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Culture Check: How can we acknowledge the advantages some groups have because of their backgrounds, and work on creating a more aware and understanding relationship with them?
This is a pinned Moderator Note at the top of this subforum. Can someone explain what we're supposed to do with it, and why it's on the Pet Peeves forum and not the other general ones like Chit Chat?
I've read all the explanations about the new regime and mission goals and inclusivity and didn't understand it in the abstract, and still don't understand it now that it's being applied specifically.
Are we supposed to discuss acknowledging advantages some groups have because of their backgrounds? And if so, I'm supposed to work on understanding their struggle with their advantages?
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8 hours ago, DearEvette said:
One of my favorite discoveries was this stylish, sexy french tv show called Detectives.
Sounds interesting. How do the credits work on Hoopla for multi-episode shows? I get four "borrows" a month (and no access to multiple library cards). Is each episode one borrow? I don't want to "test" it and inadvertently get too far in the process and use up a credit.
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5 hours ago, Smokeyblow said:
My blood pressure won't let me watch this.
I hear ya. In my case, I chose a 2-hour blood pressure spike over prolonged irritation. Since I refuse to even read about most of the craziness out there these days, it was educational for me.
I was in Austin during Alex Jones's early days on cable access. Most people thought he was just eccentric and funny (keep Austin weird, right?). And it's a perfect example of "It's all fun...until it's not."
He gets to unleash all this shit and will suffer no net consequences, because he profits from everything that happens to him. Just like another well-known denialist who gets other people to do his dirty work. I like to think they suffer inner torment, but deep down I know that's not true.
This piece did cheer me up a bit. It's about Jones and his cable access show and there's a nice description of a parking lot fight with some people who prank-called his show all the time, and showed up in person.
https://observer.com/2019/04/alex-jones-austin-public-access-tv-origin-story/
At least he got his ass kicked once.
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I got my library card in Austin, Texas. I got to looking and there's something called the TexShare card, which gives me borrowing privileges at other libraries in Texas (once I've had my APL card for six months). I have to get a paper TexShare card at my library, and present it along with an ID and my APL card to another library and fill out a registration form at that other library.
However, on the APL website, it says people who use a TexShare card have only these privileges:
Quote10 physical item checkouts (books, DVDs, etc.)
7 holds
No interlibrary loan
No Digital Resources* (no OverDrive, hoopla, databases, etc.)
So it looks like Texans are SOL on this stacking thing for streaming. Then again, maybe we should just be grateful they allow libraries at all.
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On 3/27/2024 at 9:47 AM, meep.meep said:
This was chilling. 1 in 4 people believed him.
I would imagine that a good many of them still think it was staged. That's what I find chilling. Alex may have moved on, but that doesn't mean his followers did.
Or they don't actually believe it and maybe never did but it was fun to be on that bandwagon. I find that even more chilling.
I purposely keep Alex Jones out of my orbit, and knew very little about the trials except the massive verdict, so I watched the documentary. If I hadn't already given up on the human race, I'd be scared.
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I just remembered that at the end, they showed one of the freezer rooms
Spoilerand the blue cord was unplugged.
Surely that was intentional. I'm not sure why, though. But I congratulated myself for noticing.
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2 hours ago, meowmommy said:
If you get membership at other libraries (I belong to about ten) that participate in Kanopy, you can link your accounts together and stack your credits.
How do you join (is that the word?) different libraries? I just got my library card about a month ago. I signed up online but had to pick up my card in person and present proof of a local address. Actually, I travel fulltime and whenever I've looked at getting a library card, they all required a local address.
But a few months ago I was visiting my sister in the D.C. area and I was lamenting not having a library card because I'm not a resident of the places I'm traveling, and her friend said you can get one in Arlington, Virginia, even if you're not a resident. So I looked it up and that's sort of true--you can get an Arlington library card if you live in a reciprocal jurisdiction (covers basically the D.C. area). It sounds like someone who lives in that area could get cards for a bunch of different libraries. So maybe you're doing something like that?
Being able to stack the credits would be a hell of a deal.
