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  1. Oh boy,,,, I sure am getting the feeling from this night date with Leslie that Gerry has started leaning heavily towards the Theresa side of his dual heart love. Leslie sure is making it a tremendous feat of bravery to have to tell her she is not the one, if he does not pick her. I sure would not want to be him.

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  2. Theresa also wears those shorty short shorts. I have tried to wear mine over the past….. decade lol, but legs just arent the same as my hay days, and those flapping upper knees! And I was as skinny as she is! Skinny does not mean you can still wear shorty shorts and look good. Old ladies in super shorty shorts is crazy!

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  3. Oh Gerry. I thought there was a little extra perk up in your eye area when you heard about Theresas financial talents. I just wish she kept that to herself and not given him any hints of probable financial security she most likely has, seeing as how she seemed very confident in that aspect, when he wanted to get to know these last two on a deeper level before picking his “winner”. 

    He doesn’t sound like he can even afford to HAVE a girlfriend, making his ex girlfriend secretly pay up front for a dinner date so he can appear as if he was the generous spender in public. Not enough cash to even fake it at the restaurant until she could pay up later? All dinners were to be separately paid for except for special occasions. What a catch! 

     Now I REALLY think he is going to pick Theresa. 

    I wonder what she thinks now that this information about him has come out.

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  4. 1 hour ago, Baltimore Betty said:

    100% agree with you about those male strip shows, I do not consider myself a prude or pearl clutcher but I do not like the crotch in face sort of thing.  I think Erika arranged her part with the dancer because I think she was treating that moment as an audition for her Vegas show.

    Sutton could have just leaned over to the others and said she was going to the ladies room and then left but she sort did leave in a huff, the others picked up on her huff.

    Sassy, I love your kitty cat.

    I think the huff Sutton left in, was because of the disgusting outrageous action Erica performed without a second thought in front of her face. It was shocking and not in a good way. It was Humiliating and embarrassing to be associated with someone like that in a “friend group”. 

    She was disgusted at Ericas readiness to be disgusting, and couldn’t hide it. After all…it was Suttons birthday gift to Crystal, taking them all on that birthday vacation and then Erica had to go and make a disgusting spectacle of herself when in Suttons mind, she wanted to go all out, Top quality, luxury accommodations and foodie menus, “ Elegant” and probably mostly on her dime. Erica had to go and stick a raunchy pig rutting show in the middle of it and make it about her own desire to be an over the top sexual exhibitionist. Sheesh. I would be upset with her too. 

    How many times can I think, or write the word disgusting. Apparently as many times as needed to describe Erica or her ways. Endless.

    I love your Kitty Too Baltimore Betty! Cornish rex hold a dear place in my heart. I’ve had one in the past, myself. 

    And boy! Kyle sure can order up the whole menu of the most expensive items when someone else’s dime is paying for it. Sheesh! For someone who doesnt eat much, all the items she ordered was like she was the birthday girl having her last meal on earth and she was going to go all out dammit! 
    I’d have been embarrassed to order what Kyle ordered on someone else’s dime. So tacky.

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  5. I vowed to not watch this season and only read here, but I was intrigued reading about the male stripper show and the slut-pig (a phrase coined by Kyle and Kim) and Suttons reaction to it, so I “slipped” and watched it.

     

    I completely get Suttons reaction. I too would be horrified being associated with such a disgusting display as Erica put on, so easily “100% getting into it” at the drop of a hat. How embarrassing and I would be humiliated and sickened if my real peers, friend group, ever saw me associating myself with such trash (and enjoying it). Birds of a feather flock together and all that. I can see why Sutton removed herself immediately from that public display of really porny bad taste. Also that she immediately thought about what her ballet friends would think of her, seeing her association with the likes of Erica the easy spreader with lust filled facial expressions, to boot. Akkk! 

    Don’t drag me into scenes like this, you low life scum bucket. 

    And screw you Kyle for magnifying it and blaming Sutton for not wanting to be included in the Ho-like performance, and just pretend it didn’t bother her. Erica was horrifying! At least Crystal was giggly and shy about the stage scene. I don’t think she would normally go along with that and be smiley about it. She is just terrified the others will attack her too, so she felt she had to pretend it was no big deal. (It was). I wonder what her husband thinks of the whole thing. Shes got those young kids too. 

    She was not offended that they didn’t ask her to join them on stage (I am also sure Erica told them not to ask her (to make her feel like the undesirable one out of the group) Thank God for that! 

    She had no clue the “show” would drop to that level of bad taste and that is why she said she wore pants for nothing. Just incase they did invite her on stage for what “normal” male strip show does. I’ve been to one and they can be fun, (as long as I am not picked to be gyrated at.)

    Cripe! I have never ever seen or heard of a male stripper show like that one was!

    I cant even stand the way the men come up to women in the audience and start those snakelike gyrations inches away from someones face. 

