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Abby : I swear as soon as I get out of his appartement, I will have no contact with Chris again. I'm leaving in 2 weeks !
Wasn't she supposed to have no contact with him already?
Is she telling us that she is leaving this place just because Chris informed her that he was giving no more money, not because she planned to leave?
2weeks? Why can't she leave right away?
And why did it look so natural that she was a prostitute?
Sean must really be in love with that little girl. Really.
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On 26/10/2017 at 9:47 PM, tincansailor981 said:
My point being unless the person dressed or acted a certain way, like kneelng for prayers throughout the day, "they" do look like everyone else.
I'm not talking about her looks. I'm more about the mindset.
There's a difference between I have a catholic background and I'm churchy.
Same thing, having an Algerian and probably Muslim father doesn't mean one is actually religious but people tend to assume you are when your name is ...or you family is from....
Coming from a muslim family it's hardly acceptable to be on TV like "I'm flirting with 2 guys and it's Ok", unless your muslim family is really open or you don't practice the religion which I find logical since she said she was not into traditions. I doubt religion would be important enough to her to be a deal breaker, if she were religious at all.
Ps: A little black dress +Adidas shoes are absolutely trendy on Instagram
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On 25/10/2017 at 10:25 AM, AZChristian said:
You've stated a lot of things as though they were facts . . . and unless you are Patrick, Myriam, or Patrick's mother, I'm not sure how you would know anything for sure.
One example is the sentence I quoted above. The editing may have made it LOOK this way, but we don't know this to be a fact. And even if it were, let's say that Patrick talks to Myriam on Monday and says, "I'm coming to Paris on Thursday to meet you and spend time with you. I'll be there for _____________ (length of time). All Myriam has to say is, "I am Muslim; I have a boyfriend. Do not come. I will not spend time with you."
Many of us who watch reality shows have come to accept the strong arm of editing in what we see. We learned that some of these 90-day couples are pretty much using the show as a means of getting publicity (Jesse and Darcey, Molly and Luis). Even Patrick has been on several TV shows. Being on TV is a lot more fun than having a real job. I'm in the group who feels that Patrick and Myriam are also a set-up, but that's my opinion; I don't know that for a fact.
I know it from what Myriam herself said a couple of weeks ago. That Patrick informed her a few days before. She also said she was not into her father's traditions and that her brother was a little more traditional than she was. I agree she could have told him "don't come" but maybe he had purchased the plane ticket and she felt guilty about that, or maybe he was pushy or maybe she changed her mind when he arrived shirtless and back flipping in Paris or maybe the entire story is staged.
For the rest we are not in the spoiler thread so obviously whatever we may be stating here is our belief, based on the 12episodes, and we may be right or wrong. If we were meant to talk about things we know to be facts ONLY, guess what we would have nothing to discuss here. Saying that Jesse uses the show as a means of getting publicity is an assumption as well, unless you are Jesse.
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16 hours ago, EDTV said:
i don't get all the hate for Patrick... maybe he loves attention sure but he didn't come across as a bad guy.
Myriam is the one who had a BF and yet spent the weekend with another guy that she knew was into her. Then complained about HER feelings when she was playing two guys. I think maybe she liked talking to Patrick but didn't actually think he'd come to visit and she was kinda caught off guard when he did. But she too seemed to like his attention and I didn't get the sense from her that she was pushing him away. I think she enjoyed playing hard to get.
There is a French word for him. "kéké". The exact meaning of this word is ... Patrick. I can't find a better translation. A Keke is a French guy who tries ridiculously to be Patrick. Of course it's derogatory.
I think Myriam was trying to be polite saying he's a dream guy. If he were, she would date him. I myself would never ever date Patrick.
Myriam has been very clear about the situation. Patrick noticed her on Instagram (which is obviously not a dating website) and they started a conversation. It turned to friendship . A romantic relationship was never in question and Patrick knew that (of course, this is not what he said to family and friends. He let them think they were in love ). Patrick informed her that he was traveling to Paris just a few days before he got on the plane. She eventually said that she was perfectly fine in Paris and going nowhere.