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On 3/24/2024 at 4:46 PM, meowmommy said:
There seems to be more classic TV on Kanopy, which is free through the library, than on PBS.
Thank you for mentioning Kanopy. I've never heard of it, and it has a decent amount of artsy and foreign movies I want to see. And my library gives me access to four per month, so there's a veneer of scarcity.
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I don't think the trailer really does it justice.
It's getting a rather limited release, which is a shame because it's a whole lot of fun. This is the first movie Julio Torres has directed, and he has a remarkably sure hand. I loved the images of the Roosevelt Island tram--he chose to show shadows instead of the tram itself. I always like wondering, "What made him think of that?"
Tilda Swinton is bonkers. Elizabeth is the worst person in the world but I just couldn't make myself hate her. And about Tilda Swinton's hair--here's what Torres said on Fresh Air:
"First we talked color, and we decided that she should have the kind of red hair that you see in the streets, but you rarely see in film because it's not a shade of red that anyone aims to get. It's the shade of red that something wrong happened, and then you ended up with that shade of red. It's, like, almost, like, a little purply. And then her haircut - the idea was that her haircut would be at odds with her hair texture so that her hair was just constantly in a fight with itself. And that really gave Tilda the fuel for the character of just imagining that every time that Elizabeth sees her reflection in the mirror, she's adjusting her bangs, she's adjusting the size of her fringes and she gets so angry about the hairdresser who promised her that she would look exactly like the photo she showed her in a magazine. We made this whole fantasy of, like, she walked away from the hair salon with all these products that she's supposed to use every day, but of course she doesn't."
Her hair is constantly in a fight with itself. Brilliant.
Also, at the very end of the credits, there's a statement that since the filming of the movie, Bank of America has changed its overdraft fees to $10, with a maximum of two per day (or something along those lines), ending with "We are legally required to tell you this." 😀
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12 hours ago, Empress1 said:
I did kind of chuckle when Emily was taking pictures of Becca - Becca is a professional, Emily is not, and it showed.
What kind of camera was Emily using? They looked like Polaroids, and not the hip kind of Polaroids. They looked cheap, fuzzy, and randomly framed. I felt dirty just looking at them.
QuoteI also think the hive mind of Becca, Emily and Clare is pretty destructive because they’ve convinced themselves that their exes were villains, when a) they had hands in the demises of their marriages, and b) at the root of it, the men just weren’t that into them. It happens every day.
But...but...but...they were being silenced.
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4 hours ago, shapeshifter said:
If you've been nearsighted in your youth, it's possible for your eyes to get "better" as you age until eventually you are farsighted and need reading glasses. That happened to my Dad.
I didn't need glasses at all until I was 22, and used them only for driving. Then within two years my eyes were bad enough that I needed glasses all the time, so I got contacts. And my eyes went downhill fast after that, settling in the -5.00 range for a couple of decades. And then when I got older they started getting better.
This most recent improvement has been wonderful because my multifocal contacts are working well enough that I don't HAVE to use reading glasses like I used to, in addition to the multifocal contacts. I think it's because the contacts aren't having to correct as much for distance as they used to, so my eyes don't need as much near correction to counteract the far correction.
Also, I forgot to include Popeye's in the list of places to eat if you want your nearsightedness to improve.
QuoteOf course, @StatisticalOutlier, you'd have to live long enough for that to happen. So, hopefully you are at least taking a multivitamin to compensate for your habit of not eating fresh produce. ❤️
I started taking a multivitamin back before settling into this current diet regimen. I looked at the nutrition information for a bunch of different foods and realized that to get 100% of all the required nutrients, you'd have to eat an enormous amount of food, and be strategic about it. A multivitamin might not help (especially since without regulations, who knows what they actually contain), but it's unlikely to harm me.
4 hours ago, shapeshifter said:Plus I am very suspicious of "Natural Flavor."
Good old beaver butt.
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18 hours ago, Anela said:
An online friend also said she’s been eating a lot of greens, and at her last eye exam, they said her eyes have improved.
Unless it's the only thing she changed in her lifestyle, there's no way to know the greens caused the improvement.
