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I usually just try to keep my opinion to myself.  Unless someone purposely goads me.  I have one issue that I'm particularly passionate about.  I won't bring it up.  I probably won't even comment if others are discussing it, because there's no doubt that I'm in the minority.  But, if you get in my face about it, well, I'm only human.

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3 hours ago, Katy M said:

My pet peeve:  Christmas movies in October.  

And not that I particularly care that much, but are no channels going to play Halloween movies because they are already onto Christmas.  I have a hard and fast rule.  No Christmas movies before Thanksgiving. Except for one in July.  I don't know why, but for some reason I find that acceptable.

I agree.   I don't know why there would be Christmas movies on Hallmark's Movie & Mysteries channel anyway.  Unless there is a movie with a plot trying to figure out which elf snuffed out Santa Claus.

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2 hours ago, bilgistic said:

People have always been "the way they are now". It's just that the internet gives people a platform to be more vocal/visible. Not everyone could stand and yell in the town square or found a church or publish a newspaper back in the days of yore, but now there are 2.7 billion active users on Facebook, a billion on Instagram, and 330 million on Twitter. That's an unfathomable amount of opinions when we as a people were used to just hearing the ones in our community for thousands of years. This widespread exposure to billions of "other" voices has only been over the last 15 years or so.

That hasn't been my experience.  That said, it is much easier for people to spout off through a computer rather than face to face.

2 hours ago, auntlada said:

I think you're right, that people have always been that way, just not so visible, but I think people didn't use to talk about politics and other divisive subjects even with their actual friends and neighbors so much. I think it might have been possible not to know the opinions of your friends and neighbors. As I was a kid, though, I don't know what the adults did talk about on the summer evenings when they gathered in a neighborhood driveway. We were all too busy playing games.

This has been my experience.   Most people I knew growing up didn't talk about any controversial issues.  They would avoid them, because they always turned people off.

Any opinion that I have on any subject that I might think will rub someone the wrong way I keep to myself.  I have always done that.  I do slip up on occasion and say something without thinking that it would set someone off, and yet that is exactly what has happened.

As I have posted before, I am very socially awkward.   I say something that I think is going to be taken one way, only to find out that it came across in a way it wasn't intended.  I know I am in the wrong, so I always apologize.

 

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Current peeve:  when did Netflix get so needy?  I’ve just noticed this in the past few weeks. Every time I pause something, it asks me, are you enjoying this? Thumbs up? Thumbs down? Wha’d’ya think?  Huh? Huh?  

Well, how about you look at your database of everything I’ve watched ever? Maybe if I’m watching the fifth season of something that I started a month ago, I might like it. If I watched half of one episode and never came back, then, well...

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My peeve today is with Amazon. I have been ordering as much stuff...foods included as I can to spend as little time in the grocery store with people not wearing a mask. My last several orders for some reason they are putting white labels on the items. Sometimes they have a "best by" date but  more often nothing at all. My peeve is it covered up the ingredient list. I read a review where someone said the label covered the BBD and replaced it with one further in the future.  This smacks of some kind of fraud...getting rid of old products...yet in this time with all the purchases from Amazon how can they still have stock that old around?

Sorry posted this in the wrong thread before, but the peeve still stands.

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Peeves:

So much focus being placed on cholesterol, calories, and fat, and so little attention being placed on sodium levels.   At this point in my life, sodium is my number one concern due to its affect on my blood pressure.   I am a vegetarian and I look at the sodium levels in most of the plant-based meats, and for me, they are so off the charts.  Far too much sodium.

When it comes to frozen foods, is it really necessary to have really high levels of salt in them?

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I may have posted this 1 a long time ago, but I think it’s worth mentioning again because I’m seeing it in posts again & because it’s probably been a long while since I brought it up.

Right now, at least, my pet peeve is people who don’t know the difference between “a part” & “apart” & when to use each.

As for “a part” (2 words), that means something/someone is part of something/something else.

As for “apart” (1 word), that means something/someone is separate from something/someone else.

You don’t know how many times I’ve seen people (here & elsewhere) use at least 1 of  those words in the opposite way (a part—used as if it means “separate from” instead of “part of”); . It makes me crazy & I have to hold myself back from correcting them if it’s on a message board somewhere.

