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spunky

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  1. I'm so proud of Deepti and Natalie. On what planet did Shake and Shayne think they could say things like "Deeps reminds me of my aunt" or telling Natalie that he hates her and she's the worst thing that happened to him. Then walk down the aisle expecting these women to marry them? 

    I think Sal loved Mallory more than she loved him. He made the best decision for him. I think Iyana and Jarrett will make it. They seem to have a genuine connection. Best of luck to Danielle and Nick.

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  2. 10 hours ago, Yeah No said:

    True, but what does he turn around and do but the exact thing he is upset with Lindsey for doing!  He made an embarrassing scene in front of the entire group that was very disrespectful of her.  If he wants her not to say such things he needs to be consistent and not air their dirty laundry in front of everyone.  This "tit for tat" stuff is very immature and it only made things worse by getting Lindsey very upset with him in return.  I'd have more respect for Mark if he held his head up and talked to her about his dissatisfaction in private.  But unfortunately he's not mature enough for that.  She should be more mature too but if he expects her to be more mature he needs to be that way himself or he's no better than she is.

    At this point they need to go their separate ways. He doesn't like confrontation and is constantly embarrassed by her behavior, and she has no filter and doesn't know when to stop. I cringed when she started shouting about the size of his genitalia and how much money he makes.  They're a total train wreck.

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  3. 20 minutes ago, qtpye said:

    Dang, that is a pretty big deal for her.

    Also, we know Candiace. You needed both the paycheck and the exposure.

     

    I hope she gets picked up for more tour dates. She did what she had to do to launch her career and become more financially independent.  Plus Chris made it known that he gave her a very strict timeline to get on the show and promote her projects.

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  4. I love how supportive Deepti and Iyana are of each other. You can tell they have a genuine friendship. 

    Even if her instincts tell her to run, Iyana may still go through with the wedding because she may not want to disappoint Jarette's father.

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  5. Danielle is exhausting. She needs a therapist not a husband. As a fellow introvert I can understand why Iayana didn't want to go out. Iayana and Jarette may make.

    Shayne's mom was so supportive of all the women when they were dress shopping. I'm also on the Shayne and Natalie train. 

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  6. I guess Michael is one of those people who believe an omission is not a lie. Oh so Michael sends his representative on camera and the real him comes out once they leave.  Now I understand why Jasmina seems checked out.

    Alyssa please go away. You hated Chris the moment you laid eyes on him. His social media posts are not the problem,  YOU ARE!

    Exactly Pastor Cal! Olajuwon wants her to be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen. 

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  7. 15 hours ago, CaliCat said:

    I hadn’t heard this, but it certainly would explain why they’re both acting the way they are, each pushing for the other to throw in the towel first.  It still doesn’t excuse Alyssa’s behavior.  

    MAFSFAN  posted a snippet of their contracts during the D.C. season and at the beginning of this season. Taylor also confirmed it in her live when the D.C. season ended. She wanted out completely after the honeymoon, but was stuck because she couldn't afford the $50,000. 

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    MAFSFAN  posted pictures of Alyssa's exes on her Instagram stories last week. They all had six packs 

    Alyssa did you get married to Chris or did you get married to the other couples? Just tell the man you're not attracted to him and move on.

    3 minutes ago, mythoughtis said:

    If she refuses to move into the apartment at the same time as Chris, The producers need to declare her in breach of contract and send her packing …. With no future filming. 

    If she stops filming she has to pay a $50,000 fine.

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  9. 9 hours ago, Alexander Pope said:

    Agreed.  But if Jasmina wanted this to work, she would reassure him rather than criticize him when he does so.

    Jasmina seems to be stuck on what his sisters told her about him always thinking the worst. I don't think she realizes that she's sabotaging the relationship.

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  10. 59 minutes ago, kristen111 said:

    I think he has her number already and is starting to check out little by little.  He knows he will have to fight her battles for her for life.  She is uncontrollable and a hazard .  He doesn’t need that nonsense.

    When she started throwing insults at him, you could see him thinking "what have I gotten myself into?"

