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  1. 17 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

    I think that and obituaries are ads for crooks that a house will be empty at such and such time, so please come help yourself to all my valuables. We always have a family friend stay at the home to set up, heat foods if necessary and have a presence when the family is at a wake or funeral. 

    I have heard since I was a child that weddings and funerals were prime opportunities for burglars, especially weddings in areas where the bride's family displayed gifts in the home for people to see before the wedding. (I swear that was a thing. I don't know if it still is.) People who did that got a family friend to stay in the house during the wedding.

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  2. 40 minutes ago, WinnieWinkle said:

    My cousin does this all the time!  She can't seem to get in the car to go to the store without letting her "audience" know about it accompanied by an extreme close up of her sitting in the car.  These pictures are not flattering to her but no one is going to tell her that!  If she's happy, why not I guess.  But I do have to wonder why people (a) post multiple times a day about the minutae of their lives, and (b) post pictures that do them no favours.  

    Or why they post pictures that say, "Hey! I'm not home right now."

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  3. Sour cream and onion without dip. With dip, plain Ruffles (I find they stand up to the dip better), unless it's cheese or bean dip, then some type of tortilla chip.

    My favorite that I can't find here is Herr's creamy dill pickle chips. Our vending machine at work had them for a while, but not any more, and I have never seen them in a store here.

    It's hard to pick a favorite chip.

    My least favorite is anything with the words "hot," "flaming" or "spicy" in the name.

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  4. 3 minutes ago, peacheslatour said:

    My heart goes out so much to you young parents. Trying to work, parent, teach and deal with all the stress of living in a time of a pandemic. For someone like me who's retired all I have to worry about is staying safe, wearing my mask and social distancing when I do go out, which is almost never. My son lost his job and is barely making ends meet by doing remote gigs archiving content for some websites. If I still had a young kid at home, either my husband or I would have had to quit our jobs altogether. And let's face it, it would have been me because my DH owned his business. God, when will this end?

    Thank you. God help me, I'm not a young parent, though. I'm an old parent because we had a child late. I don't have the energy any more to do any extra hobbies.

    We are fortunate in that both of us work primarily on computer and our worksites will allow us to work remotely some of the time, so we take turns staying home to work. I don't know what people who can't work from home do.

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  5. 6 hours ago, BookWoman56 said:

    Especially annoying is the presumption that this person knows better than you do what you should be doing, and that you do in fact have more free time. For example, my schedule has changed not one bit because of the pandemic. I was already working remotely, so no change there. Not a big socializer under any circumstances, so no significant changes there. Elves have not magically appeared in my house to do cleaning. I still spend most of my free time reading. I try not to make assumptions about the lives of my family, friends, and colleagues, so it’s annoying when someone makes assumptions about my life and my priorities. 

    The presumption that I have more time is what irks me. My schedule has changed, but does not include more free time. I telework some days and go into the office on other days, and on the days I'm home, I also have to oversee my son's school. It doesn't take a lot of work because he doesn't need a lot of help, but there's another person in the same room doing his work and occasionally (sometimes more than occasionally) wanting to show me things or ask me things or tell me things. When it all started last spring, my schedule was worse because we were all at home, and I was making school lessons and grading them for my son because for the first two weeks, the schools were just closed. When they put up lessons on the district website, the lessons were not good and didn't take him any time at all to finish. Since my husband and I still had to work, we found/created more lessons so our son would have something to do. I did not take up any new hobbies -- or even return to any of my old hobbies that I no longer had time for.

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  6. 3 hours ago, icemiser69 said:

    Do any of you have any recommendations when it comes to brands of coloring pencils?  They can get pretty pricey, and it looks like some of them use a special pencil sharpener.

    I was looking up Prismacolor pencils because I thought I remembered that some are softer than others when I ran across this site that you might find useful:  https://www.thebalancesmb.com/best-colored-pencils-4160786. I cannot vouch for the information or the prices, but it might give you some ideas.

