Then be offended with Hollywood, not this post. Because Hollywood (as well as the top levels of many US corporations) is still a bastion of overt sexism, run by wealthy old boys networks. And even women who do get to the tops levels are often compelled to act more like "the boys", which means they sideline other women who they deem too characteristically "female" (ie, emotional) to be "real professionals."
PS. Part of my job is to investigate latent sexism in major corporations, at the behest of these companies -- who know there's a problem, but don't know how to fix it.