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  11. I just watched the Afterparty. Lindsey said she was triggered by Katina "coming for her" at the airport. Katina told her that O is a Black man she is a White woman,  the minute she said she wanted to fight him , it was now her job as his wife to step in. Keisha shut Lindsey all the way down by telling her ,that she is not a Black woman so she would never understand that culturally there are some things that can not be said. She further explained to her that her screaming certain things in public especially in a crowded place,  can place a Black man in harm's way. "That's the underlying issue that Katina isn't mentioning." Lindsey was silent after that. 

    I was temporarily on Lindsey's side about the dinner with Mark. He was wrong for having sex with her, then deciding that he wants to slow down. 

    It seems like Katina and Alyssa are friends. She said Alyssa is not handling the situation correctly,  but she has a good heart. 

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  12. 4 minutes ago, Crashcourse said:

    Oh, ok, I missed hearing Lindsey saying that.  Olajuwon said that she sent him a DM apologizing, it's strange that she would say that about him.  I still hope we've heard the last of this though. 

    She said,  she was triggered by Olajuwon because of a past relationship. Hopefully they leave this argument on the boat.

    Olajuwon silence is golden.  No one needed to hear about your sexual conquests.

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  13. So Lindsey instigated the situation with Olajuwon, but she was triggered. Maybe it was the three bottles of wine that "triggered" her. Mark already has one foot out the door.

    3 minutes ago, Crashcourse said:

    Unless Lindsey starts some shit again, Katina needs to let.it.go. 

    Katina got upset because Lindsey was trying to turn it around on Olajuwon,  instead of apologizing for her behavior.

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  14. 56 minutes ago, cardigirl said:

    Thank you for the update, Spunky. Sounds like Lindsey was creating the issue, and Olajuwon lost his cool with her.  I hope she learns from Mark how to tame that side of herself, because she seems to want to be married to him, and no matter how cute you are, that kind of behavior gets old real fast. 

    Without video of the "fight" it is difficult to judge exactly, but if Mark and Olajuwon seem okay, then maybe it was totally on Lindsey.  It does seem, though, that Olajuwon can run "hot" himself, re: his meeting with Katina's "family."  Hope we're not going to get a full season of fights between Lindsey and the rest of the cast. Ugh. 

    You're welcome.  I'm not a fan of Olajuwon, but I dealt with a Lindsey before and they can test your patience. Poor Mark looked like he had one foot out the door during the After Party.  Olajuwon called Alyssa on her bs but was upset when Katina's friend called him on his. 

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  15. I just watched the After Party.  Olajuwon said Lindsey walked up to him their first time meeting and told him he looks very fly but his slippers look cheap.  He said he ignored it. Both Alyssa and Mark nodded in agreement with his statement.  On the plane she was sitting behind him and kept provoking him. He ignored her initially but eventually couldn't take it anymore. The flight attendant asked her several times to stop yelling. Alyssa also said she was asked to keep her mask on. 

    Olajuwon said when they were exiting the plane,  he was carrying both his and Katina's luggage. That's when Lindsey said she wanted to fight Olajuwon. Katina then got involved asking her "who the hell is she talking to about wanting to fight." 

    Mark said Olajuwon gave Lindsey several opportunities to stop provoking him, before he finally lost his patience with her. He said he told her if this is how she behaves, their marriage will not last.

    Alyssa commended Olajuwon on how he handled the situation. She stated that Lindsey is the type of person who if you ignore her long enough she'll stop. However not everyone has that type of patience and they were on a plane so no one could get away from her. 

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  16. 7 hours ago, Racj82 said:

    No. Most be do watch for the drama and I rather watch that than the manufactured drams from couples created by constant mismatches.

    On another point, I hope more and more people understand why black men on the show are constantly scared of being branded as the angry black man. This keeps coming up again and again. This black man doesn't make me feel safe. It could be coincidence if it involves a black man of course. But, it's why one has to be capable how you make someone look on shows like this. It could have lasting consequences.

    Lyndsey could of totally just been in her truth. She clearly has a past and she could have been triggered. But, now we have a he said/she said with no footage aired and men often don't get the benefit of the doubt in situations like this these days.

    Exactly! She said he was aggressive,  he puffed up his chest at her, he wanted to fight her, he made her feel unsafe. It's like she was doing everything in her power to label him the angry and dangerous Black man.  Unfortunately Black men have been murdered for just existing, her words were very dangerous.

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