And about something I read upthread, just because your name is Myriam doesn't mean you're Muslim. She said her father immigrated from Algeria but she was born in France and not into the tradition. She doesn't look nothing like a Muslim. First of all she wouldn't be on that show. You can't ever imagine what a disgrace it would be to her family. And if she really has a boyfriend I'm hundred percent sure it's a French and non Muslim guy. A real Muslim wouldn't marry someone like Myriam cause she's too westernized. The reason why she wouldn't date Patrick is definitely not religious.
On 24/10/2017 at 2:39 AM, millennium said:Who knows if he ever divulged the name of the program -- 90 Day Fiance -- to Myriam? Like Antonio, Myriam never gave the impression of knowing or understanding that the person visiting her was spouse-shopping. Myriam felt put upon by the mere idea of Patrick wanting to date her. Does anyone actually believe Myriam understood he was there to drag her back to America to get married? I sure don't.
I can relate to this. My friend was on a TV show. When it was aired, the actual name of the program was totally different from what they said when they were recording. This is how you can play negatively with someone's image.
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20 hours ago, Nowhere said:
The only part of this episode that really pissed me the hell off was Larry's cousin telling Jenny, "Don't come to this country with that attitude." Who in the hell does he think he is? What's that pussy going to do if Jenny comes to the US with her attitude fully intact?? Oh what? She's not allowed to have a problem with you two assholes judging her before you know her, creeping on her page and making assumptions, then insulting her character? Just because she's a woman, she's not allowed to be upset about their shit talk? Maybe she is a everything they think she is but it is none of their business and cousin Larry has no right to say don't come to our country. Fuck him. Larry loves her and as dumb as that may be, it is what it is and they need to butt the hell out. Jenny may be a hot mess and maybe manipulative (I think everything she has been upset about so far has been valid), but guess what? She's Larry's little hot mess, manipulative woman now and it's his responsibility to defend her honor. She is his choice. Men like Larry who won't defend their woman make me so sick. It actually hurts me inside to see it. Take notes men. Even if you fully agree with your friends' poor opinion of the woman you chose, DO NOT ALLOW YOUR FRIEND TO TALK SHIT ABOUT YOUR WOMAN IN YOUR PRESENCE, BEHIND HER BACK OR TO HER FACE. Larry is the biggest pussy. His cousin is a fucking elitist ass. Under no circumstances is it ok to not defend your woman. I feel bad for Jenny.
Thank you!
What bothers me the most is the cousin's wife. I'm hundred percent sure this ugly **** found her own husband by disreputable means. And now that she's on top, she will hold the other girls' heads underwater.
What I like about Jenny is that she's always been very vocal about her intentions. Like " My life will be better in America ", " Larry has money", she's dating American guys only... She's never pretended anything else! He was there when she said all she liked about him was his (too big) nose and he was ok. These relationships are agreements. You get sex, they get a better standard of living. Deal. Then if Larry is stupid enough to think it's a fairy tale, too bad! When somebody tells you who they are believe them. I can't put the blame on Jenny.
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6 minutes ago, spankydoll said:
It's a long flight. Just did it last week in fact. Always a good idea to being a change of clothing, fresh shorts and skivvies and your toothbrush.
It doesn't explain why Karine has a different hair color (and length ) in one episode.
Patrick traveled shirtless to Paris. He couldn't care less about wearing 2 different outfits to get back home (I've never done that myself for a cold 9hour flight).
There are so many details that don't match in that show.
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She doesn't seem to take it seriously but Abby's skin is covered with that shit a little more each day. She has sores everywhere. Chest, fingers, arms, elbows. This is definitely scabies. And for whatever reason she's always low-necked which makes it more noticeable( except for Sean).
Why can't she get a real treatment ? This time it's not about Mambo's leaves. The producers should have asked them to go to the doctor. It's very contagious, even for them if they shake hands or something. I'm very surprised. And I think about whoever will sleep in this hotel room after them ...
All of that being said, wait. Was that Sean's apartment ???? Or just a rundown motel?
