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Was it just me or did that ring look exactly like the one Darcy got for herself?

How does one emote a backflip?

At least they give me hope for a new sci-fi flick...

This thought just entered my mind since the amount she spent on travel was made clear... Since Melanie gave Devar money when he wasn't working you could assume he used it on the family bills, so when the sister is talking to Devar online saying the bills are piling up, was she expecting Melanie just to give more money with the idea that she had it to spare? Then when they meet his mom they were talking about how long the visa process is and how when Devar told his mom about Melanie she told him to drop out of the visa process. Then the mom says "If you love him, you have to help him out." Then Melanie states she had no idea he was even doing that process... I still think Devar was serious about sending 90% of his earnings, especially with him still thinking Melanie had plenty of money. There seem to be way to many things that they don't know about each other.

It would have been hilarious if she came out on the set with an older man. I don't think Mark has any feelings when it comes to cutting his kids out of his life, but I think if they moved next door to him his head might explode. Does Mark expect grandchildren?

I don't consider holding hands or an arm around to be PDA even though I guess it is by definition. I guess it's more so the degree of it? Lets just say there are a lot of inconsiderate couples that wait in lines and it has traumatized me! I just feel like instead of a peck, Devar wants to makeout and I think he stated it in the last episode when they were having that party he doesn't care who knows it.

I think the outfit looks alright, I like it when women wear those yoga pants with some kind of shirt that is just long enough to cover / tease their butt. I think it looks like trash when women just flat out wear it as if it's stylish.

Good then he will know that more people think he is a tool.

If someone is taking several trips to see me that is costing a lot I would see it as a GREEN flag to milk the situation since they obviously have money. After 6 weeks he proposed.

Not only that, but after three trips and being together for only 10 days Devar proposed. I believe they said this was over 3 months or so, but at least the other couples met online and talked for a much longer time. I don't like the way Devar talks with a few words, long pause, few more words, long pause etc as if trying to come off as sly as possible. Notice he says "Sshhh" and stops and changes it to "My lovely." Why would he quit his job if he isn't 100% sure when he was leaving, he could of worked until the very last day and just said "CYA!" Why was Devar the one testing the sisters??? HE IS THE SUSPICIOUS ONE! Sounds like he is trying to feel out the family on how secretive he should be. I don't think Bev is jealous at all, I hope the show is more than the youtube version because Bev was brought there to repeat the exact same thing she said on the show and nothing else??? How about input on seeing them interact after the show, what about her comment on the wedding day??? Bev's husband seems handsome even though overweight or muscular, so again I don't see the jealousy. The constant affection is sickening and seems over the top as if trying to convince people, just like the crying on the wedding day, did anyone actually see tears? I hate PDA, it's like when you see a new couple together they are all over each other and then it will fizzle out or they are seperated a few weeks later... Pace yourselves! I'm now having flashbacks of couples making out in lines...that's the worst.

It was very brief, but made me think their relationship is BS even more.

It isn't on for me for another 1.5 hours. I hope they ask real questions like many people have on this forum instead of giving us info we have gotten from the show!

Directly from the Dr. Phil website "Brenda says she fell in love with and married her husband, Don – despite their 26-year age gap. But soon after, she claims her “Prince Charming” turned “crazy” and “temperamental.” Is their age difference at the root of their issues? Then, Bev says she’s concerned for her sister, Melanie, who married her much younger man, Devar, after meeting him on a Jamaican vacation. Is Devar in it for love, or for a green card and money? And, Dr. Phil catches up with best-selling author Mitch Albom." I just hope their segment isn't a brief one.

I've typed several posts and MANY paragraphs about the maturity factor only to delete it... She has common sense and the capabilities of the internet these days is crazy to the point of never needing to know anything. Is a 59 year old up to date on technology that a underaged girl can figure out??? I think not. Who is playing who?

I also really hate to take this stand point since I hate Mark... Everyone calls him cheap, but maybe he is just getting by? Being a guy and a partly disgusting one, my logic of thinking is if it isn't broken, why replace it? Maybe Mark is like me, if this set of clothes, if this phone, if this bed, if this car etc isn't a problem why waste money on replacing it if it still serves its purpose?