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4 hours ago, Retired at last said:
I just don't get Ginny and Erik, either. She is so frustrated trying to communicate with him and shows just how unready she was for marriage. I do get it that she wouldn't want someone else disciplining her dog, though. Especially if he is heavy handed or mean. But, it looked like in that one scene, there were no drinks in view.
So I didn’t think he was being unreasonable in that scene. I feel like that background sounds made it seem worse. He was really even toned and wasn’t being nasty about it. The only thing I didn’t like is when he compared Rockie to Tex. He shouldn’t have said that at all. Like “Tex doesn’t do that.” The line about him getting training for Tex when he was a puppy, whatever - but don’t compare the two dogs - that’s going to put her on the defensive. I think they are both bad communicators. She’s very reactive and emotional and then it makes him reactive and stubborn. They need to both work on it
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1 hour ago, Yeah No said:
Virginia not wanting to move into Erik's place is a red flag. She doesn't even care about the fact that it's not just a rental and would need to be sold before he could just find another place to live. It would only be temporary so why is that so hard for her to do? It can't be that bad. She is really not looking at her relationship with him like a marriage. I'm understanding all the more why Erik doesn't trust her. Her suggesting living apart again at this stage of the relationship was totally unacceptable.
I wasn’t sure what kind of compromise she wanted? He said he’d sell his place and they’d buy a new one they both picked out.
I do think he has horrible delivery. He needs to work on that. On unfiltered he said it was a character flaw, so maybe looking back at himself on TV he doesn’t like what he sees
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15 minutes ago, DrewPaul2010 said:
At the moment I would say no. The division between the two sides is toxic these days. My view points are nearly identical to democrats of the late 1990, early 2000 yet I'm considered far right. In my extended family we've all agreed (more or less) to avoid politics and religion. They are avoiding any serious topics because they know it will cause serious tension. He's already dropped several ultimatums. Every time he does that it freaks her out because that's her biggest fear. Watch the next four weeks if he starts pulling away it means he sees too many negatives to a long term relationship. Compared to all the other couples I think they are like rabbits every night.
I would think it would depend on what her believes and his beliefs actually are. Maybe he doesn’t care if LGBTQ people get married but still votes red for other reasons because he’s not as passionate about that issue.
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25 minutes ago, Cancun said:
I stand corrected. Although technically, we didn’t see Ginny drink the drink, it was near at hand.
And that fruit & chocolate tray was a messy wreck, just like Ginny!
Aw she was trying. I think their conversation at the end was really good. They at least were listening to each other. Hopefully he can bend on some of his issues because I do feel like they are really trying.
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2 minutes ago, eyelash said:
I figured it would be free food from his Subway franchise. Guess it must have already been closed by then.
I think it closed in March 2020
4 hours ago, DrewPaul2010 said:Much the same with Virginian and Erik. I suspect he's probably more right wing and she is liberal. That has irreconcilable differences all over it and great sex isn't the glue that binds. I have family split along those lines and its hard to communicate. They will probably both be heartbroken in the end. I think they will give it an extension
My husband and I are different politically. We just don’t talk about it. He has definitely grown more and changed some of his views on the social issues after being exposed to more in life. So maybe that can happen for them?
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7 hours ago, LennieBriscoe said:
Erik, in this episode and the preview, is going to prove too flip with relationship ultimatums (children; where to live) for Virginia.
Haley needs to burst out with, "You can't handle the truth!"
The were to live should be compromised on - but I don’t think children can be. If you want them or you don’t. That’s a huge issue.
I do think he’s quick to make all of these statements though. But he seems to go back on them and actually compromise. If they stay together they should go and buy some thorn together. Does he own his place and she rents?
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Did anyone watch Unfiltered? Seems like Haley is so not into Jacob at all. Like I could feel the disdain through my television.
8 minutes ago, Kiss my mutt said:Anyone catch unfiltered? Who was on?
Paige waiting for her meeting to see what her future with Chris will look like like and I’m thinking it’s not going to look like anything!
Pastor Cal, Erik & Haley. I felt like it was obvious which couple is still together and which isn’t from it
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14 minutes ago, Crashcourse said:
She walked into the place looking like that when she met Erik. I don't know where they were. Based on what I've seen of her so far, I wouldn't associate her with the term "freshened up." 🤣
I don’t know why I thought you were talking about the end scene with them having dinner at his place 😂
I am not going to fault her for wearing leggings at the driving range though (is that what you meant?) I’ve been living in my leggings since last March 😂
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10 minutes ago, Crashcourse said:
Yes, I know the workplace is understandably more casual now, but Virginia looked dumpy. I can see not wearing heels and dresses, but there are many ways to dress casually yet look nice for the office. Virginia didn't look like that. I think she's some sort of customer service rep.
Maybe she “freshened up” Before going to erik’s place. He did say he left her a note back at their shared apartment
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7 hours ago, Shauna said:
Vincent's shirts are at least one size too small. Every. Single. One.
In the decision day previews I don’t understand why he doesn’t just leave his jacket unbuttoned. It was really struggling
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3 minutes ago, Silver Bells said:
Changing topic for a sec .. anyone know title of last nights episode of 90 day fiance?
Into your arms
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3 hours ago, coconutcookie said:
I wonder if Haley and Eric would have been a better match.
Nah I’m not sure. I think that he and Virginia work well together oddly enough. He seems to really be into her. Says that she brings that “color” to life - which I don’t think Haley really does. We may see a different Erik with Haley. I think Virginia is bringing a more fun side to Erik out (but also a more paranoid side sometimes too lol). I think those 2 will actually work out in the end
4 hours ago, Yeah No said:I thought the other guys just happened to show up - no one invited them.
