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le bordel chaud

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  1. On 9/14/2020 at 5:26 PM, Callaphera said:

    It makes me sad, too. The misspellings, the places where a comma would have come in handy, "best still" instead of "be still", and he calls her his "baby mama" which is a pet peeve of mine and has racist connotations (it's used as a weapon against black women). Actually it sounds like Dani wrote it before she left and Dom just added his name to the bottom. Oh and that "Lol" in a letter is just cringe IMO. 

    At the risk of putting my foot in my mouth (but when has that ever stopped me before?) coupled with the fact that I'm often horrible at explaining what I mean...

    I understand the racial connotations of the term, but as a bi-racial, black-presenting man I've always used it indiscriminately for all races because it is really accurate to describe a specific relationship that other words don't easily work for. You could say "girlfriend" or "ex" or "ex-girlfriend" (but those don't necessarily imply a child is involved). Obviously "mother of my child" would be far more proper, but I just think "baby mama" has a certain connotation that I actually respect because it gives you a lot of context. Generally, that term is used for someone you were never married to (or sometimes not even in a relationship with). Dom using it in what he thinks is a comical context is more annoying because a) it's not a funny term to me and b) he is married to Dani and "baby mama" is a few rungs below the status of wife. So it reads as almost disrespectful to me. "Tennessee's mom" would have worked just as well.

    As someone who will never have kids and probably will never get married, I don't know why the fact that other people have children out of wedlock bothers me or seems dis-preferable. Especially because I'm not religious (although I was brought up by a mother who was). I guess I just think of it as a respect thing, where you should have enough respect for the woman you're with to put a ring on it, especially if you're going to procreate with her. And I know that may seem a bit sexist, but generally that's how society works. If the man doesn't want to get married, generally y'all ain't getting married. And I know plenty of couples are happy without getting married, and even having children without getting married, but... that wouldn't be for me (and again, it's totally irrelevant to me for the aforementioned reasons). I consider myself to be fairly live and let live, but I honestly think so many issues arise from society because of the circumstances and demographics of single-parent households (and that is among all races). I think things can come across as racist merely if they are more prevalent among certain races, even if the general principle isn't racist. Anyway, I'm probably just rambling now and should shut up. (Story of my life, tbh.) It really is not my intention to offend anybody, but that's usually what people who say offensive things say (which I at least have the self-awareness to realize). I think I'm just a judgmental bitch, and it explains why I live an opulent life of solitude.

    That sure was a lot to say about a letter that a former reality participant sent to his current reality participant wife.

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  2. I'm still trying to catch up, so can someone explain this to me?

    Why on earth did Dani put Tyler on the block before she checked with her alliance and made sure they were on board to get him out? I know the powers complicated things, but she should have been prepared and had a few options in case something was used at the nomination ceremony. Considering this is the third time she's played, I cannot get over the misstep here.

    Also, I've decided my moniker for Christmas shall be National Victims of Vehicular Violence Day.

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  3. 12 minutes ago, Melina22 said:

    And on another, shallower note, was she this beautiful the last time she played? I don't recall noticing her looks then particularly, but this season she's really stunning, even without makeup. 

    Yes! She's a pageant queen after all.

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  4. I think Grodner has some kind of mental defect. She knows what the world is like right now. There is no reason to not let Tyler fall on his sword and take his tired ass home to Mama Angela. Bayleigh makes for better, more entertaining TV, and having both her and Day in the house over Tyler seems like a no-brainer. I don't get her fascination with that man. At all.

    And Christmas is going to get drug to the end again, because no one will vote for her because she's an awful human being. Anyone who purposely hits someone with their vehicle has serious rage issues (at the very least) and does not need to be on reality television. Point blank, and the period.

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  5. 3 minutes ago, mooses said:

    Eh, in this case, I actually side with her. If you want to walk, by all means, walk. There's nothing keeping you here. But, he signed a contract. This whole backdoor plan is basically Tyler trying to pull one over on Production. He shouldn't make that money. Especially in All-Stars. He knows what this game is. He's good at it! There's always the crazies, but he was pretty well-loved and respected by fans from his first season. Instead, he wants to get paid for promoting Angela's cookbook and then dip out when things get rough. C'mon.

    He didn't want to go in the first place, and they shouldn't have coerced him into coming. So I blame her.

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  6. 1 minute ago, UniqBlue69 said:

     

    True but you bring up a good point as well.. what Tyler was essentially doing was DORing but trying to circumvent the rules in order to keep his paycheck. I don't blame Grodner for being like, "Dude either quit now and look like a coward to your fans or man up and play MY game!" Lol.. I mean I'm sure she coddled him instead but the msg was the same: you gotta play to get your pay!

    I really don't think they're hurting for money though. Like, at all. And I think Angela's parents have money also, because that's how things work in America.

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  7. 3 hours ago, peachmangosteen said:

    Yea, it's just another fake alliance like Slick Six. The real alliance is Nicole/Dani/Cody, with Nicole and Dani likely to both pick Cody over each other. I also think for Enzo and Memphis, their real alliance is to Cody. 

    So they both want to lose the game?

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  8. I remember when the season started, most people predicted this exact scenario of Day and Bay on the block but thought that Day would be the one to go home. Interesting to see that atm it appears to be playing out differently.

