Meh... I'd say it made me a bit uncomfortable in that it seemed kind of forced, but I agree with the OP who said Zoey will likely look back at the video in 20 years and enjoy it... even though she probably won't remember it.
I don't like it when parents force their children into rigid "gender" roles. Let the kid develop his or her own interests. My parents did, and I turned out okay, certainly never a "girly" girl and still not one today, quite the opposite in fact. I've never understood the appeal of tea parties, but to each his own.
Just please, please, please don't make the kid wear those honking fugly flower hairbows that are bigger than her head!
Minor point. IIRC Zoey was seated on the hearth in front of the fireplace, not standing on it. She was sitting upright and for some reason (size, trunk strength, coordination, etc.?) tipped backwards and hit her head on the marble surround. Accidents happen. As Bill and Jen quickly learned, they can't pad every square inch of every surface in their house. If those two kids get through childhood without at least one trip to the ER for stitches or a broken bone they will be very fortunate. It's almost a rite of passage for most kids, and it's not always indicative of careless parenting.