Arya is not meant to be a faceless killer, she's gonna dump them eventually. Real wolves aside, humans are Arya's pack and she doesn't get along with them very well. Unless she changes that, she's in risk. I don't think GRRM wrote the "when the winter comes, the lonely wolf..." line by random chance. Kudos to GRRM for still write Arya as a sympathetic character, doesn't change the fact she's becoming a stone cold killer incapable of remorse. She might eventually reach a point of no return, no redemption.
Sansa was written to be weak, futile, naive. Gradually she's becoming something else entirely. GRRM must have big plans for her. He knows she's never going to be popular as Arya, and by making her succeed in the end is his way to make a point, just like killing the good and noble Eddard so early was to make a point.