    NO THANK YOU! Its a huge turn off to me. Call me a prude or whatever you wish to. Yep, thats me if thats the definition of this scenario. A pearl clutching, gagging prude, who would walk away before associating myself with it. 

    Let the others whoop it up and enjoy it if they do, but leave me out. I”ll catch you later after it’s done. No problem with what others find entertaining on a show I am contracted to be on…but I would choose not to participate.

    Sutton does have a side mind to what her public persona is seen as, and thats why she was the one to quickly contact her lawyer about whether or not she, or the others would be somehow included in the bad press Erica and Toms GRAND LARCENY would possibly involve them in. 

    Dorit is an ass to say  a whole year has gone by so therefore Garcelle should “be over it” by then.

    Screw you Dorit. 

    You can damn well better believe I would NEVER forget or get over something like that. Witness cruelty to my young kid and then sit there and laugh about it on camera… you can bet you would never ever be trusted with whats most important to me ever again. Whats more important than people own children? Nothing.

    If anyone ever said or did things like that concerning Dorits kids, do you think she would just wave it off after a year as water under the bridge? 

    Not a chance, so shut up Dorit. The tone of voice she reserves only for Garcelle is disgusting, and undeserved too.

    This is why I cant watch this. It gets me too riled up.

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  6. I am liking this Theresa tonight. She seemed more relaxed than she has been for the entire time. She is much more of a grown-up than Leslie, thats for sure. I am glad that Gerry wanted to ask the pertinent questions tonight that were never brought up before now. I like that he felt that it was important to ask these questions and not just have his head swirling with only romance for a fantasy suite night. 

    Leslie maybe a bit easier to look at, but Theresa looked good for her age too, fit and skinny boned but not TOO overly bony for her tiny frame. She could stand to gain 10 lbs.

    Even at the end if the night between he and Theresa, I thought he was obviously more attracted physically to Leslie. 

    Is he in it for outward looks… or whats good for a more stable future with someone who has taken care of her self quite well, on her own. 

    Leslie just seems so much more childish and air headed than Theresa and Theresa is much more grounded in life than she appeared to be during this whole season. 

    I think Theresa surprised him more than he ever thought she could. She played it pretty cool too, which I am glad for. Though Leslie is very nice and the better looking of the two, I do hope he picks Theresa. 

    Intelligence is the biggest turn on for me. Some men too, lol. Is he going to be one of those kind of men? 

    I think Theresa has hidden depths of intelligence and wisdom that now that it is whittled down to two, is apparent to Gerry.
    I really just want him to listen to the advice to pick the one he can’t live without. That way, he won’t have to spend time second guessing himself, after the fact. 
    The heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes there is no reasoning with it. 
    I have no clue of what his “list” of what he was looking for consisted of before he started this “journey” of his. It would be the best bet to stick to that plan and should make his choice for the long run, easier.

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  7. Thank you ladies for the hugs and sympathy for my broken arm. It has been healed now, since mid/end of Sept and no, it never will be the same. The dr even confirmed that would be so, when I had my first appt after the fall. Thankfully no surgery was needed.

    I am glad I already had one of those extended grabber arm things for getting things out of high up cupboards. It came in handy and will be used more often now heeheehee. 

    I took a nap and woke up one half hr before the end of the WTA, so I will have to hulu it all later. I do understand Faiths tears. I probably would have kind of broke down like she did when reunited with him, no matter who was watching. Thats some real genuine response, much like it seems all the women had tonight (that I saw so far). Age and life will do that to you and pull all the facades off and away from you at this point and it sure feels good to be 100% real, once you reach that point where you drop all pretense and allow your full real personality to just be. Whether someone else approves or not. So very freeing! 

    The ladies were great and I am sure they all made some real and life long new friendships with each other. For however life long will last for these golden girls. 

    I was just as surprised as everyone else when he picked Theresa, but I do think she is his best bet in the long run. 

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  8. 13 minutes ago, nlkm9 said:

    I happen to sell medical alerts for a living and falls can be so devestating.

    53 minutes ago, deSchenke said:

    At 67, had my fall recently in July. Each year of life adds to the overall gravitational pull on a person and I went down like a lead freight train. Managed to wangle my way out of the odd position my arm landed in and get up. I knew it would never be the same arm again, right then and there. Called my daughter and went to hospital where my arm/shoulder was broken in 3 places.

    Be careful ladies/gentlemen. Its a doozy when you fall at this age. 

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  9. 11 minutes ago, Armchair Critic said:

    We are getting a "Women Tell All" episode next week 👀

    From the Preview it does look like the women are all very polished and ready for it. They all seemed to get along very well in the house and there will be little need for drama. It will be a rare WTA where decorum is the main vibe. 
    What a nice change of pace that would be. 

    Except maybe for the drama Kathy may pull if the producers goad her enough or pay her a bonus to enact, because thats just what they do. 

