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Gem 10

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  1. 2 hours ago, configdotsys said:

    Since he was recruited for the show, I'm going with the agenda angle and don't even watch their segments anymore because the reek of a setup.

    Or, she said, "Fine, I'll go on the show to honor my contract but will say....." and they decided it's better to leave her off.

    I truly hope she is not pregnant with Greg's child. I don't believe for a minute that he's perfect, but from what we have seen, he deserves better than stiff, joyless, win-at-all-cost-I-call-all-the-shots, sex once every 45 days Deonna.

    In my opinion, there is something seriously wrong with a person who is so affected by a teen romance that breaks up that they swear off the world for 10 years and when they resume looking for love, they choose to marry a stranger on television as their re-entry. Just as Iris's entire being is wrapped up in being a virgin, Deonna's entire being-- at 30!-- is wrapped up in the heartbreak she felt when a teenage relationship ended. She has not advanced from being a teenager. She has no experience in developing adult relationships, compromising or taking someone else's feelings into consideration. Greg, at 30-something is looking for a wife, not a project. We need Jessie from 90 Days to talk show up and say to Deonna, "Hey, work on yourself, babe," every time she takes a superior tone with Greg.

    Excellent description of Deonna.  Joyless and calls the shots.  Who on this board hasn’t had a broken heart when we were younger?  I had a break up after five years as a teen.  I thought I would die.  He came home from the Army and just wanted to hang with his friends at the bar and drink.  I met the husband at work and was dating both of them at the same time.  I chose the husband, thank God, as he turned out to be the best husband.  The other guy, got married, divorced, and still drinks in the bar and is an alcoholic.  I still remember the pain tho, after all these years.  Heartbreaking.  I’m spilling the beans as I consider you all my friends incognito, lol.

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  2. 49 minutes ago, Kareem said:

    I believe what Deonna's friends have said, that she chases men away and doesn't give them the time of day, and what Greg has said, that she doesn't like physical contact, and what she had originally said, that she dated only herself and had no relationships, before I would believe her revised story of "situationships" for sex only.  It would be more unlikely, I think, if that were true and resulted in a pregnancy.  No idea why she's exempt from Unfiltered, though.  No excuse for the black pup tent she wore out to dinner the other night either.  Yikes.  I thought she looked nice when she was all in pink while talking to our pal, Cal.

    So, with all these things said about Deonna, why did these “ experts” pick her out of the slew of contestants?  Are they stupid or what?  They have picked four girls with major problems, and only two decent guys.   The other two are a little whacked.  DRAMA, I guess.   Then again, just maybe, Production is playing tricks on the viewers.

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  3. 3 hours ago, Crazy Bird Lady said:

    It's possible... I hope not.

    I agree it's unlikely that Greg got her preggers on his birthday. But Deonna apparently gets involved in "situationships" that get 'complicated' -- and she's been quite vague about the history of those. (Being pregnant would definitely be a "complication"!!) 

    It's even possible that if Deonna had 'situationship' sex 2+ weeks before her "marriage" to Greg (before she knew that the "experts" had chosen her) she might not have known it until after she 'tied the knot' --but she could be starting to show when they filmed "Unfiltered". 

    Good thinking.  I was trying to figure it out myself.  We all will HAVE to watch Unfiltered from now on.

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  4. 10 hours ago, RaeSpellman said:

    The wedding date was 3/21/19. A Thursday?! They consummated the marriage two weeks later on Greg's birthday. So early April. How visibly pregnant would Deonna be on whatever date(s) the Unfiltered episodes were filmed?

    We’re assuming it’s Greggs.  Maybe it isn’t.  At this point, I would believe anything.  If there’s any truth to it in the first place.  It’s weird tho, that she hasn’t been on Unfiltered at all yet.  Nothing would surprise me at this point.

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  5. 14 minutes ago, Crazy Bird Lady said:

    There have been a few people speculating Deonna could be pregnant, and thus hasn't shown up on Jamie's "Unfiltered". ECM brought it up on this episode, and RaeSpellman was commenting on what the timing would have to be, if Greg is the father.

    I just pointed out that Deonna has been quite vague about her history of "situationships," and when they happened, so...  I was speculating that could be a (very unlikely) possibility.

