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The money he spent in fast food and gas station snacks while traveling the state was probably part of his defense attorney's negotiations. In all seriousness, I'm guessing the pot was going from a legal dispensary in California to a legal one in Colorado and he could prove it. So the State would have to try him to his peers and the defense would be how the only crime he committed was driving on the roads of the State with cargo the State says is illegal, and they would point out all the hundreds of dollars he spent supporting the interstate businesses. 

The judge doesn't have to accept it. but with pot not being viewed as negatively as in the past, it may not be worth it to take him to trial over it. Fine him high, put him on an expensive community control release and harvest his dollars that way and opposed to having to pay to keep him in jail. After the September hearing in front of the judge we'll probably learn more.

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I know this might appear to show me as heartless, but I'd be delighted if they threw the book at Jorge.  Even without jail time, a huge fine could have an impact on him.  I'm so tired of all of his "I don't know" and lies.  He seems like he has always avoided responsibilities and consequences for his actions and lies ("I never got around to it" justifying taking over 10 years to take a DNA test).  This may finally be a situation in which he cannot lie his way out of it or ignore it hoping that it will just go away.

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On 7/19/2018 at 10:23 AM, seacliffsal said:

I know this might appear to show me as heartless, but I'd be delighted if they threw the book at Jorge.  Even without jail time, a huge fine could have an impact on him.  I'm so tired of all of his "I don't know" and lies.  He seems like he has always avoided responsibilities and consequences for his actions and lies ("I never got around to it" justifying taking over 10 years to take a DNA test).  This may finally be a situation in which he cannot lie his way out of it or ignore it hoping that it will just go away.

Yes! He needs to GROW UP!

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After watching the yoga challenge video they did together I really wonder about the show and how much of the couples story lines are fake for tv. Anfisa and Jorge seem to be really close and very touchy feely with one another in this video totally opposite from what we have seen from these two on tv. 

Something is just not adding up with these two. 

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1 hour ago, Witchz said:

After watching the yoga challenge video they did together I really wonder about the show and how much of the couples story lines are fake for tv. Anfisa and Jorge seem to be really close and very touchy feely with one another in this video totally opposite from what we have seen from these two on tv. 

 

Something is just not adding up with these two. 

My thoughts exactly! 

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2 hours ago, Neurochick said:

I think they're both scam artists.

They probably want their own reality show on TLC.

Agreed, I think all the couples are hoping for a spin off, reality TV involves less and less reality by the day! Not really scam artists per say but more so reading off a TLC script.

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21 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

Agreed, I think all the couples are hoping for a spin off, reality TV involves less and less reality by the day! Not really scam artists per say but more so reading off a TLC script.

I would watch Anfisa three nights a week. I find her very entertaining. 

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On 7/22/2018 at 6:40 AM, RedBagWithMakeup said:

My thoughts exactly! 

 

On 7/22/2018 at 5:12 AM, Witchz said:

After watching the yoga challenge video they did together I really wonder about the show and how much of the couples story lines are fake for tv. Anfisa and Jorge seem to be really close and very touchy feely with one another in this video totally opposite from what we have seen from these two on tv. 

 

Something is just not adding up with these two. 

These two are adorable in this video. They seem very close and like they get each other. Also, Anfisa is hilarious when she is obviously reading the very scripted piece for the body weight scale. She needs to come across more natural... she seems to be able to act in the 90 day franchise so she better get it together for her Youtube stardom.

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2 hours ago, RedBagWithMakeup said:

So basically, I feel that Anfisa just needs to mature more, which she seems to be doing, whereas I think Pao will continue to be a self absorbed mean girl.

But it was Anfisa who went up to Pao and threatened to fight her.  And, as folks here say, violence is never okay.  How mature is that to stand up and want to fight someone just because they called you ugly?  Yes, Pao may be a mean girl, but she never threatened violence against anybody.

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If think the show is very fake.  The whole idea of the original show is you have 90 days to decide if you will marry. Will they or won't they?  Ooh... the tension!  But really we know that the 90 day visa is to take care of pre-wedding things that need to be done.  It's not importing some stranger on a 90 day trial.

On Happily Ever After? they need to have (or think they need to have) that tension again, so everyone gets a storyline - will they or won't they stay married?!  I don't think TLC fame is that great that ALL those couples would stay together if they were really all so miserable.  This could be a really interesting show if TLC would be more honest.  I'd rather see some clips like the yoga one thrown in, rather than re-hasing the same argument for each couple over and over again.

