Ok you're right, I forgot about Caleb. He's a good guy. And his and Hannah's relationship is healthy.
Emily and Paige, ok as well.
Hanna's mom, maybe. But she still slept with the cop to get her daughter out of trouble, that's kind of messed up.
I guess my motivation for making the post was people saying Toby and Spencer's relationship was unhealthy or bad. I don't think so. I think Toby is normal to Spencer's... not quite normal. Spencer made it with two of her sisters boyfriends/fiancé - that's messed up.
Spencer basically kidnapped Malcolm and made Aria freak out. Was that any worse than what Toby did? Toby was trying to help protect Spencer. Spencer was trying to protect the girls.