    She did wear a tight fitting black bathing suit on the honeymoon, and nothing there, so, who knows.

  6. 11 hours ago, Ilovepie said:

    I really think Iris is delusional about how most men her age view being married to a virgin. I think she thought her new husband would be thrilled and grateful. Instead she’s getting side eye and now realizes that it’s taken more as a burden than a gift. This process was a terrible choice for someone like her. She needed to find another virgin herself or at least someone who would respect her for it. That was never going to happen here.

    I don’t get Keith.  He’s too chill and accommodating.  Is he that enamored with her, or does he have an agenda?

  7. 2 hours ago, DrewPaul2010 said:

    Here's a woman worried about lemonade and her virginity but tells the world she engaged in oral sex...

    Shocking I tell you, just shocking !!!!!!  LMAO.  I think admitting that on t.v. Is 1000 times more worse than the virginity thing.  Who would have thought little ole pure Iris would come out with that.  Wonder what Keith is thinking now, or is he a recipient too?

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  8. 49 minutes ago, biakbiak said:

    I think there is a lot we don’t see even though Shep’s hatred of Madison is ridiculous. But even Craig has also said that this was the last time he was going to deal with the Madison drama and if there was anymore he was going refuse to listen and Austen replied that all of friends were at that point so I think there is a lot of Austen bitching about their relationship/being hurt over things she has done to him and prattling in about it. I mean we say it on the previous episode where he wouldn’t stop whining to strangers about his relationship with her I can only imagine what it’s like to have to hear about it on a regular basis. 

    The way he is treating Austen now is not dissimilar to how he dealt with Craig when he was procrastinating and partying instead of taking the bar and Shep just reached a limit.

    So in other words, Shep is tired of hearing about other people going on and on about their problems, and he doesn’t want to hear about anything anymore.  It’s actually has nothing to do with him, but he doesn’t like what’s going on.  O.k. Thanks for the info.

  9. 1 hour ago, Shellbell59 said:

    Yes to all of your post about Ashley....

    I’ve come FF whenever she’s on screen....

    so staged...she’s on a ‘loop’ of

    ”Hello chica”... “thank you for the opportunity”...”I just want a second chance” ...”I want peace”... ...and of course “thank you sooomuch”...”straight shooter” references....

    then at the slightest resistance she raises her voice...

    she is horrible at this reality show ‘come back’ tour....ugh

     On another note… I cannot BELIEVE Shep and Craig are bringing the other “two of the Austen threesome” next week!!!

    I’m so confused.  Can someone PLEASE tell me why Shep is so mad at Austen.  Does it have anything to do with Madison?  Does Shep like Madison?  Did he ever? What’s the problem with them?

  10. 2 hours ago, Neurochick said:

    I think a lot of these people are single because they need therapy.

    Jamie and Beth don't know how to fight fair.  They extend their claws, problem is when you do that, the wounds could be lethal.  

    Deonna needs to talk to someone about why she doesn't think she's worthy of someone like Greg.

    Iris needs to talk to someone about why she, a VIRGIN came on this show if virginity is such an important part of who she is.

    I think all these four girls did not belong on this show.  They all have quirks or problems of some kind.  And,I think Jamie is a little bit of a yenta .. always watching everything Elizabeth does, waiting to pounce on her. I’m not saying she isn’t insane, but he gets offended at every little thing for a guy.  Most guys shrug things off to avoid confrontation.  When Matt & Amber had their anniversary dinner and went home to watch the video of their wedding, Amber looked so happy.  Now, I am feeling terrible if Matt dumps her.  She wouldn’t deserve it.  She will be devastated.  Finally, Deonna dresses terribly for a woman of 30.  What’s with the plaid shirts to an anniversary dinner?  A lovely dress with the pearls would have looked nicer for a special occasion.  After all Greg did for her, she put on some rags and went to sleep.  WTF?   Btw, I blame all the experts for four horrible matches.  Again.  They need real therapists, not t.v. Therapists.

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  11. 19 minutes ago, seasick said:

    I haven't figured out how just to pull just a quote out but I'm responding to your statement that you don't think Matt is using Amber for sex because she likes it.