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34 minutes ago, Neurochick said:

But it was Anfisa who went up to Pao and threatened to fight her.  And, as folks here say, violence is never okay.  How mature is that to stand up and want to fight someone just because they called you ugly?  Yes, Pao may be a mean girl, but she never threatened violence against anybody.

Pao is a bully and two-faced, and Anfisa called her on it.

Bullies like Pao never like to be called on their shit, so Pao played the victim.

Pao is an evil, vile, cruel narcissist who thinks she's some kind of beauty when all she is is a trampy cartoon. And then she's boring on top of it all.

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46 minutes ago, Neurochick said:

But it was Anfisa who went up to Pao and threatened to fight her.  And, as folks here say, violence is never okay.  How mature is that to stand up and want to fight someone just because they called you ugly?  Yes, Pao may be a mean girl, but she never threatened violence against anybody.

I don't think Anfisa was actually going to hit her, but I think she reached critical mass with Pao's crap, just like she did with Jorge. She seems to let things roll most of the time, but like everyone, she has her limits. I am a completely non violent person, and even I want to smack Pao! And I venture to guess I would have to stand in line behind most other posters on this board.

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3 hours ago, Neurochick said:

I don't get the Anfisa love.  Why do people love her, yet they hate Pao?  Don't get it at all.

Anfisa by herself, is not a likeable person by any means. However, at last season's Tell All Paola withiut any provocation started attacking Anfisa on very personal levels, while Anfisa simply defended herself and minded her own business. In Russian culture there is a deep dislike towards being two-faced or giving fake smiles, which is what Paola displayed when she tried to give her quick apology in front of everyone. 

For one woman to attack another woman s looks is sinking to a very, very low level of viciousness. Anfisa never did that, Paola did and that's why her behavior was repugnant 

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4 minutes ago, Lily247 said:

Anfisa by herself, is not a likeable person by any means. However, at last season's Tell All Paola withiut any provocation started attacking Anfisa on very personal levels, while Anfisa simply defended herself and minded her own business. In Russian culture there is a deep dislike towards being two-faced or giving fake smiles, which is what Paola displayed when she tried to give her quick apology in front of everyone. 

For one woman to attack another woman s looks is sinking to a very, very low level of viciousness. Anfisa never did that, Paola did and that's why her behavior was repugnant 

We've never seen Anfisa attack another person on looks AFAIR, but it's Pao's go-to insult.

Pao is just the worst.

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6 minutes ago, NoSpam said:

We've never seen Anfisa attack another person on looks AFAIR, but it's Pao's go-to insult.

Pao is just the worst.

Does that mean Anfisa is justified for stepping up to Pao because Pao talked about her looks.  Plenty of folks on this board said Anfisa was ugly, inside and out. 

See, I don't take Pao seriously; to me she's nothing more than a Sofia Vergara/Jessica Rabbit wannabe and failing at both.

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Just now, Neurochick said:

Does that mean Anfisa is justified for stepping up to Pao because Pao talked about her looks. 

 

Pao

 ttalked shit about Anfisa, and then pretended to like her to her face.

 

So yeah, I'd say she's justified in calling Pao on it.

would I ever advocate violence? No. But in this case I can understand why Anfisa was angry, and yet Pao continued to play the victim with her "I was trying to e nice and she threatened me" bullshit. Pao pretending to be nice turned my stomach.

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50 minutes ago, NoSpam said:

Pao

 ttalked shit about Anfisa, and then pretended to like her to her face.

 

So yeah, I'd say she's justified in calling Pao on it.

would I ever advocate violence? No. But in this case I can understand why Anfisa was angry, and yet Pao continued to play the victim with her "I was trying to e nice and she threatened me" bullshit. Pao pretending to be nice turned my stomach.

But to me, this makes Anfisa look like a high school girl.  In real life, people will talk shit about you and smile in your face.  You know they don't like you but most times it's not worth it to start a confrontation just because someone talked nonsense about you, they're acting like the Real Housewives of....whatever. 

Pao is such a joke to me, I can't see how Anfisa can even get upset at her nonsense.  How can she take anybody seriously with that crayon red hair?  I'd just say, "you're not worth me even speaking to," and that's it.  No need to step up or anything.   In real life, not everybody will like you and in real life, people will say shit about you. 

