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9 minutes ago, Sasha888 said:
And if you look closely, she's got a good hold on the back of poor Henchi's neck. He's not participating willingly.
I wish her cats would get the attitude mine has! My cat isn't going to do ANYTHING he doesn't want to do. A huge maine coon cat like mine will give you a swift kick if you try to force him into anything (and I only force him to do necessary things, like go to the vet).
As a pet lover, it disgusts me, the way she treats her cats. I wait for mine to come sit on my lap, by HIS choice, because that it what he wants. He doesn't want to be grabbed and picked up, and he certainly wouldn't put up with me shoving my face right in his face. He'd probably bite Twit right in the nose and give her some nice scratches with his back claws! I'd love to see that!
She's not fit to care for pets, let alone a child, and now she's on this adoption kick. I hope no adoption agency is stupid enough to give this wacko a child. No child should have to have her for a mother.
My cats would hate that too. God, it's so weird. Babs seemed embarrassed by that behavior.
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1 hour ago, TurtlePower said:
The Ugly Crying Face kinda reminds of this--now, if we could just insert some rabbit teeth into this image it'd be perfect. Yes, it's the Stay Puft Marshmallow man (which we've discussed her crying face resembling previously).
Aw, he's so ugly, he's cute. Unlike Whitney's crybaby face. We need a caption contest
1 hour ago, ClareWalks said:The fact that Whitney cares more about the appearance of loose skin than her personal comfort and HEALTH really speaks volumes for her lack of maturity. And sorry, but does she think she really looks better with that much flab? At least loose skin can be covered by clothes, as others have pointed out she can't even cover her body properly anymore.
Yep. At least you can spanx the loose skin so it's not so apparent. Committing to a fitness program would help tone whatever muscles lie beneath too.
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1 hour ago, LordOfLotion said:
It could partially be a matter of taking dozens of pictures until you get just the right angle and light. You can use all the filters you want, but nothing is going to say, fix asymmetry. Her right eyebrow is higher than her left, so when she tilts the right side to the camera like that, she appears more symmetrical than she really is and more attractive. Plus she is lying down so all the fat falls back. I know this stuff because I'm incredibly vain and I do it myself.
I've tried this but without success. I think I need some type of industrial apparatus to lift and shift everything.
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2 hours ago, Emma C said:
I will officially volunteer to drink Buddy's share of alcohol. Order may now be restored in the Universe. You're welcome.
What about the hookers and blow?
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3 minutes ago, SunnyBeBe said:
Some people get really attached to pets. As Whit said, no matter the pet, they consider it a member of the family. I get it. I don't see the attraction to pigs as pets, but, to each his own. Apparently, Babs adored him. I do suspect the tears were freely let go though, for the cameras. I mean, you can't ignore an opportunity like that.
I don't fault Whit for the pig getting sick. It does happen and since many pigs live perfectly fine lives on farms, getting a pig condition that is fatal is sad, but, not horrific. Despite what pig owners say about them and how great they are...have you ever actually been in a home where they live? I have and those that I saw are not good pets. I think these pig pet fans have exceptional pigs or they exaggerate their experiences. This is based on what I have seen personally with pigs as pets in a home environment. Granted, there maybe exceptions. Apparently, Babs's piggy was a handful for her too and perhaps much more of a challenge than they expected. Whit's fault for not researching it, but, I suspect it was really producer driven, so, I'll give her a pass on that.
I agree. I've lived on a farm and in the country for most of my life and view pigs as livestock rather than pets. We haven't had livestock on our farm for quite a while, but many of our friends and neighbors do. Unfortunately, even under the best conditions, they can become ill and die. It's not much different than people getting flu shots but coming down with it anyhow. From what we're shown, the rescue seemed legit and unless we're shown otherwise, I won't jump to the conclusion that they were negligent with Piggy's care.
Personally, I wouldn't want a pig running around in the house. My dog and cats can be quite a handful to care for at times.
