And how long can that conversation actually take? "I was raised in an orphanage, I went to school here, there and over there, I saw Jason's picture in a newspaper, I dated 4 women including Kim, who was just a fling but now is the love of my life, I was in the army, the end". Shouldn't take more than a couple of hours to "get to know Drew's memories", then he can be turned back into idiot Franco.
This idea that he should remain Drew so that Monica can get to know him, is insulting since "Drew" isn't the man that he was in 2012. He's not the man BM's Drew became, that she loved as a son.
If Drew were already dead, I could see her wanting to cling to what little "Drew" there is. But at this point, she believes Drew is in Afghanistan and on his way back. So why would she want someoen else to be the son she didn't raise.