It just seems that today, people are so ready to fight, over bullshit.  Last week I was at a Broadway show and two women nearly came to blows because one of them was talking too loud.  I could understand why the woman was mad, chick was annoying, but shit, had a fight started...OMG, I'd hate to think of what happened. 

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1 hour ago, NoSpam said:

We've never seen Anfisa attack another person on looks AFAIR, but it's Pao's go-to insult.

Pao is just the worst.

Pao to me is a classic mean girl. and yes, Anfisa behaved disgracefully at times, but has really gotten her act together...Pao has allowed Juan to disrespect Russ more than once and just is such a nasty person. You can tell Anfisa cares for Jorge and is frustrated, Pao only cares about herself. Ugh. Russ is an idiot.

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So Anfisa got out of her seat.  She's been boxing. She could've knocked Ronald's fake head off.  She didn't.  Pao's a pig. With Bozo hair. Many people realize the truth in the things others have written above. It's why this clown had to turn off her SM.  Until she needed to announce her spawn.  

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On 7/9/2018 at 6:12 PM, SunnyBeBe said:

What I don't get is why she's making the threat of leaving the marriage if the child is his.....why? Is there some kind of high image of Jorge that this revelation will disrupt? He disgusts her already, so, how do you go down from that?  That she will have to share his time with a child? That he does't have enough love for the two of them?  That the baby mama will get a gig on the show and it will reduce her salary rate?  I mean, what is it really?  I don't understand.  He doesn't pay child support, so, why is she stirring the pot?  It's just weird and she showed her true colors of being one of the biggest golddiggers in the bunch.  She actually was dense enough to come out and admit that she wanted to marry Jorge because she thought that he had money, but, since he doesn't, she's not into him.  Regardless, of what Jorge does, that's just disgusting.  She could have kept that to herself.  But, Jorge is no better.  Poor kid.  I hope the child finds her dad and that it's not Jorge. 

I'll be honest, I'm confused by you being confused about it. Gorge lied about having a child, much like he's lied about many, many other things. The massive difference is this: a child is not like those other things. A child is a living, breathing human that needs parenting. She flat out stated she has no desire to be a stepmom. I have zero desire to be a stepmom too, so I get it. If I found out my hypothetical husband not only had a kid out there, but lied about it, I'd bail too and not look back. Hell, even if my husband DIDN'T know, but found out, I'd bail. You might think that makes me a bitch or evil or something, but the reality is I don't want anything to do with parenting in any form. Ever. And if the kid is Gorge's (which is very likely, IMO) then he *should* be in the kid's life - whether he shells out $ or not - which would mean she would be an unwilling stepmom if she stayed. As someone who grew up with a resentful parent (and a resentful step parent later), I'm glad she knows enough about herself to bail instead of sticking around. Kids know when they aren't wanted by someone. And quite frankly, I don't think he has enough love for anyone other than himself, much less the two of them. 

I agree I hope the girl isn't his, because his DNA needs to stop at him. 

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Maybe he didn't get around to a DNA test because of child support.  I don't imagine she'd be thrilled if he had to pay either. She's also mentioned that she has a problem with the fact that the young girl was abandoned by Jorge if it is his daughter. She doesn't want to find herself in the same boat.  

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3 hours ago, Lily247 said:

This is a promotional video for some weight scale. 

Yes we all know that. But the point was that they are still together. She really seems to love him.

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2 hours ago, vimsa3 said:

Yes we all know that. But the point was that they are still together. She really seems to love him.

What I meant was, that it is pretty obvious that these two will put on any show for a quick buck and a few more minutes in the "spotlight". 

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7 hours ago, Lily247 said:

What I meant was, that it is pretty obvious that these two will put on any show for a quick buck and a few more minutes in the "spotlight". 

I understud what you meant. But in this case this is Anfisas YouTube channel and has nothing to do with Jorge. She could easily done the add with out him. If they would have had a divorce she would never in a Illinois years asked him back to come and do one video with her !

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Radar just released the video of Anfisa they were talking about on the 'Tell-Nothing' show. Popped up on my Google news feed this morning. It is definitely Anfisa. Not a professional video, not sure, Jorge may have even filmed it!  They quote her as saying she wants to be a Playboy model so everyone will know who she is & want to take their picture with her.

https://radaronline.com/photos/anfisa-arkhipchenko-porn-tape-strips-naked-90-day-fiance/

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6 hours ago, alegtostandon said:

Radar just released the video of Anfisa they were talking about on the 'Tell-Nothing' show. Popped up on my Google news feed this morning. It is definitely Anfisa. Not a professional video, not sure, Jorge may have even filmed it!  They quote her as saying she wants to be a Playboy model so everyone will know who she is & want to take their picture with her.

https://radaronline.com/photos/anfisa-arkhipchenko-porn-tape-strips-naked-90-day-fiance/

I don't know. It looks like her somewhat, but her breasts and hips appear to be much smaller. If it is her, it has to be pretty old, back in Russia.