8 minutes ago, Lynnlynnlynn586 said:I successfully had weight loss surgery like 6 or 7 years ago and recommended to Twit on her instagram her peeps got mad at me and she blocked me LOL oh well!!
I can't believe how shitty she is to people who are only offering helpful advice or disagree with her "fat is fabulous" mantra.
17 hours ago, TurtlePower said:And, enter Ugly Crying Face. Wouldn't be an episode without THAT. Yeah, it makes me laugh too.
She really does take some unflattering pictures, doesn't she? I'm not supermodel either, but damn...
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44 minutes ago, bichonblitz said:
I think what that meant was the he would have spent 13k on drugs if he was still using. So in essence, he saved it but not really. There's no way Buddy could save that much in 8 mos. He doesn't strike me as a saving kind of guy.
Yeah, that's what I figured, and no, he doesn't strike me a real money saver either.
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On 3/8/2018 at 5:46 PM, MegD said:
When you've got the body, go for it. When you're overweight and not in great shape (even if you are losing weight), there are certain cuts that aren't body friendly, especially if it's got no boning to give the dress structure and help to keep things in place and you live in DDD territory. That was what I meant by the "looking desperate" comment. There's a difference between dressing sexy and age appropriate because you look good and you've worked hard and dressing like you still want to believe you're in high school or college and you're ignoring your cellulite and batwings. This one was definitely more of a younger market / woman in shape style. It bordered on prom dress had the slit not been so high. The fabric was also really prom dress feeling though. Dress in question:
Doesn't help that it's Vera Wang so it's cut crazy small (we ended up taking 12 inches out of the dress after my weight loss, we took 2 off the belt, wtf?).
Bridal dresses seem to run small in general, in my opinion. No vanity sizing there! That is a pretty dress but it would limit people due to the cut. I wouldn't feel comfortable in it based on my current body. Now if I worked my ass off, like Cherekov does, hell yes, I would rock the shit out of that dress!
I perceived the "desperate walking stick" comment as a reference to the sister-in-law's attitude. She sounds pretty snotty. It's pretty petty to not want your future sister-in-law in your wedding party based solely on her weight. Best of luck to your brother.
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On 3/1/2018 at 3:25 PM, LuvMyShows said:
Awesome, MegD...keep it up!!!
I'm sensing from the replies that people have had different 'aha' moments that were their turning point. Whit has surpassed those many times over, and still hasn't come to her senses. I'm wondering if she's being figuratively handcuffed by her "No BS" mantra, and feels like "I can't go back on it now and admit that there really is no such thing as healthy at any weight."
I don't get that vibe from Whitney. She just strikes me as having the attitude of "I'll do whatever the hell I want, consequences be damned". The cynical part of me believes that TLC would love to see her go through such a huge life changing transition like that.
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On 3/1/2018 at 1:04 PM, LuvMyShows said:
I have a genuine question, and please don't hate on me for it, but it's something that just occurred to me from reading the responses to this episode. Quite a few of the posters to this show have said they are somewhat-to-significantly overweight. And there is lots of advice given about what Whit's family should do to somehow get her to lose weight. But I'm curious if any of that ever worked for you, and if it hasn't, why not, and why should it work in Whit's case? Likewise with the physical state that Whitney is in...it seems that people are saying that she should be taking such-and-such event as a wake-up call that she needs to lose weight. But what are those posters waiting for in terms of a wake-up call in their own lives, and why have other events not caused the weight loss decision? I have sincere curiosity and would hope to get some sincere answers.
The turning points for me are the realization that carrying around 25-30 extra lbs. is very likely to shorten my life span, reduce my ability with certain activities and being disgusted with my physical appearance. I've struggled with my weight starting in my 40's and it's really a day to day issue with me. Things that work for me are using plastic containers with premeasured amounts of food (one serving), using measuring spoons and cups when I'm preparing them, weighing myself once a week, using a pedometer to track my steps and having "goal clothes". I've attended a great wellness class that taught me about good and bad fats, carbs, proteins, how many calories I should consume to lose weight, etc. In addition, I try to be more aware of what's going on when I'm eating (emotionally). I did lose about 40 lbs. for several years using those methods, but regained about 20 as of today, The regain was from me gradually getting away from good eating habits. So, my current plan is to lose at least 20 lbs. which would put me at 155 lbs.