I have a horrible diet. I eat mostly processed foods, and vegetables only very rarely--a salad maybe every two weeks (the cranberry walnut one with chicken at Potbelly, which it turns out has more calories than anything else on the menu!).
I got my eyes tested the other day, 18 months after the previous exam. One eye improved by .25 diopter (it's now -3.50) and the other eye improved by .75 diopter (it's now -4.00). If people want to improve their vision, I therefore recommend a diet that alternates among Whataburger, Culver's, Jersey Mike's, Panda Express, Potbelly, Schlotzsky's, and Chipotle.
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On 12/12/2022 at 7:56 AM, pasdetrois said:
I was disappointed in season two and now I no longer have an HBO subscription.
Any chance season three captures the season one magic?
I was disappointed in season two, too. I'm watching season three only because I'm a completist, and it's a struggle. One problem is that they're getting away from the store and the shenanigans of the employees and the customers. But also, many of the episodes are apparently take-offs of shows/movies I'm not familiar with. I'm sure they were fun episodes to make, but not fun for me to watch.
I wish this had been a one-season wonder.
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16 hours ago, Chatty Cake said:
It’s not condescending or judgmental to not think much of ladies who drink to excess and sleep with dudes they don’t know. Brennan had every right to be disappointed and disgusted. Did he need to keep saying he was protecting her? Perhaps not but that’s what he thought was the gentlemanly thing to do.
When did we learn his objection to her was based on her drinking and sleeping around? I remember at the beginning, when he was asked about his attraction to her, or lack thereof, he said he didn't want to say because he didn't want to hurt her. I remember the "hurt her" for sure. I assumed it was because of her looks, or her personality--something she can't really do anything about.
When did he started talking about "protecting" her? That could mean he was protecting her from being hurt that he wasn't attracted to her, and not protecting her reputation or whatever.
In fact, he mentioned her personality, saying she was too negative. That one I can actually see as a misunderstanding, because he specifically said she "hates" so many things. I wonder if she's the type who's says things like "I hate this traffic" or "I hate having to wait for a table," and she considers them observations and he considers it negativity.
I do think he might be turned off by her drinking. Early on he said his dad doesn't drink water, he drinks vodka.
Anyway, has he specifically said why he doesn't find her attractive?
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7 hours ago, Hip-to-be-Square said:
they're forced to stay together until Decision Day
Apparently not.
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On 3/20/2024 at 12:08 PM, TattleTeeny said:
But here is the thing: after always being sort of on the scrawny side, I feel physically* uncomfortable at this size/shape/squishiness level! I don't feel like me and I don't feel "right"
Same here. I had over 60 years of being a very comfortable, consistent size, and still wear clothes I got in my 30s. Shirts all fit the same, same bra size (and in fact same bra style) for many years, but shorts and jeans have gotten tight in the waistband.
But it's physically uncomfortable for me to have this post-menopause roll around my middle for the last couple of years. At the beginning, I could keep it at bay by consciously not drinking as much sweet tea as I'd like. But that's not as effective as it used to be.
There's a crease/fold above my waist in the back that I've never had before and I can feel it--not touch it with fingers and feel it, but feel it existing. In fact, it disguised my case of shingles because I've seen enough episodes of My 600-Pound Life to know what can happen when skin folds on itself, and I figured it was just whatever they have to deal with now that I've got some flab on me. Nope, it was shingles.
And now when I sit, I have flesh folding over on itself in front and on the sides Sure, I've had it fold over a waistband or the like, but shifting my posture would go a long way toward fixing that. But it doesn't matter how straight I sit up, there's that roll, and it's uncomfortable. I don't know how fat people put up with it. I see these men with basketball shaped bellies and actually wonder if I could just power through the interim, it would be more comfortable to have a big hard ball instead of the squish.
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On 3/20/2024 at 7:42 AM, stewedsquash said:
What did the weight watchers person say? She is fudging what happened. When she admitted that she was on the drugs weight watchers dropped her as their spokesperson.
