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8 hours ago, WinnieWinkle said:

People who won't take no for an answer!  I've just ended up making an appointment with a radiation oncologist for my mother even though my mother AND her doctor have agreed that she should not pursue radiation therapy for her cancer.  The person calling from the hospital though would absolutely not let me hang up without making an appointment for her to meet with a doctor to have the exact same conversation she has already had to reach the decision she has already made.  

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11 hours ago, WinnieWinkle said:

People who won't take no for an answer!  I've just ended up making an appointment with a radiation oncologist for my mother even though my mother AND her doctor have agreed that she should not pursue radiation therapy for her cancer.  The person calling from the hospital though would absolutely not let me hang up without making an appointment for her to meet with a doctor to have the exact same conversation she has already had to reach the decision she has already made.  

Just out of curiosity, why didn't you just hang up on them?

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People who are dismissive of other people's talents/hard work/good qualities. It actually really breaks my heart, especially when someone doesn't see the good in their own loved ones. That homemaker who works really hard, but gets yelled at because dinner's running late. That intelligent guy who's endlessly made fun of for mispronouncing something. The elderly woman who's extremely beautiful but shamed for having the audacity to age. That man who's ridiculed for working two jobs rather than appreciated for his work ethic. That child whose talents are ignored but gets scolded for making a B in one subject. That immigrant who speaks multiple languages but is called stupid because there is the occasional error in her English. That person who's very kindhearted, but is defined by the worst mistake of his life. I 100% believe in constructive criticism and there are jerks in this world who need to be called out, but I really wish more people would try to celebrate other people's positive qualities and accomplishments. We get more of that good from one another when we do. 

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7 hours ago, GaT said:

Just out of curiosity, why didn't you just hang up on them?

Too damn polite!  The woman was so insistent that I was also second guessing myself thinking that surely the people at the hospital know what we're supposed to be doing - as if there is only one way to handle a cancer diagnosis and somehow we are doing something wrong.  It was only when I hung up - finally!! - that I thought "what the hell". Also it doesn't help when you are making appointments etc for someone else.  I touched base afterwards with my mother who very emphatically reiterated that she is not going to have radiation therapy,  Period.  Full stop.

But yeah I think I'd like to feel that I've grown more assertive as I've gotten older (and I have) but not nearly as assertive as I should be!

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1 hour ago, WinnieWinkle said:

Too damn polite!  The woman was so insistent that I was also second guessing myself thinking that surely the people at the hospital know what we're supposed to be doing - as if there is only one way to handle a cancer diagnosis and somehow we are doing something wrong.  It was only when I hung up - finally!! - that I thought "what the hell". Also it doesn't help when you are making appointments etc for someone else.  I touched base afterwards with my mother who very emphatically reiterated that she is not going to have radiation therapy,  Period.  Full stop.

But yeah I think I'd like to feel that I've grown more assertive as I've gotten older (and I have) but not nearly as assertive as I should be!

I would call back and cancel the appointment and ask to speak to the office manager. Your mom is in charge of her health and if she doesn't want an appointment, she can't be forced to make one. I would let the office manager know you were very uncomfortable with the scheduler, you felt forced into making an appointment no one wanted and her doctor told her she didn't need, and you don't require any further contact from their office. 

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On 2/11/2021 at 2:20 PM, BexKeps said:

 

I don't think they select horrible dresses on purpose or to make the BM's look bad, the problem is the BRIDE likes them. My sister picked out and made the ugliest bridesmaid dresses for her wedding, Royal satin blue with a paisely blue & red patterned skirt. Myself and the other BM's were horrified to be seen in them but my sister thought they were da bomb! Still talks today about how wonderful those dresses were. They were butt ugly.

I think the mistake most bride's make is thinking one-style-fits-all. Not everyone looks good in mermaid style or a sweetheart neckline. Bride's that allow the BM's to pick out a style that they feel good in get high points from me.

Was your sister married in the 70's or 80's? just curious . 

