Krispy321

Regardless of Valene's age, I don't really see a problem with her being needy, I just think she needs to understand thar Mikey comes first and she needs to understand that she'll rarely ever get alone time with Mike. She got all mad and was like "yesterday I wasn't a parent and now I'm supposed to be one?" Uh, yeah jackass. What do you think happens when a woman is pregnant and then has a baby? One day you're not a parent and then the next day, you're baby is born and you literally become a parent over night. Valene, Jake and Paul seriouslly need to get their priorities straight.

I did watch all the episodes from the beginning after I had watched the newest one and from what Kallie was saying to her mom and stuff, she said she knew he had kids, but she was thinking more along the lines of one or two, maybe three. There is no way that she could not have known he didn't have at least one kid. Like I said before, she is on a show called "Single Dad Seeking". If Paul didn't have kids, he wouldn't have been able to be a candiadte for the show. It would be different if the show was called "Single Guy Seeking" or something like that, you know what I mean? Oh, and Jake should have definitely told Ami about his vasectomy before they met face to face, just like how Denise told the guy she is staying with up front that she might not be able to have kids. I dunno, there is just something about Jake that I can't wrap my head around. He is just...off. He lets his kids run him and doesn't seem to have any respect for Ami.

I think Mike was asking Mikey if things were "okay" for him to do because I think he just wants to make sure Mikey is comfortable. It has been just Mikey and his dad for about his whole life, and now they're staying in a beach house for the summer, which is cool, but some complete strange woman that neither of them know is going to be living with them temporarily. I think he just wants Mikey to feel comfortable. And there really wasn't anything wrong with Mike letting Mikey know that if he wakes up, if his dad isn't in the same room as him, that he will maybe be in Valene's room. I just think he wasn't sure how the night was going to go so he just wanted to be prepared in case things went well, which they did.

Totally feel the same about Valene! She makes me so angry! Mike has a kid, obviously. Like, duh! You're on a show called Single Dad Seeking....did you REALLY think you could catch some 24/7 alone time with Mike? I love the part where they're at the mini gulf and Mike asks her if going to MIkey's party and meeting Mikey's mother is okay and Valene goes "yeah!" but as she turns around has the most disgusted look on her face! That shows the viewers what kind of person Valene REALLY is! Ami needs to get the heck outta dodge and quick! Jake lets his kids walk all over him and pretty soon, they'll be just as disrespectful to poor Ami. And it's not like there is really much she can do about it. She barely knows them. It's not like she can just discipline his kids or whatever. Right! I feel like Valene has hit a point where she's like "So wait...Mikey is going to be around ALL the time!?!?!?" lol

Oh my goodness! I just started watching this show tonight and I am hooked! It is a great show, but a few things so far have made me a little angry: First of all, I feel so bad for Mike! He has completely fallen for Valene and now she is all like "I don't know if I can do this whole 'parent' thing. It's Saturday night. I want to be out partying, not making masks for a 6 year old's birthday party." Like, excuse me? You knew Mike had a young son. You didn't really come into this whole thing blind. You're on a show called Single DAD Seeking....meaning the man you'll possibly be dating has a freaking child or children! Oh, and Valene keeps complaining about not having any alone time with Mike. What do you expect, he is a dad. His kid is going to be around whether you like it or not. I am just glad that Mike has a good head on his shoulders and in the very beginning was like "If I see that my son is starting to get uncomfortable, I have no problem dropping this whole thing". Kudos to you, Mike! I dunno, Valene just strikes me as someone who wants to be out partying with her man and is super needy. Like, it is okay to be super needy, but just know that you're not going to get Mike's undivided attention. Like, you have to understand and be okay with the fact that you're not the only person in his life. Second of all, what's up with Jake? Who drives a woman to their house, barely introduces her to his 3 kids, and then leaves her there to tend to 2 of them while he takes the other one to the doctor? That just seems so insane to me. I was super ticked off when he left her alone at his place, too. But after he explained himself, I can understand where he was coming from with saying he was overwhelmed by all the new feelings and so he kind of pushed back because dating is so new to him. I definitely would not have screwed up like that and then proceeded to take this woman, who now has lost my trust, to meet my tell-it-like-it-is sister! How anxiety inducing! I feel so bad for Ami! Her first 2 days at Jake's house have been nothing but kind of crappy. I sort of feel like if I was Ami, I would have just peaced the heck out of Jake's place after he didn't come home, but at the same time, I'm glad she stayed because I feel like his reasoning for his actions is completely valid. It was crappy, but hey.