who was in the car said the same thing. They called the cops and wanted me arrested...the police came and after I talked to them they just laughed and said welcome to 2013 the age when kids rule the world.. They left. I WAS FURIOUS. She told the kids that I took care of that I was dangerous and that they weren't safe and this was my own daughter. So we were cut out from everything..no Christmas holidays no baseball nothing...our other child lives in Africa and our son was in the air force... Three years go by and I send letters to everyone in that family saying I was sorry I lost my temper. My daughter called and told me that she would think about forgiving me and that I should shout to the world that I was a violent person. I have RA and Asthema I cant hit things or kick them cause I can barely walk. my limbs are bent and knotted and I use oxygen. I told her nope I am not going to do that.. I said since I never disrespected anyone in my life I didn't deserve this treatment. 5 months later I see my grandson walking through the grocery store parking lot...he runs up and kisses me he is 17 years old...he cries grandma I miss you....surprise my daughter walks up kisses me and says Mel (a nother grand daughters grad party is june ll come if you want ) I just sat there and didn't say anything but thank you...I drove home and walked in the house and cried for 2 hours...I did nothing wrong but was punished for three years...now I'm supposed to cough up a gift for a grandkid who has not seen me nor acknowledged my presence for three years....NOT GONNA HAPPEN. Just a question am I horrid I never disrespected my parents grandparents family in any way or form. I was close to my family and we respected each other..My husband says he isn't going so of course he does side witgh me..Thank god somone did.......... Seahag