The WW person said only a few words, and I don't remember what they were even about. I think she was there mainly so Oprah could mention resigning from the board and donating all of her shares of stock to the National Museum of African American History.
I do know that WW is now embracing these drugs for weight loss, and talking about how WW is still relevant as a community. Pivot or die.
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1 hour ago, Elizzikra said:
If Brennan can’t handle her sexual past then that’s his shortcoming, not hers.
I would call it a preference rather than a shortcoming.
2 hours ago, Elizzikra said:I get the finances are tough. Unlike people who marry in conventional ways, they don't have months or years to plan this out and figure out how to not pay double rent,
From personal experience, I can say that Denver housing costs are high. Michael said that if they got that house, each of them would be paying $250 more per month than they already are, and my math says they're currently each paying $2,000 in rent. I always think of having two people moving in together as reducing the overall housing cost, not more than doubling it.
I looked at rents in the building where the show rented the apartments (from the product placement I always thought it was Sen-i-ral but it's Sentral--logo fail on that one), and a 1-bedroom 1-bath is between $2,100 and $2,500 a month, and the 2-2s go for between $3,000 and $5,000 a month. A whole house, albeit not above a Whole Foods, for $4,500 doesn't sound that bad.
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4 hours ago, chitowngirl said:
Did anyone watch Oprah’s special last night? There doesn’t seem to be a thread for it. I just wanted to know if anything was said about Ozempic being not available for people with Diabetes because of people using it for weight loss…
I watched it. I don't recall any mention of unavailability to people with diabetes, and there was definitely no mention of how this special is going to make demand for the drug even higher than it already is.
I came away from it kind of hating Oprah, when before I didn't have much of an opinion. The whole thing was a justification for using these drugs for the "disease of overweight and obesity." Yes, wanting to eat so much you will be fat is a disease, and yes, it's overweight and obesity, not just obesity, that warrants treatment.
They didn't talk about the side effects of the drugs, except one woman said she tried it and her nausea was so terrible she stopped using it, but she's considering trying a different one in the future. The only medical talk was about the health dangers of overweight and obesity. It was always "overweight and obesity." Seems to me "overweight" could include ten pounds if you're a Real Housewife™, and there was no mention of anyone who shouldn't be taking these drugs.
Apparently these work by making you not crave food, and Oprah was going on and on about how food is always on her mind, and she's thinking about her next meal before she finished the one she's eating. Well, guess what. Some people who aren't overweight or obese do that, too. Probably a lot of people, actually.
Also, one of the doctors said they've been using these drugs for weight loss (not diabetes) for 20 years, and Oprah was shocked and wanted to know why she didn't know that. In fact, the doctor is with a facility (Cleveland Clinic?) that Oprah said she is a patient of, and she seemed annoyed to be hearing about this for the first time. And I was annoyed that the host of the show was learning this on the show; it seems to me the host of an overview shows like this should have done the research and just be presenting information, not hearing it for the first time.
And there was a moment where the CEOs (I think) of the two companies that produce these drugs were on camera together, and Oprah said it was a huge deal.
Oh, and there was some talk about insurance coverage for the drugs, how insurance should be covering them because overweight and obesity are a disease. I'm sure the drug company muckety-mucks' presence had nothing to do with that.
CEO(?) of Weight Watchers was there, too. Oprah said her disassociation with WW was so there would be no conflict of interest that would prevent her from airing this show. But she can pimp the drugs, apparently.
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On 3/16/2024 at 10:58 AM, stewedsquash said:
That warning is all kinds of wrong mentality, ha. Shouldn’t the warning go to the wrong doers?
In a perfect world, yes.
On 3/16/2024 at 11:27 AM, annzeepark914 said:Don't help a ?good? boy go bad? He's bad already if he's looking into a car that has keys in the ignition (or a fob visible). We've got kids as young as 11 stealing cars in the District.
My sister lives in Maryland, just over the DC line. I can't remember what exactly we were discussing, but it was something along the lines of leaving your keys in the car and she said she never does it because she doesn't want to help anyone make a bad decision. It made me love her just a little bit more.
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On 2/27/2024 at 11:57 AM, DEL901 said:
With her hearing issues, I can’t blame her for the vocal fry.