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17 hours ago, RealHousewife said:

People who are dismissive of other people's talents/hard work/good qualities. It actually really breaks my heart, especially when someone doesn't see the good in their own loved ones. That homemaker who works really hard, but gets yelled at because dinner's running late. That intelligent guy who's endlessly made fun of for mispronouncing something. The elderly woman who's extremely beautiful but shamed for having the audacity to age. That man who's ridiculed for working two jobs rather than appreciated for his work ethic. That child whose talents are ignored but gets scolded for making a B in one subject. That immigrant who speaks multiple languages but is called stupid because there is the occasional error in her English. That person who's very kindhearted, but is defined by the worst mistake of his life. I 100% believe in constructive criticism and there are jerks in this world who need to be called out, but I really wish more people would try to celebrate other people's positive qualities and accomplishments. We get more of that good from one another when we do. 

I hope you don't actually know a lot of people who exhibit these behaviours; it sounds awful.

The flip side, of course, is the current ridiculousness of giving every child in every class/extracurricular activity an award.  Yeah, you failed every class/were late the few times you deigned to come to school/bullied your classmates/missed every practice and game after the first, so we'll give you two crappy cups - for worst student and biggest jerk.

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On 2/21/2021 at 3:58 PM, peacheslatour said:

I have a huge peeve right now. Chrome for some reason lost it's Solitaire web app and have replaced it with one that I absolutely HATE. I just hate it. Are there any other good Solitaire games I could get instead?

https://cardgames.io/cribbage/

This is a link to cribbage, but the site has lots of other games, including Solitaire.  I spend way too much time there!

(Anyone else grow up calling Solitaire Patience?  I have fond memories of helping my Grandma turn the cards when she no longer had the dexterity herself.  Definitely not a Peeve.)

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15 hours ago, Leeds said:

The flip side, of course, is the current ridiculousness of giving every child in every class/extracurricular activity an award. 

I don't know if I'd call that current.  They were doing this when my son was in elementary school in the '90s.  And kids are on to it.  I can still remember him coming home with a ribbon and me congratulating him only to have him tell me "they give these if you just show up".

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8 minutes ago, WinnieWinkle said:

I don't know if I'd call that current.  They were doing this when my son was in elementary school in the '90s.  And kids are on to it.  I can still remember him coming home with a ribbon and me congratulating him only to have him tell me "they give these if you just show up".

Participation trophies are so eighties.

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1 minute ago, peacheslatour said:

Participation trophies are so eighties.

The thing that stands out for me (and I hope this isn't still happening) was the parental push to get their kid into the gifted program.  It was brutal.

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1 minute ago, WinnieWinkle said:

The thing that stands out for me (and I hope this isn't still happening) was the parental push to get their kid into the gifted program.  It was brutal.

I never did that but my son's  high school sure did. Although I'm glad they did because it allowed him to graduate with honors.

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24 minutes ago, peacheslatour said:

Participation trophies are so eighties.

Then how come I didn’t get any?😆😆😆

I earned the few ribbons and awards I got in the 70s. And when I lost, didn’t get anything. And I turned out okay. Jeebus.

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On 2/21/2021 at 6:58 PM, peacheslatour said:

I have a huge peeve right now. Chrome for some reason lost it's Solitaire web app and have replaced it with one that I absolutely HATE. I just hate it. Are there any other good Solitaire games I could get instead?

I use classic-solitaire.com. It's just the basic solitaire which is what I prefer.

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Just now, annzeepark914 said:

I use classic-solitaire.com. It's just the basic solitaire which is what I prefer.

That's what I want to do but Google won't let me. I have to use their Klondike version or nothing.

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1 hour ago, peacheslatour said:

That's what I want to do but Google won't let me. I have to use their Klondike version or nothing.

When I got a new phone and tried to set up my Solitaire site (via Chrome), I kept getting the wrong Solitaire--until *finally* this one worked. It was a real PITA & I went through this nonsense twice cause my first new phone died thanks to malware. I just kept workin' that url until the "right" Solitaire popped up.

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1 hour ago, GHScorpiosRule said:

Then how come I didn’t get any?😆😆😆

I earned the few ribbons and awards I got in the 70s. And when I lost, didn’t get anything. And I turned out okay. Jeebus.

I feel like I'm the only person I know who doesn't have a trophy.  I won a red ribbon (2nd place) at a camp horse show.  And I got a few certificates at our high school's yearly academic awards.  But, no trophies.  Even my older sister has a participation trophy.  I guess I didn't participate enough.

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24 minutes ago, Katy M said:

I feel like I'm the only person I know who doesn't have a trophy.  I won a red ribbon (2nd place) at a camp horse show.  And I got a few certificates at our high school's yearly academic awards.  But, no trophies.  Even my older sister has a participation trophy.  I guess I didn't participate enough.