 

 

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9 hours ago, Gramto6 said:

My peeve today is with Amazon. I have been ordering as much stuff...foods included as I can to spend as little time in the grocery store with people not wearing a mask. My last several orders for some reason they are putting white labels on the items. Sometimes they have a "best by" date but  more often nothing at all. My peeve is it covered up the ingredient list. I read a review where someone said the label covered the BBD and replaced it with one further in the future.  This smacks of some kind of fraud...getting rid of old products...yet in this time with all the purchases from Amazon how can they still have stock that old around?

Sorry posted this in the wrong thread before, but the peeve still stands.

I get products from time to time with the stickers on them, and I believe they are inventory labeling from the vendor in question.  Can't really say whether or not they all came from Amazon themselves or a 3rd party supplier (or both).  I've had them on things that wouldn't have an expiration date.

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@icemiser69 I am so with you on the amount of sodium that’s put into foods. Sodium always feels like it’s burning my tongue, and it makes me retain water like crazy. I’m told it’s used to enhance the natural flavors of foods. All I taste is the salt. Then if you buy a product with reduced or no sodium it costs more. When you get a days worth in one meal (based on a low sodium diet) it’s too much. 

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41 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

@icemiser69 I am so with you on the amount of sodium that’s put into foods. Sodium always feels like it’s burning my tongue, and it makes me retain water like crazy. I’m told it’s used to enhance the natural flavors of foods. All I taste is the salt. Then if you buy a product with reduced or no sodium it costs more. When you get a days worth in one meal (based on a low sodium diet) it’s too much. 

When I look at the items made with pea protein, those are the ones that I have seen with the highest sodium levels.  Perhaps there are others, but those are the most noticeable ones for me.

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I am in the process of cleaning out my breezeway and have found out that the mouse was living part time in one of my old shoes.  I don't think he or she is related to Old Mother Hubbard, but who knows.  I am in the process of cleaning everything up and washing everything down and then I will see what I will do next.   

I will obvious toss out the shoes and some other old things that aren't worth salvaging. 

It is a real pain in the butt going through the process, but it has to be done.

I was able to finally find some Flex Paste at the local hardware store.

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Need to vent — it’s leaf blowing season here in the northeast and the noise is really annoying! I doubt people ( some of my neighbors) would be so anal-retentive about leaves if they actually had to rake them!

Can’t manufacturers make quieter leaf blowers?

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6 hours ago, icemiser69 said:

Peeves:

So much focus being placed on cholesterol, calories, and fat, and so little attention being placed on sodium levels.   At this point in my life, sodium is my number one concern due to its affect on my blood pressure.   I am a vegetarian and I look at the sodium levels in most of the plant-based meats, and for me, they are so off the charts.  Far too much sodium.

When it comes to frozen foods, is it really necessary to have really high levels of salt in them?

That and sugar. Maybe I'm just a cranky old broad but everything tastes too sweet these days. Especially breads. 

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I was able to finally find some Flex Paste at the local hardware store.

They just want you to buy it from their website.

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1 hour ago, icemiser69 said:

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I was able to finally find some Flex Paste at the local hardware store.

Can you let us know if it works? I want to buy some,  but I'm not completely sold...

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1 hour ago, sadiegirl said:

Can you let us know if it works? I want to buy some,  but I'm not completely sold...

We got some too. My DH used it yesterday on his sister's roof. She is going to let us know how it goes. He said it was easy to use but takes a long time to dry.

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4 hours ago, Adiba said:

Need to vent — it’s leaf blowing season here in the northeast and the noise is really annoying! I doubt people ( some of my neighbors) would be so anal-retentive about leaves if they actually had to rake them!

I have a neighbor that uses his leaf blower as a snow blower! It's a big honkin' thing too - he looks like a ghostbuster or something. And he'll go out when there's barely any snow on the ground. And it might be 11:00 at night when he does this. I just roll my eyes.

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45 minutes ago, Nordly Beaumont said:

I have a neighbor that uses his leaf blower as a snow blower! It's a big honkin' thing too - he looks like a ghostbuster or something. And he'll go out when there's barely any snow on the ground. And it might be 11:00 at night when he does this. I just roll my eyes.

Before my hip got messed up, I used to walk a mile a day. I'd be strolling along, enjoying the birds and the flowers and the trees and BAM! Fucking leaf blowers. Ruined my walk. 

