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3 hours ago, bilgistic said:

I'm full of peeves.

I got the health insurance statement in the mail yesterday for the post-accident ER visit. (I have insurance through the "marketplace".)

$12,000.

My "responsibility" is in the hundreds (which might as well be $12K because I don't have several hundred dollars either), but the fact that a CT scan, ONE pain pill and six hours of sitting on my ass at the ER costs $12,000 is absolutely LUDICROUS.

I agree with @peacheslatour.  Give them a call and explain that you have no money to pay.  You aren't looking for a payment plan because you have no money.  Most likely they will either write off the balance, or find a state or local program that will cover the cost.  You may need to submit proof of income and bank statements, but (unfortunately) that's not a problem in your situation.  You can bet your care cost them a heck of a lot less than $12,000!!!!!!!

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On 3/6/2020 at 9:24 AM, Beany Malone said:

I've got a fair few family members and friends who are in the nursing profession and they will be the first to tell you that constant handwashing and sanitizing does a real number on your hands!

It's happened to me too, so they're not alone.

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People somewhat older than me: Just because only you can shop 6-7:30 does not mean you can only shop 6-7:30.

And perhaps you could leave something on the shelves for the rest of us.

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On 3/21/2020 at 8:23 AM, ABay said:

People somewhat older than me: Just because only you can shop 6-7:30 does not mean you can only shop 6-7:30.

And perhaps you could leave something on the shelves for the rest of us.

I am surprised that hasn't sparked an age discrimination lawsuit of some sort.  Of course any person attempting to sue would probably face a heck of a lot of criticism for doing so.   That said, if some older folks are cleaning off the shelves, leaving little for everyone else, that is a huge problem.  If they haven't been put in already, I wouldn't be surprised if purchase limits per customer were put into place in an effort to stop hoarding.  Allowing customers to buy a certain number of items per grouping.  That would give other customers the opportunity to buy what they need, instead of staring at empty store shelves.

People are scared, I understand that.  Dealing with the unknown is always scary.  In most cases they aren't hoarding because they are greedy, they are hoarding because they are scared.

My pet peeve is going to a garden center and picking up potting soil that they store outside in the elements.   The soil is in plastic bags. I have no clue how the soil inside gets sopping wet.  It is messy and heavy due to the wetness, and on more than one occasion, the soil I bought when it somewhat dried out turned into a brick.

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11 minutes ago, icemiser69 said:

am surprised that hasn't sparked an age discrimination lawsuit of some sort.  Of course any person attempting to sue would probably face a heck of a lot of criticism for doing so.   That said, if some older folks are cleaning off the shelves, leaving little for everyone else, that is a huge problem.  If they haven't been put in already, I wouldn't be surprised if purchase limits per customer were put into place in an effort to stop hoarding.  Allowing customers to buy a certain number of items per grouping.  That would give other customers the opportunity to buy what they need, instead of staring at empty store shelves.

I was at the store maybe 15 minutes after they opened.  They only have senior shopping hours on Tues, Wed, and Thurs, I think, so that wasn't an issue.  A lot of the shelves were still bare and a lot of them pretty scanty.  So, it might not be the seniors' fault.  You don't know when your store is stocking up, or if they're even able to on some items.  I seriously think we may have seen the last of the toilet paper for a very long time.

I do agree on the limits, though. If the government was able to get out a workable rationing system in World War II, they ought to be able to do it now.

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I'm sure that some 85-year-old woman who eats a tin of tuna and a cup of tea every day is stripping the grocery shelves bare.

Look, here are some of those greedy oldsters right now!

These two frail senior citizens lost their shit when they weren't allowed to buy out all the Mountain Dew in the store.  Imagine depriving them of the very staff of life!

And Grandma Moses here:

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1 hour ago, icemiser69 said:

I am surprised that hasn't sparked an age discrimination lawsuit of some sort. 

Young people are not a protected class, older people are (in certain areas of law).  Because the former have not been consistently discriminated against because of their age, while the latter have.  So they're granted standing, whoop-de-doo - again, in certain areas of law - to raise a discrimination claim.  They're not handed a victory on the merits because of their age.

1 hour ago, icemiser69 said:

If they haven't been put in already, I wouldn't be surprised if purchase limits per customer were put into place in an effort to stop hoarding.

They have.  I do not know a single store in my area (Los Angeles), chain or independent, that hasn't imposed limits on items being hoarded.  Seniors who do not have a less-vulnerable person to do their shopping for them, who cannot afford - or wait for - delivery, or who don't qualify - or can't wait for - any available services and thus must venture out to a grocery store simply have the option of turning up at the ass crack of morning to shop in the 30-60 minutes (depending on the store) before the store opens to the general public, thus reducing their exposure.  They are not granted a "clear the shelves" pass based on age.

Thus, no grounds for a lawsuit.

