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I don't believe it's anger with Vinny. I believe it's his insecurities. Those insecurities may manifest in anger but the root is insecurity. The anger is also a sign of immaturity and poor social skills because he can't express through words why he's frustrated and feels insecure. You hit the nail on the head with the other couples. Didn't consider that aspect with Eric but it's spot on. That would require her to have to know how to cook. I highly doubt she knows how to cook.

He's without a doubt struggling with her saying that. He's very calculated and serious in probably everything he does. I know I'm not attracted to women that say what she's saying. If she says I love you, is that real? Does she even know what that means? Am I just on a long list of guys she's said that to? That wouldn't make me feel very special about her saying I love you.

I'm done commenting on them as well. The advice by friends was spot on in this episode. Seems like the friends knew the weaknesses of their friends and like a true friend called them out on it.

Although I do think he's controlling, she has said nothing to give him confidence or trust in her decision making and really her thoughts on issues. She's extremely immature and also naive about pretty much everything I've seen on this show. I may not agree with how Erik is handling this situation but I can appreciate where he's coming from.

I'd be very shocked if there isn't a major blowup between these two. She likes the drama and he's either controlling or a know it all and maybe he's both.

So true, I'd be in Vincent's corner if he was complaining about the baby voice she does. He got very good advice in this episode and I hope he listens to it. He was being extremely immature about that whole situation.

Well she did say she met guys through dating apps. Pretty awful way to date from what I hear. To me hearing a woman say she's dated so many awful guys is a red flag for me. Not a deal breaker but red flag. If it's through dating apps I'd dismiss it. Going out with awful guys that you know to me shows you are a bad judge of character which tends to lead to poor decisions. But maybe that's why I'm single because I'm too picky judging decisions that females make when it comes to dating.

A common example of this is Daddy/daughter dances. Schools and churches hold these events. Maybe you don't like the term date but the principles still apply. I've seen dad's that do this and these women have very good standards for finding a man. They tend to avoid a lot of the men that are trash in this world.

It really depends on how the woman feels about her dad. If I woman has respect and has nice things to say about her dad then I'd take it as a compliment. If she has little respect and says negative things about her dad then I wouldn't like what the implications of what she's saying are. The psychology says women marry their dads. This is why fathers are encouraged to take their daughters on dates to show them how a man is suppose to act. How a man is suppose to be a gentleman. How a man is supposed to treat a woman.

Chris actually listened to what Eric had to say and then it was time for his rebuttal and Erik interrupted him. When someone dislikes you and you interrupt them you are really asking for all the drama that transpires after that. I'm still trying to figure out Erik. Is he just that dense in not realizing Chris really doesn't like him? Is the drunkenness clouding his judgement on everything? Does he really think he's the smartest person on the show? Or does he just like the drama and really wants to bring it out and it's easy for him to do with Chris? I liked Eric at the beginning of the show but he's almost impossible to like right now.

After last season's snooze fest I agree. Still pissed they'd put someone like Chris on the show though.

I struggle with this show because from the start we all knew who Chris was. So nothing he's done has shocked me, it's just confirmed what I already knew. He's still leading this dance in the most dislikable person on this show but Erik and Virginia are closing that gap quickly. I think I dislike Virginia more then Erik right now. I hate the "I've never been so" fill in the blank statements. She said I've never been so disrespected in my life and also never been called fake. Get out of here with that crap. I'm one of the most direct and blunt people out there and I've been called fake.

Plus Chris really doesn't like either of them. They are throwing gas on the fire by being drunk, confronting him and trying to be "nice" in their messed up way of supposedly being nice.

Anytime you don't worship the ground he walks on your being disrespectful.

To be fair that's got to suck having everyone support Paige and not him. None of these people know him or her so their basing those opinions off of first impressions which is one part I've never liked about this show. They are all strangers that make pretty quick judgements about each other. That all being said Chris is reaping what he's sowing. If people don't like you, you can choose to actually try and get them to like you but he has zero interest in that being a narcissist and all.