I think Juan Pablo is a total bag of dicks, and Nikki is also insufferable. However, Nikki's "I Love You" quest has hit a nerve with me. My boyfriend is a wonderful, affectionate, native-English speaking guy who is unlike JP in almost every way EXCEPT it took him over a year to tell me he loved me. We're in our 30s, we were in a committed relationship, he only wanted to be with me and he saw his future with me. But he refused to tell me those three little words until he was ready.
At the time it was really hard for me. It created a lot of emotional instability from my perspective and it sucked, so I get where Nikki is coming from. But eventually he told me, and now he tells me literally multiple times a day. So there you go. Maybe JP just needs some time. And to be fair, they haven't been together all that long. I mean they dated six weeks on the Bachelor and they live in separate cities.
Are these two idiots going to make it? No way in hell. But I don't think it has anything to do with the fact he hasn't told her those three little words yet.