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Oh, yeah, I forgot about this guy, who clearly broke out of his assisted-living facility to snap up all the printer paper in the Southern Hemisphere.

Seriously, does anyone believe that old people are responsible for the selfish panic buying that's going on?

 

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57 minutes ago, icemiser69 said:

I am surprised that hasn't sparked an age discrimination lawsuit of some sort.  Of course any person attempting to sue would probably face a heck of a lot of criticism for doing so.   That said, if some older folks are cleaning off the shelves, leaving little for everyone else, that is a huge problem.  

The reason the special hours were created was because older people weren't getting anything, a lot of them just aren't fast enough to grab things off the shelf before younger people get them all. Plus, they are the most vulnerable, letting them go to the store when it won't be as crowded helps to protect them. I have no problem with them getting special hours.

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14 minutes ago, Bastet said:

Young people are not a protected class, old people are (in certain areas of law).  Because the former have not been consistently discriminated against because of their age, while the latter have.  So they're granted standing, whoop-de-doo, again, in certain areas of law, to raise a claim.  They're not handed a victory on the merits.

Thank you for this. 🙂

4 minutes ago, GaT said:

The reason the special hours were created was because older people weren't getting anything, a lot of them just aren't fast enough to grab things off the shelf before younger people get them all. Plus, they are the most vulnerable, letting them go to the store when it won't be as crowded helps to protect them. I have no problem with them getting special hours.

Thank you for this as well. 🙂

If it helps to protect them by having fewer customers in the store (social distancing), then of course it is worth having the special hours.

 

17 minutes ago, Mondrianyone said:

Oh, yeah, I forgot about this guy, who clearly broke out of his assisted-living facility to snap up all the printer paper in the Southern Hemisphere.

Seriously, does anyone believe that old people are responsible for the selfish panic buying that's going on?

I think much of it is media driven.   All of the stories about hoarding triggers others to hoard.  Not a surprise.

 

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Not a surprise that the hoarding is happening, but definitely crazy that anyone thinks that because a protected time slot has been set aside for the most vulnerable population--a rare show of humanity and compassion--that those older people are taking advantage to load up on beer and rib eyes.  It'd honestly be laughable if it weren't so horrific.

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1 hour ago, Mondrianyone said:

 

These two frail senior citizens lost their shit when they weren't allowed to buy out all the Mountain Dew in the store.  Imagine depriving them of the very staff of life!

 

Those two look like exactly the kind of people I'd imaging throwing a shit fit over how much Mountain Dew they were allowed to buy. And that dude's haircut. My god. 

I look forward to that clip being shown next season on My 600-lb Life.

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I feel so sorry for people working at grocery stores, Target, Walmart, etc. Not only could they be face to face with a carrier, but they have to put up with jerks, too. It must be so stressful.

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As I understand it, the early hours were chosen because the store would just have been cleaned and restocked. The stores are closed 8 pm - 6 am now, which was not previously the case. for those purposes.

Everyone cramming into the store in the 90 minute window is no more conducive to their health, or that of the employees. IMO. In addition to limiting amounts of products, there should be a limit on how many people can be in the store at once. IMO. Maybe using ticket numbers like at the deli.

The situation in my neighborhood, at the store I go to:

https://ctmirror.org/category/ct-viewpoints/stuck-in-a-stop-shop-traffic-jam-of-seniors/

And another from another place with the same special hours:

https://www.nj.com/coronavirus/2020/03/hundreds-of-nj-seniors-lined-up-for-toilet-paper-at-6-am-it-was-gone-in-8-minutes.html

 

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10 hours ago, Nordly Beaumont said:

they have to put up with jerks, too. It must be so stressful.

Gee, and of course people in service jobs NEVER had to put up with jerks before. 😁

Sorry, not trying to be snide to you for displaying empathy, just had to giggle a little.

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22 hours ago, ABay said:

In addition to limiting amounts of products, there should be a limit on how many people can be in the store at once.

There is here.  I think Costco lets in 200 or something like that since it's huge, but the grocery stores are anywhere from 10-40 depending on size.  And they've put tape on the floor to mark off six feet in the checkout lines.

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On 3/22/2020 at 3:25 PM, icemiser69 said:

That said, if some older folks are cleaning off the shelves, leaving little for everyone else, that is a huge problem.  If they haven't been put in already, I wouldn't be surprised if purchase limits per customer were put into place in an effort to stop hoarding.  Allowing customers to buy a certain number of items per grouping.  That would give other customers the opportunity to buy what they need, instead of staring at empty store shelves.