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  7. I occasionally have thought I saw appeal in being a SAHM, but if there is anything I've learned from this pandemic, teleworking and having distance/virtual school, it's that being a stay at home mom is not appealing to me. Now granted, I'm still working my paid job when I'm at home so I still have housework on top of that, but I want to go out to a workplace of adults. In fairness to my husband, he does as much housework as I do. I cook most suppers, but he does cook at least once a week usually, and he washes dishes. I do laundry (because I trust no one else to do my laundry). He also cleans the litter boxes, a task that became his when I was pregnant and which I somehow just never seemed to take back. Both of us do other cleaning, as does the boy. Truthfully, though, my housekeeping is haphazard at best. I hate it, and not having a paid job would not help it.

    His father does a lot of housework type stuff, too, though, as did my father, which is a little weird because my grandfather never did anything around the house and didn't really care to be around children for long periods. Child-rearing was women's work. (This was a long time ago.) Possibly my mom convinced him because her dad did a lot.

    And we both have volunteered at school, although I'm usually the one to go to the parties (back in the time when they were in school and parents got to go to parties). I enjoy spending an hour or so with the kids, though, so I don't mind it. I just take annual leave or skip my lunch hour.

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  8. I thought I had nothing to contribute here, but on reflection, there is something in Grey's Anatomy that has always bugged me. There should probably be a lot, but I can gloss over the increasingly unbelievable things -- deaths, amputations, cancer, crazy people, fires, floods, etc. -- that happen to the hospital and the people in that hospital because it's a TV show.

    But I just don't understand why the chief of surgery is the top person in that hospital, just below the board. Is there not a hospital CEO? A CFO? Our hospital has both those positions, along with several vice presidents who are over various areas. It seems to me that the chief of surgery would be one of the people in senior leadership, but not necessarily the head honcho, and particularly not the one who is always called on to speak to the press about disasters -- particularly when the chief of surgery always seems to be singularly unqualified to speak to the press or even issue a public statement. Shouldn't the hospital also have a public relations/communications and marketing department (or at least a chief communications officer) that helps with that sort of thing?

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  9. I hate lemon in tea as well. My tea order is always, "Iced tea no lemon," said without punctuation between because you've got to get it out quick before they move on to the next person. If the tea comes with the lemon stuck on the edge of the glass, I take it off in as conspicuous a fashion as possible and give it to my husband, who likes lemon. If it's in the glass, I send it back because, yes, once it's in there, it has polluted the whole glass of tea. All I want in my iced tea is tea, water, ice and sugar. I'll drink it without sugar if sweet tea is not available, but never with lemon. (I know I can add sugar at the table, but once the tea is cold, the sugar doesn't mix properly, and the waiter will only mess up the balance when the glass is refilled.)

    My grandfather always said, "If I wanted lemonade, I'd ask for it."

    I have gotten to where I can drink flavored herbal teas if I think of them as a spiced orange or spiced apple drink, not tea (which they really aren't anyway).

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  10. I think that article is fake, although it is possible that some people eat fried spiders, as there are people in the world who eat spiders. But moa are extinct. as is Haast's eagle -- both according to New Zealand Birds Online (http://nzbirdsonline.org.nz/name-search?title=moa&field_other_names_value=moa&field_search_scientific_name_value=moa and http://nzbirdsonline.org.nz/species/haasts-eagle).

    And the gardening thing appears to be a fake also (apparently New Zealanders like to pull the legs of other people around the world): https://www.buzzfeed.com/bradesposito/nz-garden-banhttps://www.aap.com.au/new-zealands-new-food-bill-doesnt-ban-gardening/ and https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/labour-weekend-gardens-what-to-plant-to-survive-auckland-hose-bans-and-water-restrictions/QT5HUY2VSUHROJP4S7LFNWUGRI/, which tells you what to plant that will survive drought according to the headline (although you can't read the article without a subscription).

  11. 1 hour ago, JTMacc99 said:

    The landline telephone technology doesn't go out if power goes out. It's also probably in pretty good shape if there are big cuts in the fiber networks. So your landline phone might work perfectly well when loss of power and fiber cuts disrupt cell service.  The biggest problem with using your landline phone when cell service is disrupted, is that you might be trying to call somebody's cell phone.

