On WWHL, Kandi said that she got that "30 days to vacate" language from Bethenney Frankel of RHONY. Bethenney is getting divorced, and she was dealing with her soon-to-be ex remaining in the house, even after the split. So I guess Kandi was just putting it in there, since her RHONY cohort has a problem along the same lines. It's still pretty cold though.
Kandi also stated that she was friends with Ramona, another New York housewife.