Wow, netfoot, I'm starting to think your doctors are just messing with you. You dont actually need surgery, they just enjoy your company so much that they just keep you hanging around. Seriously, though, all of these delays must be driving you a bit mad. I'm so sorry.
So, here's a quick recap of my life since we last "chatted": I've gotten older, and fatter, and much (Much) happier. (These things are not neccesarily related). My luv (8years next week) and I have been traveling the US for the last several years managing B&Bs. It has been a great adventure, allowing us to live in some lovely places just long enough to explore them thoroughly and then we move onto the next cool place. Several weeks ago, we decided to take a "break" from work and we are now spending the next 6 months or so traveling, exploring and relaxing through Mexico. We are having a blast. This lifestyle is so enormously different than my previous one. It's sometimes hard to reconcile. Son1 is still a shit (actually, as a human, he is very cool. Successful, funny, smart....it's just in the son department that he is severely lacking. He still hasn't gotten past the divorce and has decided he no longer needs to be involved with either parent. My heart was broken, but has since healed and I have come to terms with it). Son2 is amazing! Living in NYC with a career he enjoys, politically and socially aware and active and just an all around good guy. I'm very proud of him.
Today is Mothers Day in the US, so I dont want to disagree with your Mum, but I think you look very handsome all clean shaven.