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5 hours ago, peacheslatour said:

That and sugar. Maybe I'm just a cranky old broad but everything tastes too sweet these days. Especially breads. 

I only buy whole wheat bread that is made from whole wheat flour, yeast, water, and salt.  No sugar or other sweetener - I'm trying to eat bread, not cake - and no other unnecessary ingredients.  Three local bakeries made good ones, but one by one they either went out of business altogether or sharply reduced their inventory (eliminating "my" bread as part of that; it's clearly not a best-seller, going by what's on the shelves), so I'm down to one.  I'll have to start making my own bread if they bite the dust.

7 hours ago, Mindthinkr said:

Sodium always feels like it’s burning my tongue, and it makes me retain water like crazy. I’m told it’s used to enhance the natural flavors of foods.

It does, as does pepper, but such seasoning should be used sparingly and may not be necessary at all depending on the ingredients.  Yet the trend in prepared food - restaurant or pre-packaged, especially frozen, food - is way too much salt.  Not everyone's blood pressure is negatively affected by it, but I think it's unfortunate across the board, because even if there's no health risk it may affect your overall sense of taste (effectively making you crave more and more salt).

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4 minutes ago, Bastet said:

I only buy whole wheat bread that is made from whole wheat flour, yeast, water, and salt.  No sugar or other sweetener - I'm trying to eat bread, not cake - and no other unnecessary ingredients.  Three local bakeries made good ones, but one by one they either went out of business altogether or sharply reduced their inventory (eliminating "my" bread as part of that; it's clearly not a best-seller, going by what's on the shelves), so I'm down to one.  I'll have to start making my own bread if they bite the dust.

It does, as does pepper, but such seasoning should be used sparingly and may not be necessary at all depending on the ingredients.  Yet the trend in prepared food - restaurant or pre-packaged, especially frozen, food - is way too much salt.  Not everyone's blood pressure is negatively affected by it, but I think it's unfortunate across the board, because even if there's no health risk it may affect your overall sense of taste (effectively making you crave more and more salt).

I don't use much, if any salt in cooking. There are so many herbs, spices and other way of flavoring food. And I tend to cook with real butter (is there any other kind?) and I figure there's probably enough salt in that. 

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5 minutes ago, peacheslatour said:

I don't use much, if any salt in cooking. There are so many herbs, spices and other way of flavoring food. And I tend to cook with real butter (is there any other kind?) and I figure there's probably enough salt in that. 

I use unsalted butter (or some kind of oil, depending on the recipe), but I'm the same in that I don't add much salt to my cooking (and if I'm making a dish with, say, cheese, so there's already lots of salt, I don't add any) - with the garlic, herbs, and/or spices in most of what I cook, there's little to no extra salt needed to properly enhance the flavor.  I put salt and pepper shakers on the table when hosting others, but I don't think I've ever seen anyone use them (and I get compliments and recipe requests), so others don't find my food bland, either.

People particularly rave about soups I make, and I think that's because of the homemade stock - the base gets its flavor from chicken and vegetables, not stock, so they're just tasting that "pure" flavor and whatever is added to the soup.

I get it - salt and fat taste good.  But a little go a long way, and they're not what I want to rely on for flavor.

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Huge pet peeve: Leaf blowers and snow blowers. They're not really doing anything. And when I walk past someone blowing, I get blown with leaves, dust or snow! They should be outlawed. 

Use a bloody rake and a shovel. It's good exercise, it's quiet and doesn't stink like diesel.

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29 minutes ago, supposebly said:

Huge pet peeve: Leaf blowers and snow blowers. They're not really doing anything. And when I walk past someone blowing, I get blown with leaves, dust or snow! They should be outlawed. 

Use a bloody rake and a shovel. It's good exercise, it's quiet and doesn't stink like diesel.

As a kid, not in a million years would I use a shovel on my parent's old driveway once they finally bought the snowblower.  It was a long driveway and it would take all day to clear it with multiple people shoveling.  It was even harder before they had the driveway paved, constantly hitting stone while shoveling.

There have been quite a few people over the years that have died from heart attacks while shoveling snow.  Snowblowers are a must have.  Snow can be wet and heavy, it is not worth messing with when there is a lot of snow.   A few inches of light fluffy snow?  Yeah, I have no problem shoveling it.  Beyond that, a snowblower is a must, especially when the plows push the snow into driveways.   That is where it really gets heavy with sand and salt mixed in.  It is wet and very heavy.