I won a math prize in grade 4.  A medallion hanging from a ribbon.  It was all downhill from there....

My pet peeve of the day:  people insulting others by saying "ok boomer" (which in and of itself is annoying) but they are directing this at people in their 40s and  early 50s.  Boomers are not by definition "people older than me".

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21 minutes ago, WinnieWinkle said:

My pet peeve of the day:  people insulting others by saying "ok boomer" (which in and of itself is annoying) but they are directing this at people in their 40s and  early 50s.  Boomers are not by definition "people older than me".

On a related note, I saw an article about "millennial" trends and it was descirbing people 20-25.  I'm pretty sure, that's gen Z.  So, by definition millennial is not people younger than me.  

OTOH, can we just stop with all this generation generalization (I feel this needs to be a book title or something, it's fun to say).   Yes, it's useful for marketing.  But, do we need to apply it to every aspect of life?

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I think of participation awards as a '90s thing, something that came along after my time, but maybe I just went to schools in the '70s and '80s that didn't do them - the only trophies/ribbons I got were for first-place wins.  Maybe some certificates for second place.  We didn't get anything for just participating (other than, you know, having fun, challenging ourselves, and learning how to be a good sport, win or lose).

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1 hour ago, annzeepark914 said:

When I got a new phone and tried to set up my Solitaire site (via Chrome), I kept getting the wrong Solitaire--until *finally* this one worked. It was a real PITA & I went through this nonsense twice cause my first new phone died thanks to malware. I just kept workin' that url until the "right" Solitaire popped up.

Google/Chrome is a real PITA about it. I'm now using their new one after I disabled to "auto" feature. It would basically play the cards for you, automatically pulling aces, twos and other cards before I wanted them to be played. I have a ridiculously strict set of rules I play by e.g. in order to win both black kings have to be on the far left, the red kings on the far right. Thanks everyone for all your advice!

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@peacheslatour:  You're a better person than I.  Most times I play my simple Solitaire, I must start when a black Ace pops up.  Once in a blue moon I'll start a game if a red ace pops up but they usually are an omen to me that things will not go well.  So, I guess...I cheat 😏

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2 hours ago, annzeepark914 said:

@peacheslatour:  You're a better person than I.  Most times I play my simple Solitaire, I must start when a black Ace pops up.  Once in a blue moon I'll start a game if a red ace pops up but they usually are an omen to me that things will not go well.  So, I guess...I cheat 😏

I guess I do too then. I won't play unless I can make at least two moves, I just start a new game until I get a combo where there are some playable moves. Interesting that you don't like the red cards either. My favorite way to start is if there are playable cards on the far right to start. That far right pile is usually a treasure trove.

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2 hours ago, Bastet said:

I think of participation awards as a '90s thing, something that came along after my time, but maybe I just went to schools in the '70s and '80s that didn't do them - the only trophies/ribbons I got were for first-place wins.  Maybe some certificates for second place.  We didn't get anything for just participating (other than, you know, having fun, challenging ourselves, and learning how to be a good sport, win or lose).

Same. And from what I recall, those awards tended to be given out more to placate the parents than the kids, because the parents were the ones who got all upset at the idea that their kid didn't win something or wasn't perfect. Or adults were worried that some kids might feel left out if they didn't get something. If a kid did get upset at not winning a trophy or an award, they also generally got over it pretty quickly (and a kid getting upset makes sense, because they're a kid. It's the adult's job to teach them that it's okay to lose sometimes, and how to lose gracefully at that)..

Which is why I've never understood the sneering from some people out there about how young people "just want participation trophies" nowadays. They aren't the ones who came up with the idea, and they're not the ones giving them out or even demanding them (some have even said they hate getting those kinds of things because it makes it harder to tell whether or not the praise and congratulations they're getting are genuine). That's on the adults. 

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32 minutes ago, Annber03 said:

Same. And from what I recall, those awards tended to be given out more to placate the parents than the kids, because the parents were the ones who got all upset at the idea that their kid didn't win something or wasn't perfect. Or adults were worried that some kids might feel left out if they didn't get something. If a kid did get upset at not winning a trophy or an award, they also generally got over it pretty quickly (and a kid getting upset makes sense, because they're a kid. It's the adult's job to teach them that it's okay to lose sometimes, and how to lose gracefully at that)..