    You put your finger on the beginning of the quote until the Quote Box comes up.  Then you take the blue bottom thingamajig with your finger to the end of the quote u want.  Then, the quote comes up on a new page and you can answer.  (There are 2 thingamigigs, so you put your finger on the bottom one).   If that’s any help.

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  12. 1 minute ago, qtpye said:

    The reaction seems so overblown. I wonder if Jaimie being so “ picky “ is just to cover up a lot of insecurities. Calling someone the c word is never cool particularly if they are your wife. Also, Elizabeth’s talking heads seemed like she was in a room by herself totally different from the apartment...

    I wonder if that means he does not come back?

    He always comes back.  This is like the fourth time.

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  13. 5 minutes ago, Crazy Bird Lady said:

    No, but apparently he can call Elizabeth a "c*nt" and get her to walk out, instead, while threatening divorce if she does so. 

    That way, Jamie gets to be the "good guy" who did what The Great Dr. Pepper said.

    Oh, I’m sorry .. I didn’t hear him say that.  That’s a big no no.  I wouldn’t take that either.  I hate that word.  Usually I watch and type at the same time, so missed that.

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  14. 2 minutes ago, Crazy Bird Lady said:

    Very well said, Sterling. This couple should never have been paired.

    She was admiring her hair, dress, everything about herself.  All she had to do was say “ you looked so handsome in that tux .. I was proud”.  But, she didn’t. Men love compliments too.  Big mistake.  It hurt him, but he can’t walk out every minute.

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  15. 9 minutes ago, seasick said:

    Totally agree but never really noticed it to that extent until you pointed it out. He is pretty close to brain-dead . But yet I realize that despite his numbnut he was clever enough to just agree with Amber and appease her by simply saying yeah he should communicate better. DUH. And Pepper buys It too. Pathetic.

    This post is just too funny, but true.  I’m amazed Matt got through the screening, as he doesn’t talk or have an opinion.  He’s just blank.  He’s using this desperate girl for sex, and disrespecting her in the process.  If he stays with her in the end, I will literally fall on the floor.  Pepper is useless.

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  16. Elizabeth:   I think that moon water sitting on the deck uncovered, is making her a unstable nutcase.  I’ve never seen a woman go from zero to ten in one second.  He has been leaving for good once a week for the whole time they’ve been home.   I just can’t figure out who will stay and who will go at this point.  It’s really a puzzle.  You never know.  

    All I know is this show is keeping me from doing things in my house that need to be done because of this stupid show, lol.

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  17. 11 minutes ago, Neurochick said:

    Maybe but I think Deonna is afraid, she's waiting for the other shoe to drop.  Maybe Deonna has bought a lot of the shit the media says about brown skinned black women, not attractive enough, not good enough, not feminine enough.  I mean look at the media today, nine times out of ten if a black woman is a love interest, or the main character, she's played by a) a biracial actress b) a light skinned black woman with curly hair or c)if she's played by a brown skinned black woman, nine times out of ten, she's wearing a weave.

    I don’t see that at all, but if you say that, I guess it could be true.  I think Deonna is a beautiful woman, and Gregg is a handsome man.  They both like one another, so she should give it a chance and not think so much.  It’s right there in her hands.  She needs to talk to a therapist about her insecurity or else she will lose him.  She’s got this hang up that’s not letting her go forward.  Once every two months?  Is that normal?  I don’t think so.  Color does not even enter my mind in this scenario.

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  18. 19 minutes ago, Jeanne222 said:
    19 minutes ago, Jeanne222 said:

    Deonna is scared he'll leave her!

    She had better step up.  He has done all the right things.  He needs some attention and affection.  Deonna is too cold.  He deserves better, and is very patient. It’s not like he’s her first.  I just do not like her demeanor.  Too stiff and proper and calls all the shots.  Greg has to stand by until she gives the word. Most women would love it if their husbands were playful in the bedroom.

    Why has Deonna not been on Unfiltered ??????????? What is she afraid of .. the truth?

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  19. Deonna says Greg is too playful in the bedroom.  0h gosh .. call the cops!  Is she kidding or what?  She is one pain in the ass.  Women would kill for a guy like Greg.  He is too good for her.  Sorry, I can’t stand that baby voice of hers.  I think Greg will have blue balls if he stays with her.

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