What really upsets me, is Whitney's message about fat acceptance is perfectly healthy and anyone who believes otherwise is a fat-shamer.
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19 hours ago, Snarkastikate said:
Stupid question ...... but damn, why is Whitney's midriff bare like 90% of the time.
I know. I've got a gut and wouldn't even walk around the house without covering it up.
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On 3/11/2018 at 1:48 PM, Dave James said:
The episode with her trying to SKI was very funny and disturbing @ the same time. because the way she just laid there screaming for help. Anyone notice that it was ski staff not her friends that help her.
Ugh, the drama! I think her friends are really over a lot of her BS. Poor Lennie, he weighs about 160 and he's supposed to lift 380lbs.? Whitney ordering the camera man to stop filming and help her? Skis are bitch to get up from when you're at a normal weight. I can't imagine that she really believed that she would shushing down the slopes.
19 hours ago, PityFree said:I’m watching the “extras” episode and... Whitney’s too wide for the elliptical machine.
Probably too heavy too. I've got an elliptical at home and I think I would break it if I weighed 380 lbs.
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1 hour ago, Ravenna said:
Buddy's IG page states he's been sober for 8 months, but he's already has a new girlfriend *insert confused face* Wasn't Buddy's lament that he's waiting to be sober for a full year or so before getting into a romantic relationship again? Becuz according to Bud: all dems women waz triggin' him to snort n' get dronks.
PS. Since he's saved over $13k, he's able to pay back some of the rent to Twit. Eh, Buddy boy?
Wow, he's saved 13K? No shit he should be paying back Whitney and Mom and Dad. Hopefully he has, or is in the process of doing that. Does anyone know if he has a job yet?
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3 hours ago, Brooks said:
Is this the first we've seen of a side or back yard? Pretty barren. I have kind of been wondering who was doing the yardwork.
The blueberry bushes won't last long. Both the one or more she stuck in the ground without improving the soil and the rest that never made it out of their pots. Of course she doesn't know what she's doing. She could have asked at the nursery.
Oh yeah, you know those plants didn't last a week. Because watering them is soooooooooooo hard, makes her feet hurt, interferes with her dance career, blah, blah, blah.
5 hours ago, jennylauren123 said:Wait. Wait. Let me get this straight: Buddy got not one but TWO women to sleep with him?!
I'm sure he can be available, Jennylauren. Wink, wink.
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9 hours ago, Alapaki said:
I’m not blaming the farm, per se.
But clearly the pig contracted the bacteria there.
And when you look at the manner of transmission or triggers for the bacteria becoming pathological, they include exposure to other pigs’ feces, change of diet, stress from a move.
It seems that Whitney took a pig whom they chose to domesticate, and whose immune system was not accustomed to exposure to other animals that carry this bacteria, and threw the pig into a situation that was not going to be healthy for it.
And all for a storyline for this lame season.
I was also wondering about how strong his immune system was in that situation. You brought up some good points about diet, stress, etc. With such a messed up timeline, I don't think we'll ever know how long Piggy was at the rescue before he died. Poor Piggy. Poor Babs too. I'm still pissed that Whitney allowed the crew to film that scene.
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2 minutes ago, Alapaki said:
Piggy died of Erysipelas according to the phone call.
I read about it on this site.
Read the page on it at the link above, and tell me that they didn't all but kill the pig by sending it to that farm.
I can't blame the farm. The article said the symptoms come on rapidly and that sometimes, death is the only symptom. Sort of like swine flu? (I'm not making light of Piggy's death, BTW).
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2 minutes ago, aliya said:
Am I missing something - Twit has tons of food on the counter and what, 4 people coming over?