Which is why I've never understood the sneering from some people out there about how young people "just want participation trophies" nowadays. They aren't the ones who came up with the idea, and they're not the ones giving them out or even demanding them (some have even said they hate getting those kinds of things because it makes it harder to tell whether or not the praise and congratulations they're getting are genuine). That's on the adults. 

Excellent point.

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34 minutes ago, Annber03 said:

Same. And from what I recall, those awards tended to be given out more to placate the parents than the kids, because the parents were the ones who got all upset at the idea that their kid didn't win something or wasn't perfect. Or adults were worried that some kids might feel left out if they didn't get something. If a kid did get upset at not winning a trophy or an award, they also generally got over it pretty quickly (and a kid getting upset makes sense, because they're a kid. It's the adult's job to teach them that it's okay to lose sometimes, and how to lose gracefully at that)..

Which is why I've never understood the sneering from some people out there about how young people "just want participation trophies" nowadays. They aren't the ones who came up with the idea, and they're not the ones giving them out or even demanding them (some have even said they hate getting those kinds of things because it makes it harder to tell whether or not the praise and congratulations they're getting are genuine). That's on the adults. 

Yup, they're frequently associated with millennials. Speaking as one, I don't think most people feel special getting something EVERYONE does. I posted earlier how I don't like for folks to be picked apart and that the positive in all of us should be especially celebrated by our loved ones. For example, if your kid struggles with math but excels at piano, don't call him stupid for struggling with math. Try to help him understand it better and be sure to celebrate his musical talent. Stuff like that makes a much bigger different than a participation trophy imo.

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2 minutes ago, RealHousewife said:

Yup, they're frequently associated with millennials. Speaking as one, I don't think most people feel special getting something EVERYONE does. I posted earlier how I don't like for folks to be picked apart and that the positive in all of us should be especially celebrated by our loved ones. For example, if your kid struggles with math but excels at piano, don't call him stupid for struggling with math. Try to help him understand it better and be sure to celebrate his musical talent. Stuff like that makes a much bigger different than a participation trophy imo.

Fellow millennial here, and I agree wholeheartedly with this. I think that's a much better way to go (and as someone who often struggled with math, I was always happy when I found someone who could help me with it in a way that didn't frustrate the both of us :p). 

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I have no problem with kids being recognized for their efforts. Not every kid is the next future star, but they all came out (well, their parents brought them out) and generally had fun and learned something, so they deserve recognition.  My issue is with the actual physical trophies! Raising 3 kids in the 90’s-00’s, we pretty much ran out of shelf space. Give ‘em a sticker, or a gift card for an ice cream cone. I should have invested in cheap trophy manufacturers in the early 90’s!  Save the trophies for the grownups who win the Super Bowl or the Nobel prize or whatever. 

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Award ceremonies have been my bane for years because in every school I've been at the teachers themselves announce the awards in the auditorium and it's a big school assembly. I have a severe phobia of public speaking and always have a panic attack about presenting the award. I've even taken the day off just to avoid speaking at the assembly.

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3 hours ago, SoMuchTV said:

I have no problem with kids being recognized for their efforts. Not every kid is the next future star, but they all came out (well, their parents brought them out) and generally had fun and learned something, so they deserve recognition.  My issue is with the actual physical trophies! Raising 3 kids in the 90’s-00’s, we pretty much ran out of shelf space. Give ‘em a sticker, or a gift card for an ice cream cone. I should have invested in cheap trophy manufacturers in the early 90’s!  Save the trophies for the grownups who win the Super Bowl or the Nobel prize or whatever. 

Then there's the crap you can get in the working world - cheap plaques, lucite awards, certificates printed in the office and put in a paper holder.  I knew this guy who was relatively high up in his organization and in his office he had every cheesy award given to him by the Rotary or the Kiwanis or whoever.  What do you do with all that when you no longer have an office?  My dad brought home a box of stuff like that when he retired.  He died 16 years later and my mom couldn't bring herself to throw it out.  When she died a decade later, it took about 8 seconds for my siblings and me to decide to toss it all in the dumpster when we were clearing out Mom's home.  It was great that Dad was recognized by his peers at statewide and national professional organizations.  Just that memory was enough, we didn't need the plaques! 