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  9. 6 minutes ago, IndyMischa said:

    I think she looks pretty good in that pic, but I agree that it's not surgical. Just contacts, better skincare, and some makeup. Some people are blessed with natural beauty; those of us who aren't, have to make a little effort. 

    I think she looks good in that pic too! Make-up really can do so much--I wish I was a guy who knew how to use it. She has always reminded me, looks-wise, of one of my favorite tennis players from the olden days Mary Pierce.

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  10. 8 hours ago, HartofDixie said:

    I think Christine has had some work done. Here she is rocking her Dani shirt.

     

    I don't think she's had any work done. In her most recent pics, she looks the same as always. If she has had work done, she should ask for a refund.  

    4 hours ago, 30 Helens said:

    I’m calling it now. Memphis is winning the season. He’s the only one who is still in an actual secret alliance, and nobody has looked twice at him when it comes to noms. Except for David, but everyone rolls their eyes at his revenge plans. 

    I'm actually fine with a Memphis win. I've been saying I want Nicole to win cause I think she might be playing the best game, but I actually think Memphis could be giving her a run for her money. And he's not quite as annoying. I actually think his grumpiness is entertainting.

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  11. 32 minutes ago, HartofDixie said:

    She’s got a deal with them to post stuff on social media and they get discounts in return.  I think they reached out to her.

    Did she get a deal for all her guests' travel expenses to be taken care of?

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  12. 11 hours ago, BK1978 said:

    I have to say, Dani looks a lot better with the black hair.

    As nature and God intended.

    Sorry for the double post. The forum won't let me delete it.

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  13. 8 hours ago, Callaphera said:

    Franzel, after Da'Vonne told her that she could see up her jean shorts and see ass cheek: "Thank God I'm wearing underwear. I wear granny panties so."

    You know, the more we learn about Franzel, the more it all makes sense in my head. The cuddling with her mom until she was 16, the granny panties, the refusal to curse...

    I wonder where she learned to give handies in the BB House then.

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  14. 4 minutes ago, Growsonwalls said:

    One thing I love about Rachel is how if she's happy you know it if she's angry YOU REALLY KNOW IT. She's not afraid to get in your face and get loud. That makes for great reality tv. I also think it's cool that she's a forgiving person. She's friends with Britney, Dani, Ragan, etc. 

    It's almost like Rachel Reilly was created in a laboratory for the sole purpose of being on Reality TV. She is GOLD. I caught her on Dominic Briones' IG live after one of the episodes, and she was the star of that as well. When she had to go, Dom just ended the broadcast...cause without Rachel, what was the point?

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  15. 13 hours ago, methodwriter85 said:

    Wasn't the last winner a butch lesbian?

    (this is all IMO)

    I wouldn't describe Kaycee as butch...but in any case as others have mentioned, that was 2 seasons ago.

    BB21: Jackson douchedudebro
    BB20: Kaycee decentperson
    BB19: Josh doucheclosetcasedudebro
    BB18: Nicole notPaul
    BB17: Steve awkwardatthetimeclosetedgay
    BB16: Derrick douchebro
    BB15: Andy douchegay
    BB14: Ian douche
    BB13: Rachel crazyriggamorris
    BB12: Hayden dudebro
    BB11: Jordan decentperson
    BB10: Dan manipulativehypocritcaldouche
    BB9: Adam drugdealerdudebro
    BB8: Evel Dick riggamorrischildofsatan
    BB7: Mike Boogie certifiablyinsanedouchebro
    BB6: Maggie cultstarter
    BB5: Drew dudebro
    BB4: Jun perfection
    BB3: Lisa 
    BB2: Will
    BB1: Eddie didnotwatch

    The list of recent winners just is unimpressive, period. From a humanity perspective, anyway. I would consider Kaycee and Jordan the only decent winners in the past 10 years who won fully on their own merits. I like Rachel, but she did not win that game fair and square. I like(d) Hayden, but apparently he has very harmful political views.

    Going back even further, it does not get much better. Lisa seems like a nice person and I feel like Will and Jun were incredibly transparent about their duplicitous actions in the game so I like them. IIRC Eddie is a nice guy, but BB1 is not really considered the same game. I didn't like how Drew treated Diane, and I think he also ran into troubles after the game, so I'm not the most fond of him. So out of 20 winners, I only like a quarter of them as people. I think Maggie was a great player, but she never owned what she was doing.

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  16. Who do we think Dani can beat in a Final 2? Cause that is the worst possible outcome IMO. She would get validation that her wretched attitude and actions are acceptable.

    It's hard to truly predict at this point because we don't know how messy she'll be in screwing over the members of her multiple alliances. I think she could beat Christmas(?), Nicole(?), David, Kaysar, Kevin(?), Da'vonne(?), Bayleigh(?). 

    What do y'all think?

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  17. 6 minutes ago, Alice Mudgarden said:

    Step awaaaaaaaay from the feeds. You'll feel better with rest and some vitamin C, I promise.

    LOL I kind of stopped paying attention after Veto almost a week ago. Kind of got caught up yesterday with the shows anyway. I hate how Nicole doesn't own her gameplay, but I actually think she's a decent player and in a really good spot considering she is a former winner. Of all the people I could actually see winning this game, I want her to the most. She's not hateful or malicious like Dani. Nicole is whiny and complains a lot, but those aren't cardinal sins to me. Maybe with Janelle gone, she'll be more tolerable? *fingers crossed*

    I just don't want another dudebro to win. I've had it. Officially.

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