I don't like noise coming from leaf blowers, I prefer to rake.

The one peeve I did have as a kid is when people would throw snow past their driveway to the right side near the road.   The snowplows would come by and push that snow down the street and it would collect in a neighbor's driveway.

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I don't like noise coming from leaf blowers, I prefer to rake.

We have an electric leaf blower but we only use it on the sidewalk in front of our house because I have a double row of ornamental trees and bushes on either side of it and they drop spent flowers on the sidewalk. It's actually very quiet.

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14 minutes ago, icemiser69 said:

especially when the plows push the snow into driveways.

I HATE that! It's so hard to clear! The snow is packed hard with lots of ice chunks. And if you don't get it immediately, it gets worse. I'm glad to be working from home now so I'll be able to tackle it when it's only back-breaking and not whole-body breaking!

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39 minutes ago, supposebly said:

and doesn't stink like diesel.

Gas-powered leaf blowers are banned in L.A., but a) they're still used and b) even when the ban is honored, switching to electric only alleviates one (pollution) or two (noise, if applicable to any appreciable degree) problems.  But most people don't want to maintain their own yards or pay their gardener extra for the time to rake, so here we are - the ban winds up not doing much other than being an additional way to harass the brown folks taking care of these yards.

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9 hours ago, SuprSuprElevated said:

I get products from time to time with the stickers on them, and I believe they are inventory labeling from the vendor in question.  Can't really say whether or not they all came from Amazon themselves or a 3rd party supplier (or both).  I've had them on things that wouldn't have an expiration date.

Yes, many have inventory labelling, the ones I was talking about were completely blank and covered up the ingredient lists. There was no reason for them to be there. Someone else on a product review I read said some of the labels covered the BBD and added a new on further out. That would peeve me too!

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22 hours ago, SoMuchTV said:

Current peeve:  when did Netflix get so needy?  I’ve just noticed this in the past few weeks. Every time I pause something, it asks me, are you enjoying this? Thumbs up? Thumbs down? Wha’d’ya think?  Huh? Huh?  

Well, how about you look at your database of everything I’ve watched ever? Maybe if I’m watching the fifth season of something that I started a month ago, I might like it. If I watched half of one episode and never came back, then, well...

The thumbs up, thumbs down every time you pause is new and somehow annoying. And why recommend things "Since you watched..." when you can also see that I watched 10 minutes and never went back.

 

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1 hour ago, Gramto6 said:

Yes, many have inventory labelling, the ones I was talking about were completely blank and covered up the ingredient lists. There was no reason for them to be there. Someone else on a product review I read said some of the labels covered the BBD and added a new on further out. That would peeve me too!

Oooh, yeah that's rotten.  

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My pet peeve (and this may be the second time I've mentioned it) is the obnoxious car commercials aimed at the young and thoughtless, like Toyota's commercials shown over and over ad nausem Friday and Saturday during Skate America.  It shows 20 somethings, male and female, racing each other in SUV's in a downtown area and on a highway while Hey Ya is playing (and now the song is stuck in my brain).  There have been other car commercials recently (I'm thinking BMW but not positive) that also show speeding, not watching the road, having a great ol' time. All I can think is pretty soon we'll be dealing with these airheads having fun with their new cars as we try to avoid them hitting us.  Why are these car ads, showing irresponsible drivers, allowed on TV?

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38 minutes ago, annzeepark914 said:

My pet peeve (and this may be the second time I've mentioned it) is the obnoxious car commercials aimed at the young and thoughtless, like Toyota's commercials shown over and over ad nausem Friday and Saturday during Skate America.  It shows 20 somethings, male and female, racing each other in SUV's in a downtown area and on a highway while Hey Ya is playing (and now the song is stuck in my brain).  There have been other car commercials recently (I'm thinking BMW but not positive) that also show speeding, not watching the road, having a great ol' time. All I can think is pretty soon we'll be dealing with these airheads having fun with their new cars as we try to avoid them hitting us.  Why are these car ads, showing irresponsible drivers, allowed on TV?

When covid started we had a bunch of problems with drag racing because the streets were so empty.

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1 minute ago, ParadoxLost said:

When covid started we had a bunch of problems with drag racing because the streets were so empty.