I actually think it's the other way around. Most supermarkets don't get their stock replenished until late at night, so that the shelves are fully stocked in the early morning. I'd venture a guess to say they normally get them later in the morning or mid-afternoon.  We'd been putting off grocery shopping for over 2 weeks b/c we are both in our 60s, although in decent health.  We were super low on toilet paper, had run out of napkins, so we decided to avail ourselves to the 6 a.m. opening for seniors. We arrived at 5:45 and when the doors opened at 6 were told there were NO PAPER GOODS AT ALL!  The shelves were all BARE, BARE, BARE! No  cleaning supplies, no canned goods, no pasta, no meat, no frozen vegetables. The only things that were plentiful were the in the dairy and bread aisles. Some stores are instituting a 2 package policy on chicken, etc, but toilet paper is nowhere to be found around here.  I'm an hour out of NYC, the epicenter, so I'm freaking out quite a bit.  My county has over 1200 confirmed cases already.

There was a video on Facebook the other day showing a woman in a warmer climate (palm trees visible), who had 2 metal dollies filled to the top with cardboard boxes. Inside the boxes were packages of toilet paper. She had cleared out the entire inventory of Dollar General or Dollar Tree. The woman filming her did so b/c she was greeted with an expletive when questioned. I don't understand how the store manager could allow something like this. Some people are just odious!  

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The grocery store I worked at until recently (a Southern U.S. regional chain) gets their trucks in the mid-to-late afternoon, so by closing (10pm), everything is out on the shelves.

Obviously, different stores have different schedules.

Also, during the best of times, we had only one or two rolls of paper towels and three spray bottles of glass and surface cleaner (NOT chlorinated or antibacterial disinfectant) for the whole front end (five registers). I have a very hard time thinking it's gotten any better since then.

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6 hours ago, annzeepark914 said:

The Dollar GeneralDollar Tree mgr must've been thrilled to make such a good sale. This is disgusting.

Stores don't make more money if one person buys everything than if a bunch of people buy just one. All letting someone buy the entire stock does is create bad feelings with their other customers. This isn't going to last forever, but how pissed off the (former) customers are, will. It's not in a store's best interest to let this happen.

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18 hours ago, ECM1231 said:

There was a video on Facebook the other day showing a woman in a warmer climate (palm trees visible), who had 2 metal dollies filled to the top with cardboard boxes. Inside the boxes were packages of toilet paper. She had cleared out the entire inventory of Dollar General or Dollar Tree. The woman filming her did so b/c she was greeted with an expletive when questioned.

It was here in Florida, in the county above mine. Because of course it was.

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This is such a specific peeve and probably wouldn't be an issue if I was in a better mood in general,, but here goes: people on FB are posting photos their reading lists and piles of books, which is not my peeve; I like seeing what people are reading. My annoyance is driven by all the comments saying shit like "Oh, tra la la...that would keep me busy for about a day." Sure, OK, fancy, special, unique* genius--a pile of 6 or 7 books would take you only 24 hours? Shut it, because (a) no, (b) I read as a job and I wouldn't be able to do that, and (c) judging by the writing skills in some of these comments, again I say no (I realize that makes me sound so mean, hahahha! I'm sorry). I mean, just come on. Again, I'm sorry--I am in a mood!

*The irony here being that they're all saying the same self-congratulatory thing. 

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I don't understand this thing that people do, sitting in their cars in apartment complex parking lots--mine and my boyfriend's (two different complexes)--and listening to their music at window-rattling levels. It's so incredibly rude. And currently, there's someone sitting outside my apartment (my bedroom overlooks the parking lot) with the key in their car's ignition (car isn't started) and the door open so the car is beeping nonstop. I have a sensory issue, so the repetitive beeping is driving me slowly insane. Take the key out of the ignition!

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14 minutes ago, bilgistic said:

I don't understand this thing that people do, sitting in their cars in apartment complex parking lots--mine and my boyfriend's--and listening to their music at window-rattling levels. It's so incredibly rude. And currently, there's someone sitting outside my apartment (my bedroom overlooks the parking lot) with the key in their car's ignition (car isn't started) and the door open so the car is beeping nonstop. I have a sensory issue, so the repetitive beeping is driving me slowly insane. Take the key out of the ignition!

OMG, @bilgistic, I know you don't live in my neighborhood, but this happens here, too!  I was out for a walk earlier today, and someone around the corner was doing just that.  I could hear it all the way up the block to my house.  So annoying.

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50 minutes ago, bilgistic said:

And currently, there's someone sitting outside my apartment (my bedroom overlooks the parking lot) with the key in their car's ignition (car isn't started) and the door open so the car is beeping nonstop. I have a sensory issue, so the repetitive beeping is driving me slowly insane.

Could you arrange for, say, a flowerpot to accidentally fall off your windowsill and land on the windshield?

Of course I will disavow all knowledge of your mission should you choose to accept it.

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I'm ordering most of my groceries online now and am either shopping from a store where they have in-house staff who do the picking or from a third party service.  The former tend to be amazing, but the latter?  Hit and miss.  Last night, I received an item which expires THAT DAY.  I could have eaten it had it come earlier, but the delivery arrived at 9 PM.  Kinda moot, no?  Dude could have at least LOOKED?  