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  10. When it gets right down to it, I think that Theresa would be the best one for him to pick. She may be a bit whacky, but she certainly is whacky for him, and would probably spend her days doting on him. He does seem like the kind of guy that wants someone who’s all goo goo eyed over him. 

    She would spend her days trying to please him. 

    Cooking, doing his laundry, cleaning the house, all the mundane basics that a lot of men have pretend incompetence in executing when a female is around to say…. “Oh just let me do it (the right way).” Lots of those types in the Golden generation out there now. On both sides. 
    I’d never fall for it heehee, thats for sure! 

    She is desperate to win him and seems like she would bend over backwards to make him happy he chose her. 

    If he is smart… he would pick Theresa. 

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  11. Leslie should have had a bit of lipstick on when he was visiting her. She looked tired and like she just woke up, and now was the time to try to be the best you can be if you are striving to be the “winner”.

    I think he is ready to let Theresa go and thats why he is having such a hard time giving out the last rose. He knows shes just going to crumble and doesn't want to be the one to cause it. If he doesn’t pick her, he should have long ago realized she wasn’t someone to keep giving hope to. We all did, watching her from our living rooms. 

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  12. I think of financial freedom as simply living life the way you want and not having to worry about money. Being in service to a great paying job you still work at and love and want to continue working at. Inherited, good investments, or saved wealth. Or as a retired from the working scene person who won the lottery or something. Unless they are a lottery winner who stupidly spends and loses it all in a short period of time and cuts their “lifetime of no $$ worries” short. 

    It also could be a ton of money, or just enough for someone to live their life out with the necessities and a little extra padding taken care of, for those who crave a simpler existence. It is in the eye of the beholder and what would be enough for them.

    To me, Financial freedom is someone who can do what they want and not be held back by any worry that the money they have will run out for the lifestyle they wish to live. 

    Now working with what Sutton has to work with, she could easily live a very extravagant lifestyle, and have enough to invest and grow it to give her kids one heck of a head start to their own financial freedom lifestyle of choice. Plus be able to put time into a hobby, or thing she loves and hopes to make a profit while sharing her hobby, personal likes, with others that may share that interest.

    No matter how small the demand for such same subject interests may be out there in the rest of the world. There are always a few out there who have the same tastes, interests, or hobby and possibly very little places to go, to be able to acquire information or products for it. 

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  13. 6 hours ago, libgirl2 said:

    For some reason, I can't quote. I wanted to mention the heels. I really don't wear them anymore (I'm 58) because I just can't. I have plenty of cute flat shoes. But, coming from a Hispanic family, many women will live and die with heels. My cousins still wear them and they are older than I am. My mom was wearing heels in her late 70s. 

    Ha! The last time I put heels on was when I was having a bout of what I thought was plantar fasciitis, about 10 years ago. I thought the heels would give the sole of my foot the stretch it felt like it needed. It did! It worked. I haven’t had another bout of it again, but I have saved a pair of heels for it, just in case. Just indoor walking, not out and about.

    A good thing for old geezers to know 😉👠👡

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  14. 1 minute ago, LennieBriscoe said:

    I had an epiphany in watching this episode, and I'm not proud of it. But confession is good for the soul, so....

    I don't like viewing geezers like me getting all smoochy-smoochy! Bleagh! 

     

    Lol! I know! Its hard enough looking at the young ones. I am a geezer, and couldn’t stand watching it either! 

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  15. As soon as Mason was “I’m going to take you down with me” to Austin, I thought for sure the extra heapin helping of pain relief he was demanding earlier for, was going to be what Austin came back into the room to accommodate him with. 

    He is choosing the ole pillow over the face method instead. Did anyone see who it was who was watching behind the semi closed blinds? I couldn’t tell. If it was TJ, then Austins antics will secretly be applauded by him and leave Jordan wondering if her son is a murderer, after the last conversation they had. 

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  16. How incredibly rude of Kat to toss that birthday cake in the ocean. It was obviously made with care by the cooks who joined in to sing and wish her Happy Birthday, as it was so beautifully decorated with the little fruit carvings on the top. I am sure others wanted to have a slice, but no. She just immediately picks it up and heaves the good intentions of all the rest of the well wishers right out, like garbage, into the water.

    What a self absorbed jerk she is …. Again.

    The self proclaimed Ken doll lost his spot at the resort, where he certainly gave off the impression he has a very high opinion of himself. The look of humility on his face when he ended up roseless at the rose ceremony was probably a new experience for him. 

    It was nice to see Rachel drop her demanding, guarded and whiney pretentiousness with that wild and crazy guy, Brayden. Continue with the fun and chilled out attitude Rachel. It’s a good look for once. 

    I agree that Olivia is annoying as “spokeswoman” for the beach goers activities. They should split up the commentators role between all the romance seekers. Olivia is as annoying as Demi was when they kept her front and center as someone who dispenses the wisdom, as overseer of the groups dynamics. Nope. Trying too hard to be cutesy.

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