Actually, I think it would be the opposite. Vocal fry spreads because people hear it and adopt it.
Then again, maybe she heard it and adopted it before she lost her hearing, and now can't hear how awful it sounds. 😀
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21 hours ago, paramitch said:
I just really loved this, and the best part was that I really didn't know how to feel about Hunham for easily the first third of the film -- he was petty, cruel, visibly checked-out from caring about his students, but his kindness and real concern for Mary made me curious, and by the midway point, I loved all the characters left in the weird sweet little holiday group.
Well said. I'm always too shallow to actually grok to things like that, so I really appreciate it when people put it out there for the recognizing, and the taking.
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3 hours ago, ChiCricket said:9 hours ago, Gator Stud said:
No, its the opposite. Smoking weed is the thing that stinks. Vaping weed smells like fresh flower and often has a nice aroma.
Ok..maybe to some people it smells like fresh flowers, to me it smells like skunk.
He said fresh flower, singular. Not fresh flowers. "Cannabis flower" is another term for the part of the marijuana that is smoked, and lots of people think it stinks.
(I had a feeling people wouldn't know the difference between "flower" and "flowers" in this context. Suffice to say vaped weed smells nothing like lilacs or magnolias.)
1 hour ago, Gator Stud said:I think the exact words were, "Austin vapes ALOT". Thats a lowkey way of calling someone a pothead.
Well, you said she called him a pothead on national TV, not that she implied he was a pothead, or spoke in code about his being a pothead. And if she was speaking this indirectly, it's unlikely people who aren't steeped in pot culture would get the reference/accusation.
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1 hour ago, Gator Stud said:
Then she called Austin a pothead on national TV without any evidence.
Did she?
17 hours ago, Elizzikra said:I just don't see that. First - Becca said Austin "vapes." That could mean weed. It could mean nicotine vapes.
I didn't take notes while watching the show or anything, but that's my recollection, too--nobody on the show has ever said what Austin vapes.
QuoteI'm guessing weed because Austin seemed stone a lot of the time, but who knows?
But vaping weed stinks. There's no way you can vape cannabis in the bathroom of an apartment you share with someone and they won't smell it. It's produced a stinky cloud over the entire island of Manhattan.
You even said you make people vape weed on your porch and not inside. (I'll leave aside the discussion of whether it's fair to make neighbors smell it for another day.)
I haven't used cannabis since the kinder, gentler, days of 1970s weed, but I'd much rather someone in my life vape weed every once in a while, the equivalent of having a drink occasionally, to vaping nicotine all day every day.
45 minutes ago, Hip-to-be-Square said:Thank you for the attached explanation of what vaping is- I'm going to stick to being a straight edge, but it seems to be a novel and very useful invention for people who do partake in weed.
I wish they'd use edibles. Those don't stink.
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Pet Peeves: Aka Things That Make You Go "Gah!"
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A sentence with "don't" in it is much different from one without the "don't." Argh.
My problem is that the differing background the post mentions is people who have advantages due to their backgrounds, and we're supposed to "work on creating a more aware and understanding relationship with them." Why do these people need to be coddled, and more importantly, HOW do we create a more aware and understanding relationship with them. And what is an "aware relationship"?
I went to college back when tuition was a couple of hundred bucks a semester. Hell, law school was like $350 a semester at a top tier school. My parents paid for it and I've never had any student debt. That's definitely an advantage due to my background (and the luck of timing). What steps are y'all supposed to take to create" a more aware and understanding relationship" with me? (Leaving aside the WHY I need to have more special treatment when I'm already skating on my advantage.)
Moreover, what good would it do to highlight this advantage in any discussions with me, other than to criticize me by saying, "You have no idea what a burden student debt is." How would it even come up?
This culture check, especially without any reference whatsoever to what caused it to be pertinent here, is just gobbledygook to me. I literally do not understand it. I don't understand why it's here, I don't understand who the beneficiaries of the policy who are being singled out are supposed to be, and I definitely don't understand what people are supposed to comply with the culture check.