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Myriam : " Patrick is all a woman wants !"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
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On 18/10/2017 at 2:56 PM, Oosala said:
But the thing about their "relationship" that I really can't stand is the way Antonio refuses, time and again, to just MAN UP and TELL her "it's not working and you have to leave." His passive-aggressive approach is NOT working because she's jus not astute enough to realize what he's trying to do.
Antonio looked at Corny and said I'm used to living by myself / I need some space/ I can't be with someone else in the same apt for up to 24hours*
How to be clearer without being rude? No, actually it WAS rude. Already. If she's still around after next Sunday, I give up.
* and sleeping on a loveseat
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Corny is so uptight I'm sure sex wasn't great and still. Antonio made her breakfast in the morning. Amazingly cute!! But no sooner had she noticed a leak in the AC than she pressed him to find some hotel. She's such a pain in the balls I must take Antonio's side on this one. I would have left her and never come back again.
Listen there's no air conditioning at all in most European houses. It's not Florida, nobody is freaking out about no AC for a couple of hours (and complaining at the same time about the offices being too cold). First of all you close the blinds during the day.
Antonio lives in a shoebox and maybe not even his apartment. I think he actually lives with mummy and rented this place just for the show. Where would he get the money to book a room when he can only afford a studio apt. If she's never satisfied, why don't she move out or go downtown and buy a fan? (even Darcey was able to find a hotel when she was drunk and in high heels in Amsterdam and all the other folks have their own places). Antonio is not paying for your entire stay girl! Taxis, food, restaurants, bars and now hotel. She's been very lucky to have a place to stay for free +AC in the first place. It's broken, well give it a minute! He was about to call a fixer but she was so boring with her "let's go to the hotel right now" Gosh!
And who drinks red wine when it's already too hot in their cubicle?
On 16/10/2017 at 0:34 PM, Lizzing said:I don't believe for a minute Antonio is only 31.
None of us have ever believed he could be under 40. Sleep in peace.
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The worst thing about Larry is not that he didn't eat but that he will never get what the matter was !
He says it's cultural differences. NO. It's nothing cultural Larry. Anywhere in this damn world, you're meant to eat when you're invited to... eat. And if ever you had some restrictions, you would tell your host before coming to their house "sorry, I don't eat meat " or " I'm allergic to eggs".
And even in a spontaneous dinner party, you just eat whatever you can eat. I'm sorry but he knew he was going to a feast. Did he expect them to cook cheeseburgers?
If he had just figured out that bacon was actually an animal, he could have tasted the noodles which are very common, even in the US. Pork was not the only thing on that table. Some people in America have no clue what real food is like.
Larry is dumb and not even nice. He was belligerent and careless talking about the incident. No apology, no questioning of his behavior (it's just food), and this very dismissive
" I'm not a Filipino. I'm not supposed to eat like them". He had no real reason. Just their food is not good enough for him, but their girls are good enough for sex. Hate him.
And can't he dress properly? These humble people were better dressed than he was. .
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Jenny : " I've never cried for a man. Men cry for me!"
Period. She killed the game.
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19 minutes ago, Mercolleen said:
Where did Karine get her new phone with her mom's number already in it? Hmmm ...
I know my mother's number and I think most people do.
If someone gave me their phone, I could call my mother.
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1 hour ago, AmyBre said:And then with the roasted pig, he really messed it up. Larry has no manners and no idea on social graces. Couldn't he just taste the pig? I mean, he's been kissing that other pig (Jenny) why couldn't he eat part of the other pig? They were right, that was highly disrespectful. He works at a goddamned McDonals, he's already eaten dog and cats. Jenny should have also given Larry a heads up about the little feast they had planned for him and what was expected of him.
Patrick running in the middle of Paris. I've been to Paris three times and I have never seen people running like that in the middle of the streets and through the monuments. That dude is so self centered is not even funny. Then they went to Sacred Heart and he's doing his flips again and sticking his tongue and licking his lips. Patrick makes me want to renounce my US citizenship.
