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    That makes her even more of a jerk. She's cheating on Aiden and keeping him around even though she doesn't really love him, for when her affair with her real true love falls apart? That's not regular old behavior to me. 

    She wants to have her cake and eat it as well.

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    Big owes her, because he is the one breaking their marriage vows. Natasha certainly has the right to hate Carrie, but her husband is the one who is betraying her.

    Except Carrie is complicit in that betrayal. Repeatedly.

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    And Carrie has one instance, so I guess it's a tie?

    Not really. Carrie was having a long term affair with a married man while Carrie herself was in a relationship with another man.

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    She kept saying yes because she is in love with him. Big knows how Carrie feels about him, and he actively chases after her while married. She tried to resist him and push him away but he is her kryptonite.

    That isn't, nor should it be, an excuse to fuck a married man, regardless of whether you are in love with him. It shouldn't excuse it nor should it justify her actions. Does it make for good soap opera? Sure it does. But it doesn't make the protagonist any less of an asshole.

    I get it. Not everyone is on the Carrie Hate Train. But for me, between the whole Big/Natasha affair, the bullshit bagel apology, Ring a Ding Ding, and so many other things, I've booked a lifetime first class suite on that train. And I say this as someone who actually enjoyed Carrie in the first 2 seasons (more or less).

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    He deserved better.

    He certainly did.

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    But I don't feel that being in the apartment made her any more of an asshole than she already was for having an affair with a married man. 

    It certainly adds on to it, for me. It just makes her a bigger asshole. And it doesn't get better from there.

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    She doesn't owe Natasha crap - Big is the one cheating on his wife.

    For fucking Natasha's husband and doing the deed in Natasha's bed? I'd say she owes Natasha something.

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    Samantha had affairs with married men

    Willingly and knowingly? I don't quite remember it that way, except for one instance.

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    Carrie has an affair with a man she's been in love with for some time, a man who pursued her after he went and foolishly got married to someone he obviously is not in love with, and she gets vilified.

    Was he pointing a gun at her head all the times he repeatedly stuck his married penis into her vagina?

    He may have pursued her, but she didn't have to (repeatedly) keep saying yes.

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    but Carrie did think that Natasha was out of town

    That...doesn't make it ok.

    Love might make people do stupid things, but it isn't a justification for being an asshole.

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    I still think this is a front to launder money

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     One that is not really a business, but a front for laundering money?

    Hmmmm, interesting. Good scam if you can make it work, I guess.

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    All you have to do is scroll down her FB page and it is very obvious from her posts that she lives in Canada. She has posted various info referring to where she lives.  I have paid custom fees when ordering something from the states, it depends on what I am ordering if fees apply. As I said, if the review was bogus (and I don't think it is) anyone on Dorito's BB website could refute the info. They didn't. And giving a negative review here is different (since we are anonymous) than on FB where you are using your real name, etc. Assuming this person is a real person, as I doubt very much that she has created a fake life,  friends and history of posts  just to give Dorito a bad review.

    Yeah, I doubt someone would do all of that as well.

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    Yes, one could say she "chose" him to have a child with, she wasn't using any precautions to prevent getting pregnant (Jason didn't either). They both knew the risk and played the odds. she got pregnant, they got married and the rest is still being written. 

    That isn't a choice, that's playing the odds and losing.

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    If we all need to confirm it, then I will say it. I thought Bethenny married Jason because she was pregnant and because at the time, she was locked into the mindset that a successful woman had to be married and had to have a child or else she wasn't fulfilled. I don't think she was taken advantage of because she's an adult and there was no gun to her head. No one deserves a crummy marriage, no one asks for a relationship to fail, but Bethenny definitely made poor decisions along the way. She was not taken advantage of.

    Luann, like Bethenny, is a grown ass woman who was capable of seeing the red flags in the Tom situation. No one deserves a crummy marriage, no one asks for a relationship to fail, but Luanne made some poor decisions along the way. She was not taken advantage of. 

    The sad reality is that dumb decisions and poor decisions sometimes have shitty consequences. Neither woman deserves a prize for their choices.

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    I think it comes in with Tom is that everyone warned her. Also,  she was sleepy about it and seemed to get off on the fact that she "stole" him from Sonia. Lu was cruel and she got what she deserved.

    There is that too. Plus, she didn't just steal him from Sonja, she also stole him form whoever he was on a date with the night she met him.

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  7. Bethenny got knocked up, so I'm not sure one could say she "chose" him to have a child with, per se.

    Were there rumors about Jason banging every other woman in NYC that Bethenny chose to ignore before they got married? Was there a pic of Jason making out with a woman weeks after he and Bethenny got engaged that she saw and then chose to ignore?

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  8. To be fair, the women do explore and visit the cities they are in. For all the drama, we do get to see some nice tours and scenery of each city (even on the the last RHONJ trip showed us some nice parts of Milan). The problem isn't the women, it's what the producers decide to show us. Much like with Teddi's sleepover, when we only saw like 30 seconds of the girls drunken slumber party. As much as we want to see the travel, scenery, and food porn, this isn't The Condé Nast Traveler Real Housewives Edition.

    And from the clips above, they do seem to at least give some coverage to the women out and about in Berlin.

    The more drama free trips tend to be the ones that involve less women (think Ericka and Kyle in Greece, or Ericka and Rinna in Japan, or Yolanda and Kyle in Spain before the Bella-DUI call); you get the lovely travel porn and less or no fighting. Too bad we didn't see any of Kyle in Croatia.

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    How is it that most of us here can, and do, read every comment posted about these housewives, and agree, or disagree, without too many feuds or rancor; yet these pampered and overpaid TeeVee "housewives" cannot seem to listen to each other for one hot minute before becoming unraveled?  If I were lucky enough to travel to a foreign country, I'd be too busy enjoying the sights and the food to bother nitpicking my travelling companions (First Class, Business Class - I'll just be sitting on my lawn chair bolted to the effing airplane wing!!!).

    They're getting paid to, and we aren't.

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