Kadomony

The Meereenese Blot has some really good essays on A Dance With Dragons -- highly recommended (but not until after book five, of course).

Keep in mind that Tyrion is absolutely a misogynist in the books. The whitewashing of his misogyny is one of the big complaints book readers have of the character adaptation. And when we see Shae through Tyrion's eyes, we see her as filtered through his misogyny.