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1 hour ago, Gobi said:

I don't know. It looks like her somewhat, but her breasts and hips appear to be much smaller. If it is her, it has to be pretty old, back in Russia.

I think it's an old video too.  The face is defiantly hers.  So you remember before she came to US, the picture they would show of her was very seductive, I believe in a thing...maybe from the same video?

Whatever it is,, this is not something done recently.

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Whether it's her or not, a significant number of participants in the show spent time looking at it, so they can all drop the innocent act and the 'how could you' attitudes.  Annie and her declaration of how it really looked like Anfisa, obviously just wanted something to talk about the next time she and David went to the (ping pong) bar.  David said that Anfisa and Jorge act superior to everyone else; he intentionally reversed the subject order in that sentence because what he really meant was that everyone felt superior to Anfisa.  Hypocrites the bunch of them.  Having said that, I have to give shout outs to Chantel, Pedro, Nicole, and Azan who remained quiet on the subject.

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22 minutes ago, Neurochick said:

Funny, but if Chantel was the one who made this video, you'd be ripping her a new one, but I guess because it's Anfisa it's okay.

In past seasons, Anfisa has been ripped a new one, repeatedly. Unlike the other bozos on this show, though, Anfisa seems to have matured and gained some insight into her behavior. I know someone speculated it's only for the cameras, but I disagree, because Anfisa has a hard time not keeping things brutally real. 

We see Nicole, Pao, Danielle and others doing the same stupid stuff season after season, and just not getting why they have "haters", i.e., people who point out the flaws in their thinking. This has absolutely nothing to do with race or nationality. At all. It's all about people's behavior.

So that is why there has been some respect shown for Anfisa now, because she is willing to learn, and change, and most of the time, she's been the only one on the show displaying some intelligence and insight.

If you think snark on this board is racially motivated, may I suggest you read all the comments about Nicole and Danielle. They are both lily white and have had tons of snark bombs dropped on them.

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1 hour ago, RedBagWithMakeup said:

In past seasons, Anfisa has been ripped a new one, repeatedly. Unlike the other bozos on this show, though, Anfisa seems to have matured and gained some insight into her behavior. I know someone speculated it's only for the cameras, but I disagree, because Anfisa has a hard time not keeping things brutally real. 

We see Nicole, Pao, Danielle and others doing the same stupid stuff season after season, and just not getting why they have "haters", i.e., people who point out the flaws in their thinking. This has absolutely nothing to do with race or nationality. At all. It's all about people's behavior.

So that is why there has been some respect shown for Anfisa now, because she is willing to learn, and change, and most of the time, she's been the only one on the show displaying some intelligence and insight.

If you think snark on this board is racially motivated, may I suggest you read all the comments about Nicole and Danielle. They are both lily white and have had tons of snark bombs dropped on them.

If Anfisa is so “brutally real,” why does she continue to lie about the webcam work? Just admit it was you and move on.

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3 hours ago, Neurochick said:

Funny, but if Chantel was the one who made this video, you'd be ripping her a new one, but I guess because it's Anfisa it's okay.

Actually, no I wouldn't.  As I don't put words in other posters' mouths (or posts), please don't put them in mine.  And, I even gave a shout-out to Chantel about not participating in the comments.

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2 hours ago, DangerousMinds said:

If Anfisa is so “brutally real,” why does she continue to lie about the webcam work? Just admit it was you and move on.

There could be various reasons. She was very young when she did that. I'm not too familiar with Russian culture, but possibly it could cause problems for her family. Maybe she fears someone who was involved in helping her with it. She doesn't mind posting very seductive pictures of herself, so I don't think she's denying it out of embarrassment. I don't think we can make assumptions, since we don't know the circumstances under which she did it. I imagine young girls getting involved in this type of work deal with some very sketchy individuals. 

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On 8/1/2018 at 4:40 PM, Gobi said:

I don't know. It looks like her somewhat, but her breasts and hips appear to be much smaller. If it is her, it has to be pretty old, back in Russia.