Erik started it by inviting himself along lol. He and Virginia were probably drunk already in their room 😂. At that point they both seemed to be drinking a lot
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2 minutes ago, Retired at last said:
I saw that this week they are having a panel discussion lead by Kevin Frazier for the half-way mark. They haven't done that before, have they? I like him and it will be good to see something different.
Oh really? What day/time is this?
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4 minutes ago, Silver Bells said:
Who the heck would want a girls night on their honeymoon? Just because Haleywanted to get away from Jake, doesn’t mean she needs the others with her too. The purpose of this honeymoon was to get to know one another, not go out with the girls. That was stupid IMO. This wasn’t your typical honeymoon. If I were Jake, I’d get another room and stop the torture. She’s too hoity toity for him, wants what she wants and does what she wants, and she does not want him.
Oh I’m not saying it’s not silly - just that the situation makes sense with how it went down. She stopped off at Virginia and Erik’s room - those two were getting along so he wanted to come too. Haley just isn’t into him and didn’t want to be alone with him. She probably should just be honest but maybe she is actually trying and isn’t having feelings.
they are pretty painful to watch though. I don’t think they get along well. All of their interactions seem stiff
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MAFSFAN exclusive Reddit spoiler was that all of the couples who said yes on decision day are still together now.
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15 minutes ago, StatisticalOutlier said:
I really wish they'd fully explain what happened. I can imagine that the girls were getting together. One husband decided to accompany his wife to the lobby or wherever, and another husband decided to do the same thing, and suddenly it's all the girls and some of the husbands, and the husbands stick around a bit (where they might not have if they'd been the only guy in the group), and Haley was thinking (or even wishing) they were just there for a minute, and would be moving on. And if the husbands moved on and wanted Jake to join them, they'd call him.
Haley explained it on Unfiltered. It was going to be a girls night, Erik wanted to go too so he went with Virginia. Ryan came down with Clara and was going to gamble but when he saw Erik, he decided to stay. Haley wanted some space from Jacob so didn’t say anything. They said they didn’t “run away” but kind of glossed over that part. Her explanation to the girls night did seem legitimate though. I could see that happening.
here’s the link to it on YouTube. It’s towards the end
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1 hour ago, bichonblitz said:
Virginia's talking to the camera while she was in bed close up was not doing her any favors. Girl has nasty zits all over her face! Does she not wash her face? She always looks dirty to me. She's a mess. Erik looks like Mr. Squeaky Clean. I don't understand what he sees in her.
He said she brings color into his life. 🤷🏼♀️ Maybe he just likes her? There has to be more that they aren’t showing us
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31 minutes ago, Empress1 said:
I think he's getting it - I think he was surprised that she wanted a mimosa at all, and then when she said she barely uses any OJ, I think he was put off. I don't think it's putting him off as much as it would me, but I do think he's noticed.
I agree. I think he notices but he likes (loves?) her and he’s letting it slide right now. I think if he wasn’t into her, it would be a bigger deal
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1 hour ago, Silver Bells said:
What a shit show last night. Salsa lessons, ceramics, all kinds of fillers. The best was Jake getting new clothes. How nice. A slight hint that you dress crappy and i hate being with you because you dress crappy. She’s very thoughtful, then talks to him like she’s better than him. This is a girl that always has to be right, and has all the answers. I wish he would date one of her girlfriends and call it a day.
I feel like if a man bought a women clothing on the show though, it wouldn’t be perceived as well. She basically was saying she’s buying the clothing because she doesn’t like what he wears.
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Admittedly, I’m a Virginia and Erik fan. I thought the scene at the end of the show was really cute. I hope that they both are able to make the compromises to make their relationship work. I think they genuinely care about each other.
Briana and Vincent were cute too. Too bad one of the last scenes with them was him overreacting about the dancing lessons.
I like Clara, but sometimes I don’t know if he likes her. I do think she kind of blew him off after he made the long speech.
haley and Jacob are done. She’s not into him. I think they are just going through the motions now.
I can’t even with Paige. Omg
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I thought Erik looked better on Unfiltered before the show. Like he dressed really well and his hair seemed different. I do think he’s more attractive than Jake, but I think attraction is a person preference.
I wish I could just buy the whole season and then binge watch it and be done lol
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5 hours ago, princelina said:
I think what Virginia thinks of as rules and asking permission, he thinks of as courtesy amongst husband and wife. If a spouse asks you to let them know you got somewhere safely, or to text when you're leaving so they know you're on your way home, why is that offensive? Even if it makes you roll your eyes because you think you're fine, is it that hard to make the other feel better? And based on their discussion, I felt that what she thought was "asking permission" was in his mind being courteous. Several years ago I went to a friend's bachelorette party - it was a little farther home than I'm used to going, it was going to be a small town walking pub crawl, and I didn't want to have to police myself so I decided I was going to spend the night at my friend's house on the sofa and have fun drinking up that night. To Mr P I said, "Hey, here's what I want to do - do you mind?" I wasn't asking permission, just being courteous and considering his feelings. Another thing about being married - one of us might be invited to an event without the other, and one says "Hey, I was going to do ____ this Saturday" and the other says, "You can't because we're already doing _____". And I think Eric would be happy with that. (Once in a while of course, not every single Thursday, Friday and Saturday that he's not working 😄 )
I agree with you 100%. You definitely said it better than I could have. I think it’s more of a misunderstanding between them. But we will see.
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I’m confused about this episode. Are they using old footage? I remember that Anthony’s birthday is in August from their original season of MAFS and confirmed it when I googled.
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I feel like the guys are still With their wives. Their vibes give off that they are happy
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S12.E11: The Monthiversary
in Married At First Sight
I wish for decision day they would write it on a board and then turn the board at the same time