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Brandi seems tipsy all the time to me. Is something wrong with her mouth? It is like a paralysis or something. The only time she seems normal looking to me is when she is all made up for her interviews. The rest of the time during this season she seems unkempt. Sorry, I know this has been discussed but I would think she would try harder if she is in a constant battle with her ex about her sons.

I hate to say this but I hope Brandi doesn't do anything bad to Yo. As in, try to tempt her husband! She tends to show that nasty part of herself when men are around. She puts it out there and some men probably take her up on it. Not that David Foster would be tempted, its just that she finds some way ruin her relationships with women in the most hurtful way. Like last season and Lisa V. She knew that by turning everyone against Lisa V it would really hurt. And, as it happens in real life all the friends fell for it. It was kinda sad.

I think that Kim reacts to others reaction to her (?), is because once your horrible problem is exposed and you are almost paranoid about what other people are thinking. You just don't want people to think you messed up again.

A good friend to an addict would not have taken her home or to a "safe" place. A good friend or family member would have taken her to get professional help. This is where I think Kyle needs help, too. If she wants to be there for her sister she should get help too and learn not to flip out when bad things happen and to be Kim's voice of reason.

I am so interested in every point of view about 12 step programs. I went to rehab when I was 48 for pain meds I was taking after a brain bleed. Remember me? The prude?! I remember it being like that movie 28 Days. Every person was such a "character". There was the teenager with blue hair whose parents put her in rehab at 12 and she just goes from one to the next. And then there was the nurse who was fired for being high at work. My last day, she asked me for any leftover morphine I had! There were all walks of lif e represented but you had one horrible thing in common. You just want to stop hurting. I think my point is that I imagine Kim has a lot of pressure to do this right and perfect. Sometimes it just doesn't go that way. But you MUST surround yourself with the right people. Not Brandi!

Thanks you guys. I thought I remembered Jennifer from before this show. Isn't it funny how people find each other? I see something in Brandi that really disturbs me. Like, a mental thing. Maybe it's just substance abuse but she really has a problem and I'm not so sure a fancy new house or expensive auto is going to ever make her a suitable castmember for this show. She has no manners, or any sense of how to act in the social situations she finds herself in on this show. It's just the wrong show!! Her sexual thoughts are so shocking and if they really happen, she should not repeat them . That is why we get so upset when she says them. They make everyone, including the audience, so uncomfortable. It is kind if like a high class, low class thing. Not that this is right, but these ladies are used to appropriate behavior. Now I know tv us about the drama of it all, and I love drama, but not the weird, perverted kind. Brandi is weird and perverted and she scares me!! Ok, I am a prude, I know!

I'm new to this so hang in there with me! I believe that Brandi is a either an addict or a recovering one (who has relapsed!), because her friend , Jennifer (the pretty, tall, tan, brown haired friend), is an addiction therapist/counselor. She was on the TV show Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew. She is on this show a lot when Brandi is filming and it makes me really suspicious of Brand is past. Does anyone else recognize her?