That did seem like a lot of food, but maybe this was going on for awhile and they had to skip a meal. I'm pretty sure it wasn't after 9 either...
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1 minute ago, Dot said:
Is this what killed Piggy? (I haven't seen the episode.) Did the farm explain how he cotracted it?
They didn't explain how Piggy contracted it. It sounds like a very fast acting bacterial infection and the rescue wasn't able to get him to the vet in time. I hope they don't start blaming the rescue.
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16 minutes ago, MissCurmudgeonly said:
Some thoughts -
- Buddy is annoying, and boring as hell. Don't care about him at all.
- Why is this Buddy/Heather thing going ON and ON and ON? I forget how the breakup happened - did he sit down and talk to her and say hey, it's over?
- Heather is ridiculous. Reading that card from Buddy? Boring.
- Buddy saying that he "just doesn't want to deal with it" meaning Heather. Dude, just deal with it once and for all, and everyone be done.
- WTF is she doing with that shovel??
QuoteWTF is she doing with that shovel?
Her version of manual labor. Or training to keep on shoveling the bullshit that is her fabulous life.
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5 hours ago, cherenkov said:
He's connected to them somehow. I will never believe for a second that he was a random person who just turned up to give that pep talk about the starting being harder than the finishing stuff.
Yeah he was really trying to sell it. Too bad Whit was so distracted by her unGodly foot pain.
On 3/12/2018 at 12:31 PM, Emmeline said:I had no idea he wanted to be an actor. No wonder he’s been featured on the show so much this year. I thought he moved back home to help out with his mom after the stroke.
I know what you mean about the hair. It’s a current style trend. Shaved short on the sides and back, really long on top. It looks good on some guys but Hunter isn’t one of them.
I agree, that is not a good look for him.
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2 minutes ago, AegisGale said:
-gasps- But all his issues that absolve him from any responsibility even at over 30 years old. Him and Whit aren't actually awful people.
Maybe they should hook up, after all they have so much in common. Parents footing the bills, addictive behaviors/unhealthy lifestyles, unwillingness to own their bad behavior, emotional cluelessness, no real jobs to speak of now that Buddy can no longer tend bar, treating their friends kind of shitty-what else am I forgetting?
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7 minutes ago, AegisGale said:
-In on of the previous episodes Buddy says women/romantic relationships iirc are a trigger for his using- Then in a preview for the next episode it showed him admitting that while he was with Heather/stringing her along he started a new relationship with some other chick.......it seems like part of his drug usage could have been more of a way to assuage himself of guilt. Since why would you jump/be in another relationship WHEN YOU JUST SAID that is something that tempts you to do drugs??? Like they tried to make us be sympathetic to him but he's throwing himself into these things.
He really tries to avoid admitting that he acted like a dick. Just admit it already.
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5 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:
Especially if they’re splitting the value of one item.
How would one go about enforcing that, too? I mean, if I find a cool item, like the cross, maybe I'll just slip it into my pocket. And how is the monetary amount figured? I really need to stop drinking caffeine in the evening.
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6 minutes ago, hoosiermom said:
When he was in Hawaii he talked about the fact he would still drink now and then and it wouldn’t be a problem. I am thinking that had be his take on the situation and not what he actually learned in rehab.
Oh I had forgotten that. Buddy really needs to get himself a real life. Mom and dad pay for his phone but he's laughing about " hookers and blow". Really dude??
5 minutes ago, 3girlsforus said:What worries me is that she would do it for the attention because during a pregnancy or adoption process you get a lot of attention. Then the attention would go away and her child would just be another of her animal collection barely being cared for.
She could always pawn the baby off to Babs and Glenn. Glenn would be in granddaddy heaven.
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3 minutes ago, 3girlsforus said:
And videos. You just know she’s got some videos
Oh hell yes.
Social Media: What's Up With Her?
in My Big Fat Fabulous Life
How does she find the time to fit all of these damn cruises into her overwhelmingly busy life?