I seen the video last season.  She must have been pretty young. How long has she been on the show? I think Jorge paid for her boob job. She’s had them the whole time she’s been on the show.

6 hours ago, Neurochick said:

Funny, but if Chantel was the one who made this video, you'd be ripping her a new one, but I guess because it's Anfisa it's okay.

I wouldn’t care if Chantel did a video. 

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6 hours ago, Neurochick said:

Funny, but if Chantel was the one who made this video, you'd be ripping her a new one, but I guess because it's Anfisa it's okay.

Nope, if Annie worked as a ping pong girl that is her business. Anfisa was horrible and terrible in every way, it seems (at least to the cameras) she is attempting to be better, why the hate ? Chantel, as myself and a few posters mentioned, left that mess alone and good on her! It made me respect Chantel.

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On 7/29/2018 at 11:34 AM, RedBagWithMakeup said:

Ok, I will take your bait, if you really want to know. 

Number one for me as far as disliking Pao, is how she and Juan are. The fact that she is best friends with that disgusting, smug mean girl speaks volumes about her. Juan could probably make Regina George cry. I have zero tolerance for catty, rude people like Juan and Pao. On the other hand, I have never seen Anfisa behave that way.

Number two, yes, Anfisa was awful to Jorge in the beginning and that was not ok. But, have you ever been in any kind of relationship with someone you trusted and depended upon, and they disappointed you, in a huge way? I'm not excusing her conduct, but I do think she was a young woman who was extremely frustrated, scared, and let down. She got the polar opposite of what he promised her, not to mention his mountain of lies in general! He completely mislead her.

Which brings me to point 3 - Anfisa is only 22, Pao is 30.

Number four is that Anfisa picked herself up and did things to better her life. She got a drivers license, she is going to college for a business degree, and seems to be working on herself on all levels. She uses her brain and intelligence, whereas Pao seems to base her whole existence on her looks.

Anfisa sticks by and supports her husband, even though he doesn't deserve it, while all Pao does is whine and fuss about her needs and wants, and cross Russ's boundaries. Not to mention letting that barnacle Juan disrespect her husband at every turn.

So basically, I feel that Anfisa just needs to mature more, which she seems to be doing, whereas I think Pao will continue to be a self absorbed mean girl.

The Anfisa Appeal to me is that (1) She is brutally honest - sometimes to her detriment. No surprises & her agenda is open.  (2) She has a dry sarcastic sense of humor I find hilarious (3) She is ultimately loyal to Jorge even though he is such a hot mess (4) Although she does not seem to have girlfriends, she is someone I could see myself hanging out with & laughing with; she seems like a person who can be self deprecating and fun. I would love to get a drink with her at HH after work.  Maybe it is a choice edit. I would rather eat poo than spend time with Pao.

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Pao is as big a liar as Jorge. She can't stand Russ. She practically cringed when he touched her. Her bags and shoes are knockoffs or rentals. She is full of shit that she couldn't afford to fly to Colombia  she spent more time nude modeling than she did with her yaya. She has consistently refused to get a real job. She has rejected family Russ  and so on and so on  

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On 19.8.2018 at 2:27 AM, Mainer said:

Pao annoys me.. she acts like she’s 20 like the modeling isn’t gonna last long. She’s not a spring chicken 

I think her age is the least of her problems. She just isn't pretty enough to make a living as a model. If you strip away all the distractions: tight dresses, big boobs, makeup that has been applied with a spatula, she's actually very weird looking - and it's not the good kind of weird that can be helpful in the modeling industry. It's the bad kind. 

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On 8/18/2018 at 5:27 PM, spankydoll said:

She has consistently refused to get a real job

I've never been able to understand this.  Is a "real job" in an office, in a store, on a fishing boat?  A real job for one person may not be a real job for another.

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6 hours ago, Neurochick said:

I've never been able to understand this.  Is a "real job" in an office, in a store, on a fishing boat?  A real job for one person may not be a real job for another.

She actually makes great money on YouTube!she has many followers I think over 300 000. That is great and pays a lot more money then a “real” job. And meanwhile she is studying! I think she is very smart and that is the biggest difference between her and pao! 

By the way she again filmed a vlog with Jorge and they are still together on a type of holiday I think she was invited to a brand event and took him with. They seem to have it great together and I am even more believing that all that drama and fighting this year was producer driven. Because they actually enjoy each other’s company and have a very different tone and chemistry with each other!

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