@cereality wrote this over in the "Counting On" topic for this week's "Wild" episode, as part of a larger post about the Duggar sons-in-law and soon-to-be son-in-law. Cereality makes some good points.  I think Derick, although into the "wandering the world" thing, had some fairly sensible goals before he married Jill. He wanted to become a missionary working for the Southern Baptists' International Mission Board, married to a woman who'd be his partner in that career. He earned a bachelor's