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I agree 100%. Sam is so worried about not being girly. She also doesn't know her audience. -it feels like she can't imagine the experts/yv audience would disagree with her. In her mind- Neil isn't attractive to her -so Neil isn't an attractive man. Neil and maybe David so remind me of who women marry for the 2nd (lasting) marriage. First they married some alpha guy who thought he was all that-maybe because he was. But, alpha dude who has it all-isn't someone who you can be a friend with-laugh with you thru the non-attractive times like when you're puking on the floor in the bathroom.

hi, I'm new! I'm obsessed with this show-from the first season and I need an outlet. My thoughts- 1. So what if Tres had a lot of dates/fun-get it out of your system before you get married. A lot easier to be grateful for the marriage you have-if you went around the block of singlehood and realized what you're NOT missing out on. 2. Agree about Sam being BSC. (bat s crazy) She needs an assertive husband. She needs someone to call her out and hold her accountable. She does not need to run free with her crazy thoughts. She may not like him wanting to be 50/50 now-but if/when they have children-she'd find that all kinds of sexy. When I was single I always thought about who I'd want in the delivery room with me-and I'd much rather Neal than Tres. 3. OMG with the 'consummate' my marriage. Tres-how about not saying "I consummated the H out of my marriage"-his wife is a lady and would not want all of America knowing it to that extreme. So immature. If my husband even said that to a group of friends that would be the last 'consummating' that'd be going on in our bedroom.