I know we're bitching around but no need to go this far. Jenny may be poor but still . She's a woman. Not a pig.
Larry knew he was going to a feast. Why did she need to tell him about? You go to a feast, you eat and you drink. First of all, he didn't bother to dress properly. And Jenny should have told him he was expected to eat?
"Why is it such a big deal?" Seriously Larry. This family is so poor they can only afford one bed in a studio. They offer you a meal and you don't even taste it. I thought he was vegan maybe. Hell no, he just fears diarrhea. It's not veggies ! It's roasted meat!
I'm very proud of her father. Despite his poverty he didn't offer his daughter like Karine's parents and Abby's did. " Oh American? Yes take my daughter away please. Do whatever you want!"
I'm so tired of these stupid Americans (thank you Mother Pedro). I won't eat this, I won't it that, I'm not going into the water, I run half-naked in the middle of Paris...
I really hope Jenny can get her green card, dump him and find a smart guy.
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Larry : I love your goats! It's pretty!
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8 hours ago, StayingAfterSunday said:
I agree that she did not seem all that drunk.
As I mentioned in an earlier post, Jesse's overreaction to Darcey's drinking might suggest that he has a family history of alcoholism/substance abuse.
On the "Red Flags" episode Jesse tells Darcey, "Promise me you'll never drink again," a demand that seems unreasonable on surface, but now I'm wondering if more went on behind the scenes that was not shown on t.v. For instance, in a private conversation it could be that Darcey admitted to Jesse that she has a problem with alcohol and that "it would never happen again," or words to that effect. It's possible Jesse was just reiterating and confirming what the two had already discussed. Just a thought...
I'm very curious to know what is that drunk to you guys. She had been drinking all day long. The least she could be was drunk. She could not even give a high-five.
I don't have a family history of substance abuse but I would have reacted the same. And I hope everybody can tell their boyfriends/girlfriends what would be a deal breaker without being controlling. I don't believe in that " you're not my boss, I do what I want" BS. We all make some compromise to live with someone we love.
Of course, more went on behind the scenes (and first of all how she acted that night. The producers said it was crazy so I guess it was) . I don't think they talked about alcohol before cause Darcey said she didn't know about Jesse's history. What I was thinking then was "and so what??" Do you need to know about Jesse's history before considering drinking reasonably? I mean when you meet for the first time someone you claim to be in love with, why would you show them that ugly side of you (and hope they will marry you soon)? Common sense.
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38 minutes ago, Meowwww said:
I am 46. Darcey is easily 42 but the fillers and lips make her look older. I think she has issues and wants to re-live her youth. (Understatement of the year)
If I weren't told she is 42, I would think 50. I think she had surgery, not only fillers. But maybe she had surgery because she was not aging well. We don't know what she would look like today.
39 minutes ago, Sprockets said:I was thinking about that as well. And then I realized that because of this ridiculous language barrier we have no idea how well either one of them communicates, with each other or with other people. And why doesn't Karine have the language app on her phone, as well?
Not enough money for data. She probably goes to an Internet café when Paul doesn't send her money to reload her phone.
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On 02/10/2017 at 0:49 PM, seacliffsal said:
Paul is beyond controlling. Before they had their "talk" it was mentioned that his cell phone had already been stolen and they only had Karine's to use. They were passing it between them during his confession to her. When he got up to run away, he still had her phone. Then, after she chased him and tried to get him to go back with her and he refused, she said she hated him and tried to take her phone back (it had been going back and forth between them during the scene) and he wouldn't let her have it, until she finally forced it out of his hands. So, he wanted to control the whole conversation, have her chase after him and then keep her phone at the end of it all. Some posters have commented that he's not bright enough to force the manipulation, but I think he is similar to Danielle in that they are much more manipulative than they let on-and they both have tried to blame the victim role (Paul kept saying he had been burned by his ex-girlfriends; not that he had committed various criminal acts that may have led those ex-girlfriends to try to get away or keep him away from them).
Karine told Paul that his phone would be stolen if he didn't hide it in his pocket. Both of them had their phones. Karine was holding her phone. Paul's was in his pocket.