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18 hours ago, WinnieWinkle said:

I don't know if I'd call that current.  They were doing this when my son was in elementary school in the '90s.  And kids are on to it.  I can still remember him coming home with a ribbon and me congratulating him only to have him tell me "they give these if you just show up".

I'm finding as I get older that "current" means "any time period I can remember".

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23 hours ago, peacheslatour said:

Participation trophies are so eighties.

I'm going to disagree with this, it was totally the 90's! As a teenager of the 80's I do not remember ever receiving an award unless you were in 1st 2nd or 3rd. My daughters were born in '90 and '94 respectively and I remember them gettin awards for just showing up and being baffeled about how low the bar was set. 

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16 hours ago, Growsonwalls said:

Award ceremonies have been my bane for years because in every school I've been at the teachers themselves announce the awards in the auditorium and it's a big school assembly. I have a severe phobia of public speaking and always have a panic attack about presenting the award. I've even taken the day off just to avoid speaking at the assembly.

Mine too, but for diffrent reasons: they are boring as hell.

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I've been without water since Tuesday. An no, I'm not in Texas.

Just in a smallish Canadian city with old infrastructure which has at least 2 water main breaks/leaks per day during this time of the year.

I'm sick of it.

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My high school had a sports banquet, with participation ribbons for everyone on every team (at least some acknowledgement of merit, as people had to try out for a spot on a team), as well as trophies for MVP, skills competitions, sportsmanship, most improved....

They eventually recognized they were ignoring all of the geeks,  so the banquet was expanded to include all non-sports extra-curriculars, as well as academic achievement.  So there were participation ribbons for drama and student council, and certificates for top students. 

It was a long night. 

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26 minutes ago, BexKeps said:

Mine too, but for diffrent reasons: they are boring as hell.

When my daughter graduated from university I didn't really put up much of a fight when she insisted she didn't want to go to the grad ceremony.  A very long afternoon just to watch your kid get her 15 seconds of glory as she crosses the stage.  

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25 minutes ago, supposebly said:

I've been without water since Tuesday. An no, I'm not in Texas.

Just in a smallish Canadian city with old infrastructure which has at least 2 water main breaks/leaks per day during this time of the year.

I'm sick of it.

Oh that sucks. I hope they get the water back on for you soon!

 

My peeve is tags in clothing. I hate tags so, so much. And when you take them out, even with a seam ripper, there are still itchy things left behind.

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57 minutes ago, theredhead77 said:

 

My peeve is tags in clothing. I hate tags so, so much. And when you take them out, even with a seam ripper, there are still itchy things left behind.

Me too.  I understand why they have to be there but removing them without making a hole is a time-consuming pain in the neck.

And even if I manage 100% removal, I still suffer from phantom itch.

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44 minutes ago, Leeds said:

Me too.  I understand why they have to be there but removing them without making a hole is a time-consuming pain in the neck.

And even if I manage 100% removal, I still suffer from phantom itch.

And what is up with even more tags on the sides of clothing? Because the one at the neck isn't enough? MEH! 

DOWN WITH TAGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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2 hours ago, Quof said:

My high school had a sports banquet, with participation ribbons for everyone on every team (at least some acknowledgement of merit, as people had to try out for a spot on a team), as well as trophies for MVP, skills competitions, sportsmanship, most improved....

They eventually recognized they were ignoring all of the geeks,  so the banquet was expanded to include all non-sports extra-curriculars, as well as academic achievement.  So there were participation ribbons for drama and student council, and certificates for top students. 

It was a long night. 

We had a separate Arts Banquet for us arts geeks.  Everyone had "boarding food" (the high school I went to was mostly for day students, but there were 80-something ish girls in boarding) and then, if I recall correctly, saw drama classes perform short plays.  I just liked getting out of the house and not having to eat my grandmother's crappy cooking.  

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1 hour ago, theredhead77 said:

And what is up with even more tags on the sides of clothing?

And those are HUGE!! 

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2 hours ago, Leeds said:

Me too.  I understand why they have to be there but removing them without making a hole is a time-consuming pain in the neck.

And even if I manage 100% removal, I still suffer from phantom itch.

I HATE when tags are sewn on. It's a pain to get them removed, and there's actually wear and tear on a brand-new beautiful coat. 

Please stop this Calvin Klein!