We did too.  A few weeks ago I had an 8:00 AM dental appt and was driving over there around 7:30 AM.  All of a sudden, WHOOSH!  A small red car came out of nowhere and flew past me (I was on a state highway but in the city outskirts).  He had to have been going 100 mph.  I wish the police would concentrate more on catching these jerks.  Where do these people get the idea that the roads are theirs to do as they please?

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17 hours ago, supposebly said:

Huge pet peeve: Leaf blowers and snow blowers. They're not really doing anything

I live in Upstate NY, my city won the title in 2019-20 for the most snow for the season. On average it can be 5-8 inches, and sometimes that snow is heavy. Add to that I have a long driveway, 4 car lengths, I couldn't get out of my driveway in a timely manner and without a back ache if I didn't have a snowblower.  

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35 minutes ago, BexKeps said:

I live in Upstate NY, my city won the title in 2019-20 for the most snow for the season. On average it can be 5-8 inches, and sometimes that snow is heavy. Add to that I have a long driveway, 4 car lengths, I couldn't get out of my driveway in a timely manner and without a back ache if I didn't have a snowblower.  

I think comparing snow blowers and leaf blowers is apples and oranges. Snowblowers can save lives. Leaf blowers are pure vanity.

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I'm not sure in this case if my pet peeve is myself or other people.  I never know what to do when I go into a place of business and nobody notices me.  I feel like trying to get their attention comes off as obnoxious.  But, how long am I supposed to just stand there.  Today it was only about a minute, so that's not too bad.  But, this summer I went into a store/ice cream place to get a chocolate shake (I think we can agree that's an absolute necessity) and I stood there for 5 minutes and then just decided to leave.  But in that case I didn't even see any employees.  I feel like I could have wiped the place out had I been so inclined.

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My pet peeve is people who think it's okay to say the rudest, most obnoxious things possible but then need their smelling salts when someone utters a curse word. I know a lady like that -- she says the most vicious, cruel things possible but is massively offended at words like "shit or "crap." 

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1 hour ago, Katy M said:

I'm not sure in this case if my pet peeve is myself or other people.  I never know what to do when I go into a place of business and nobody notices me.  I feel like trying to get their attention comes off as obnoxious.  But, how long am I supposed to just stand there.  Today it was only about a minute, so that's not too bad.  But, this summer I went into a store/ice cream place to get a chocolate shake (I think we can agree that's an absolute necessity) and I stood there for 5 minutes and then just decided to leave.  But in that case I didn't even see any employees.  I feel like I could have wiped the place out had I been so inclined.

Once upon a time, when I was a college student, a friend got engaged and registered at Big Department Store (that worked on commission).  Several of us pooled our money to buy a gift from the registry, but when we went to the store, looking like college students, the sales clerks completely ignored us.  I mean, they looked at us, sneered, and looked away.  That made me so angry that I waved our money around and started shouting, "Hey, we have money!  Is it not good enough for you?  We'll be happy to spend it somewhere else!  Where's the manager?" and so on, in that vein.  Of course my friends were ready to crawl under the nearest rock, but damn if we didn't get waited on.  But as retribution, I told the clerk we weren't going to buy the expensive thing we'd wanted to (and could afford), because we didn't want to give their rude asses that much in commission.  The manager was pissed, too.  Sadly, I couldn't convince my friend to change the registry to another store.

All that to say, your peeve is other people.

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@BexKeps, Syracuse, Binghamton, or Watertown (I figure you would've said Western New York if it was Buffalo)? All contenders for the Golden Snowball.

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6 minutes ago, Browncoat said:

Once upon a time, when I was a college student, a friend got engaged and registered at Big Department Store (that worked on commission).  Several of us pooled our money to buy a gift from the registry, but when we went to the store, looking like college students, the sales clerks completely ignored us.  I mean, they looked at us, sneered, and looked away.  That made me so angry that I waved our money around and started shouting, "Hey, we have money!  Is it not good enough for you?  We'll be happy to spend it somewhere else!  Where's the manager?" and so on, in that vein.  Of course my friends were ready to crawl under the nearest rock, but damn if we didn't get waited on.  But as retribution, I told the clerk we weren't going to buy the expensive thing we'd wanted to (and could afford), because we didn't want to give their rude asses that much in commission.  The manager was pissed, too.  Sadly, I couldn't convince my friend to change the registry to another store.

All that to say, your peeve is other people.

