Racism is my #1 pet peeve, and I get into constant debates over it. There are people in my life, work relationships and such, who are hard to avoid, or else I'd have nothing to do with them. I try to keep only kind, antiracist people in my life who care about social justice.  I have black relatives, family and friends who are part of the LGBT community, and many people I love of different colors, nationalities, and religions. A lot of them experience some really messed up bigotry. A family