How can you want the gender roles but don't want it all. I see nothing wrong with wanting your husband to be the provider...He wants her to do all the chores and pay half the bills .. If you want 50/50 all should be 50/50 chores and bills...
I was pissed she wanted to stay with him...I will have 25 yrs on my job in November.. I see nothing wrong with having a plan for the future ..