That was just out and out rude.  I wouldn't have spent a dime at that store if I were you.  You should have gone to another store, bought the expensive item taken it into that store and then say you have to go shopping now.  Totally Pretty Woman it.

In my case, it wasn't specific to me.  It's just that nobody was around.  I don't get that.  I've worked in food places before.  And the same would hold true for stores or anywhere you get off the street traffic. You keep an eye on the door.It's just common sense.

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3 minutes ago, Katy M said:

That was just out and out rude.  I wouldn't have spent a dime at that store if I were you.  You should have gone to another store, bought the expensive item taken it into that store and then say you have to go shopping now.  Totally Pretty Woman it.

The manager did enough sucking up that we were okay with buying some token from the registry.  IIRC, the expensive item might have been store-specific?  It's been, oh my god, it's been more than thirty years! since this incident!  Now I have to go lie down.

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21 hours ago, supposebly said:

Huge pet peeve: Leaf blowers and snow blowers. They're not really doing anything. And when I walk past someone blowing, I get blown with leaves, dust or snow! They should be outlawed. 

Use a bloody rake and a shovel. It's good exercise, it's quiet and doesn't stink like diesel.

I'll assume this is satire.

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7 minutes ago, SuprSuprElevated said:

I'll assume this is satire.

I don't know, but I'll completely agree that you shouldn't blow stuff on a passerby. There's not much worse than walking home in the winter and someone throwing a ton of snow on you.  Although, I actually had that happen with a shovel.  Wasn't any more pleasant that way.

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1 minute ago, Katy M said:

I don't know, but I'll completely agree that you shouldn't blow stuff on a passerby. There's not much worse than walking home in the winter and someone throwing a ton of snow on you.  Although, I actually had that happen with a shovel.  Wasn't any more pleasant that way.

Banning useful equipment won't eliminate the asshole quotient.  People will find other ways to be jerks.  

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1 hour ago, Growsonwalls said:

My pet peeve is people who think it's okay to say the rudest, most obnoxious things possible but then need their smelling salts when someone utters a curse word. I know a lady like that -- she says the most vicious, cruel things possible but is massively offended at words like "shit or "crap." 

Ooh this is a pet peeve of mine too. I don't like a potty mouth or aggressive cursing, but what's a little cursing going to do to an adult? And you're right there are people who are extremely mean and aggressive without cursing and get all high and mighty about what they consider kindness and manners. 

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@ABay, lol, you're close - ROCHESTER! We have an annual competition with Buffalo & Syracuse, Syracuse usually wins but we got it last year! 

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6 minutes ago, RealHousewife said:

Ooh this is a pet peeve of mine too. I don't like a potty mouth or aggressive cursing, but what's a little cursing going to do to an adult? And you're right there are people who are extremely mean and aggressive without cursing and get all high and mighty about what they consider kindness and manners. 

They're always like "I never curse, I have manners." But they can say the rudest stuff and think they still have "manners." I know one woman who always says someone's going to "burn in hell." But she never curses. Yeah, she's so polite.

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20 minutes ago, Growsonwalls said:

I know one woman who always says someone's going to "burn in hell." But she never curses.

My 4(ish) year old self would disagree with her. I distinctly remember poking around in a cabinet in my moms bedroom, finding some non Duplo Legos and asking my mom "what in the hell is this"? And the reason I have this memory is because I got my mouth washed out with soap for swearing. It certainly didn't deter me, I swear like a sailor and swear more around people I know it bothers, because I can be an asshole like that. It's probably my rebellious side.

My current peeve is the amount of waste the pandemic is generating. Not just litter, but waste. So much plastic and non-biodegradable waste going into the landfill. Not to mention all the asshats who drop their gloves or masks on the ground which then end up in the storm drains and eventually make their way to the ocean. 

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31 minutes ago, Growsonwalls said:

They're always like "I never curse, I have manners." But they can say the rudest stuff and think they still have "manners." I know one woman who always says someone's going to "burn in hell." But she never curses. Yeah, she's so polite.

LOL! I prefer a sweet person who curses like a sailor over someone who is nasty without using naughty words. 

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1 hour ago, RealHousewife said:

LOL! I prefer a sweet person who curses like a sailor over someone who is nasty without using naughty words. 

I've been known to respond to "well bless your heart" with "well fuck you, too".

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