    Although cordless phones won't necessarily work without power. And I just realized that I no longer have a corded phone. I used to keep one for that purpose, but I don't know what happened to it. It's possible I donated it to a theater group.

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  12. 2 hours ago, SuprSuprElevated said:

    Speaking of email...

    Why is it so difficult for folks to grasp the "reply all" vs. "reply to sender" concept?  Can't count the emails I receive from people who were on a mass email, and replying to the sender, but clearly don't know how to do that.  C'mon people.

    This is a problem at my workplace for several people. After one co-worker who doesn't usually reply all did so and accidentally shared her health news with everyone, we discovered that "reply all" is apparently the default on an iPhone. There may be a way to change it, but she was having trouble finding it if so. I don't have an iPhone, so I don't know.

    I just got a robocall that said it was a second notice for the vehicle owner that the factory warranty something something (I hung up). I've received several of these lately, and it's always the second notice. I know it's a scam (somehow), but always wonder why it's always the second notice. I suppose people fall for it or they wouldn't do it, but shouldn't you notice that you never received a first notice and that if you ignore the first second notice, you just get another second notice and never a third or fourth notice? I'm putting way too much thought into it, I know. I just find it a little amusing.

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  13. I just started a subscription to BritBox through the BritBox website. And then I discovered that if you subscribe through the BritBox website, Amazon doesn't care. You can't then sign into on Amazon Prime even though you have Prime. You have to get a subscription through Amazon Prime. (That's my peeve for yesterday and today.) I decided to stick with the way I got it and just get the channel on our Roku for watching on the TV and watch it on the BritBox website when I'm at the computer.

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  14. 1 minute ago, BookWoman56 said:

    @BexKeps, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with liking a simple, clean decor. My pet peeve is less with that particular style trend and more with the various TV interior designers who seem to insist that every house they touch must use that style. I’d feel the same if they were insisting that everyone use dark paneled walls, dark furniture, and cluttered display shelves. Not everyone likes the same style. But too many of the TV designers are way more interested in imposing their own preferences than in finding out what the client likes and figuring out a way to express those likes. I personally prefer dark furniture. Most of my interior walls are a light color, with the exception of my dining room, where I chose the burgundy color to match one of the colors in my mother’s china (and to complement the colors in my own china). But if I were ever to have a house near a beach, for example, I would opt for a light and airy decor. No damn shiplap, though. 

    It's the same way the TV designers insist on removing all the walls so everything is "really open." Sure, it makes the rooms seem bigger at first glance, but (to me, at least), eventually it makes the spaces seem smaller because they keep encroaching on each other. Also, everyone can see your messy kitchen (you know, during all the times you're entertaining), and you can't sneak cookies without having to share them with your kids. Also, the kitchen noise really interferes with the TV -- not that they discuss where the TV is going to go because that would be gauche, even though these particular designers depend on the TV for their livelihood.

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  15. 1 minute ago, BookWoman56 said:

    My biggest culinary disaster occurred a long time ago when babysitting my nephew a few days while my sister was out of town. I decided to make Mac and cheese from scratch. Somehow I got so distracted I failed to notice I had opened a can of sweetened condensed milk instead of evaporated milk, to stir in with the cheese I was melting. That was some wretched Mac and cheese, but my nephew begged for some anyway and loved it. (He was 3 at the time. ) 

    My husband did the opposite for his pumpkin pie at Thanksgiving this year. He didn't realize we had both sweetened condensed milk and evaporated milk and didn't look at the label. So the pumpkin pie had no sweetening at all. I didn't try it after he did and said it tasted wrong. He said it wasn't horrible; it just wasn't sweet. My son liked it, but he had as much Cool Whip as he did pie on his plate so I suspect he didn't miss the sugar.

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  16. I had senior pictures done at school. That's the way my school did them. I suppose some kids may have done separate senior pics, but none of my friends did. It just wasn't a thing.

    I used to post on Instagram. I was doing a thing where I tried to post a photo I took every day. I quit because I got tired of it and didn't have time. Also, it was a pain because I wanted to take photos with my actual camera, not my phone, and Instagram is not made for posting from a computer. You can do it, but you have to make it think you're on a phone. It's a pain.

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