They usually use Paul's phone and pass it between them all the time cause it's the only one with a translator. That's precisely what they were doing when Paul decided to run away.
Karine wasn't trying to get her phone back, she was trying to communicate with Paul and the only way she had was to text on Paul's translator. She was desperately trying to grab Paul's phone and kept saying "quero falar" (I want to talk) so give me your phone! When he gave her the phone, she wrote that she didn't care ( about him? About his criminal past?)
I think the phone she lost in the mugging was her phone (unless she came back with Paul's phone as well).
This scene was pathetic. Got me thinking what arguing would be like in Paul and Karine's home.
Paul : Bitch!
Gives the phone to Karine
Karine : Dumbass!
Gives the phone to Paul
Paul: Bitch again!
Gives the phone to Karine
So spontaneous.
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20 hours ago, AnnaL said:
It is sad for me to see a 20 year old girl that has more mileage and has learned to play these dangerous games with men at this short age. I know life is very hard in Haiti, but Abby is smart , her English is pretty good, there are so many more things she could have done with her life but she decided long ago that her only way up was through someone old enough to be her grandfather (Chris) or her father (Sean), she is selling her beauty and her body to the highest bidder and she will never change, this is the life she has chosen. Really sad.
What beauty by the way. There are really beautiful women in Haiti and Dominican Republic. I don't get the fight over a girl who looks 14 and has some kind of natural Glasgow smile. Plus scabies.
She must have done a voodoo ritual.
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17 hours ago, Former Nun said:
I didn't get that. He repeated the "no drinking" often enough.
He's got wine at home. Why would he tell her not to drink at all?...
When you say someone drinks, the subtext is "they drink too much". Not that they drink occasionally.
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Of course, Jesse didn't mean no alcohol at all but not too much alcohol. And I noticed how difficult it was for her to consider drinking less.
There's a difference between an occasional glass of wine and running through the bushes in the middle of the night.
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1 hour ago, Pondlass1 said:
This is what I'm not getting this season? Why would guys like Antonio or Jesse want a rushed marriage for a green card or to even come live in the States? They're just in it for the tv exposure surely?
They actually wanted to show the flip side of the coin which is everybody not coming from a developing country and trying to use a nice American guy or woman to escape from poverty as fast as possible, and I personally think it's a good thing. You would be surprised how many Europeans want to live in the States. Maybe not in Sandusky, Ohio. But still.
Antonio wouldn't say no if he had a chance to pursue his "career " across the Atlantic What modeling career will he achieve in Malaga? He's still living in a student apartment at 40years old (sorry 31). Nothing to lose!
All of them met on a dating website or Instagram before the American decided it would be fun to appear on a TV show. They said yes for whatever reason, included the show is not broadcast in their own countries. I'm pretty sure no one knows about Miriam in France.
Some of them obviously did not plan on moving to the US (Miriam). Some others I think are not opposed to the general idea but are not in a rush like Karine and Jenny are. It's like why not. And if it doesn't work, well too bad. There will be someone else. Karine doesn't have the luxury to wait for another man to come to some remote town for her.
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33 minutes ago, Laurie4H said:
Anyone notice when Karine was running after Paul and struggling with him by the water her hair was down then in a bun then down again and then in a bun. That makes it obvious these were filmed in more than one take.
Her hair color is not even the same sometimes. Come on.
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Do you guys think the mugging was real? Looked like a production.
So Karine warns Paul about how dangerous the area is and she walks around at nightfall, in a crop top and a cellphone in her hand?
Paul who didn't want to swim just one week before is ok today to commit suicide in "poop water".
Is there anything sensible on that show? For God's sake.
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I expected more questions about the pig and don't get why Patrick's mother ONLY had to be invited. Just pointless. She's never been classy and nobody is supposed to argue in a foreign language. How would she react if someone yelled at her in French?
Karine looked pregnant or she just gained weight? Unlike Darcey : " I lost weight!!". Who asked?
She made her point in a childish way as usual. By the way she still can't find a dress her size.