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22 hours ago, SoMuchTV said:

I have no problem with kids being recognized for their efforts. Not every kid is the next future star, but they all came out (well, their parents brought them out) and generally had fun and learned something, so they deserve recognition.  My issue is with the actual physical trophies! Raising 3 kids in the 90’s-00’s, we pretty much ran out of shelf space. Give ‘em a sticker, or a gift card for an ice cream cone. I should have invested in cheap trophy manufacturers in the early 90’s!  Save the trophies for the grownups who win the Super Bowl or the Nobel prize or whatever. 

I misread this as "they all came out well" and immediately my mind leapt to "the parents of Jeffrey Dahmer's victims might beg to differ".

Thankfully he wasn't my student, but I've had plenty of students who didn't deserve a sticker, unless it was one saying "could do better".

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4 hours ago, theredhead77 said:

My peeve is tags in clothing. I hate tags so, so much. And when you take them out, even with a seam ripper, there are still itchy things left behind.

Mine is shirts without tags. I understand why they aren't there -- because many people find them bothersome. Some shirts I have no problems with, but for those whose front and back look similar, the tags help me put them on the right way. I have to take my glasses off to pull shirts on over my head (yes, I did once break a pair of glasses because I didn't take them off), and without a tag, it's hard to tell which is the front. I have very bad vision.

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OK, Mechanics, if all you have to do is drive my car from the parking lot to the hydraulic car lift then back, WHY do you have to adjust my seat for your dimensions? Will the 10-second drive each way cause irreversible cricks and cramps in your legs and back if you don't have it exactly the way you like it?! Sakes, Mama has shrunk nearly a foot shorter than me but I'm perfectly capable of driving her car if need be in a scrunched position so how tough can it be for you (who are roughly two decades younger) all to do the same? And if you MUST adjust it, how tough is it for you to adjust it BACK to where I had had it.

I guess I should be grateful that THIS time you kept my radio station 'as was' instead of killing my Classic Oldies selection in favor of something that makes me want tear the upholstery.

 

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20 minutes ago, auntlada said:

Mine is shirts without tags. I understand why they aren't there -- because many people find them bothersome. Some shirts I have no problems with, but for those whose front and back look similar, the tags help me put them on the right way. I have to take my glasses off to pull shirts on over my head (yes, I did once break a pair of glasses because I didn't take them off), and without a tag, it's hard to tell which is the front. I have very bad vision.

I was so wrapped up in my hatred of tags I never thought of this. Thank you! 
 

I can update my peeve from "tags" to "scratchy tags"

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I have a lot of tagless shirts where the inside back of the shirt has everything printed on it.  The problem is that over time all that print wears away.

That said, in general I prefer tagless shirts.  If my cat ever got a hold of shirts that had tags in them, they soon would be tagless anyway.  That cat has a tag eating fetish.

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1 hour ago, auntlada said:

Mine is shirts without tags. I understand why they aren't there -- because many people find them bothersome. Some shirts I have no problems with, but for those whose front and back look similar, the tags help me put them on the right way. I have to take my glasses off to pull shirts on over my head (yes, I did once break a pair of glasses because I didn't take them off), and without a tag, it's hard to tell which is the front. I have very bad vision.

All of my tagless shirts have a grey band on the inside of the collar, but only on the back, not the front. Best of both worlds.

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3 hours ago, Blergh said:

OK, Mechanics, if all you have to do is drive my car from the parking lot to the hydraulic car lift then back, WHY do you have to adjust my seat for your dimensions? Will the 10-second drive each way cause irreversible cricks and cramps in your legs and back if you don't have it exactly the way you like it?! Sakes, Mama has shrunk nearly a foot shorter than me but I'm perfectly capable of driving her car if need be in a scrunched position so how tough can it be for you (who are roughly two decades younger) all to do the same? And if you MUST adjust it, how tough is it for you to adjust it BACK to where I had had it.

I guess I should be grateful that THIS time you kept my radio station 'as was' instead of killing my Classic Oldies selection in favor of something that makes me want tear the upholstery.

 

If you are my size then yes, that would make them contortionists to fit into my settings. I have an auto position button. If press 1 and it goes back to my preferred settings. Glad that at least they left your radio station on. 

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Your pet peeves are your pet peeves, and you should feel free to express them here. This topic is not to be used to say you are peeved by another member of this community or something they said, either in this topic, or somewhere else in the forums. 

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