 

Also, I'm staying away from social media (especially Facebook) when I can (can't always do this since I'm supposed to help promote a podcast I co-host).  I don't even know what's fake news and what's not anymore.  I'm only getting my COVID updates from news alerts on my phone.  

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I hate elder exploiters! Case in point, for the past several months there's been this real estate person who'd been calling my mother's number several times a day despite my mother having told them that she's not interested in selling the house. Yes, I'm sure the realtor thinks that my mother being an elderly widow is an easy target and that she can be eventually worn down- and  my mother has quit picking up the phone when this individual calls. Well, I HAD it, I saw the person on display and picked up the phone so when this person asked if 'Mrs. ___' was available, I told the realtor that Mrs.__  would never be available AND that the realtor needed to quit calling because this was ELDER ABUSE and hung up!  I REALLY hope this puts a stop to those calls!  The gall of that person doing that especially during these times! 

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4 hours ago, Blergh said:

I hate elder exploiters! Case in point, for the past several months there's been this real estate person who'd been calling my mother's number several times a day despite my mother having told them that she's not interested in selling the house. Yes, I'm sure the realtor thinks that my mother being an elderly widow is an easy target and that she can be eventually worn down- and  my mother has quit picking up the phone when this individual calls. Well, I HAD it, I saw the person on display and picked up the phone so when this person asked if 'Mrs. ___' was available, I told the realtor that Mrs.__  would never be available AND that the realtor needed to quit calling because this was ELDER ABUSE and hung up!  I REALLY hope this puts a stop to those calls!  The gall of that person doing that especially during these times! 

After my mom died, my dad's dementia became very apparent. He would whip out his credit card for anyone who called with a sob story. He was giving thousands of dollars to the RNC even though he was a lifelong democrat. I went to the bank and disputed all the charges and since I have his power of attorney, they removed the charges. It got so bad I had to have his phone number changed. I have never been so angry. I finally had to put him in care and he isn't bothered with constant demands for money.

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Ordering groceries online. The person doing the shopping sent me a series of links which I didn't see until almost 30 minutes later because my phone didn't notify me, and I couldn't open them anyway. So frustrating. I ordered 6 things and 3 of them were out of stock, and none of them were toilet paper. How can you run out of feta? And the delivery window is tonight 9-11. If things are going to be out of stock anyway, I might as well risk infection and at least shop for the things they don't have at a decent hour.

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Forking mouse just ran across my living room.  Now I have to go out and get traps and peanut butter (if I can find any -- I don't eat peanut butter).

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On ‎3‎/‎28‎/‎2020 at 11:30 AM, Blergh said:

I hate elder exploiters! Case in point, for the past several months there's been this real estate person who'd been calling my mother's number several times a day despite my mother having told them that she's not interested in selling the house. Yes, I'm sure the realtor thinks that my mother being an elderly widow is an easy target and that she can be eventually worn down- and  my mother has quit picking up the phone when this individual calls. Well, I HAD it, I saw the person on display and picked up the phone so when this person asked if 'Mrs. ___' was available, I told the realtor that Mrs.__  would never be available AND that the realtor needed to quit calling because this was ELDER ABUSE and hung up!  I REALLY hope this puts a stop to those calls!  The gall of that person doing that especially during these times! 

Me, too.  Before my grandfather died, people would call him trying to sell him things. Having had many "conversations" with my grandfather over the phone in the 2 years of so before he died, I can tell you it was darned obvious he couldn't understand a word you say.*  But my grandfather was always an agreeable guy so he'd just say yes to everything.  Luckily he lived in government subsidized housing and his rent came straight out of his social security and my mom bought his groceries, and she didn't feel a bit bad for any of those scammers that got stiffed when she helped him file for bankruptcy. 

*I actually told my mom I was going to stop calling because I figured it was pointless.  She told me not to because even though it was true he didn't understand me, he did know that it was me and he would always "brag" (her word, not mine) that I had called.  I thought that was so sweet.  Nobody else would ever brag about a phone call from me. 

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3 hours ago, Browncoat said:

Forking mouse just ran across my living room.  Now I have to go out and get traps and peanut butter (if I can find any -- I don't eat peanut butter).

I remember my husband coming into the house looking for my peanut butter (he never ate peanut butter). What he wanted it for was mice and chipmunks in the garage. I gave him the jar for his mousetraps and told him to keep it in his workbench drawer. I bought myself a new jar. Lol

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Having had many "conversations" with my grandfather over the phone in the 2 years of so before he died, I can tell you it was darned obvious he couldn't understand a word you say.*  But my grandfather was always an agreeable guy so he'd just say yes to everything. 

That is exactly like my dad. He's such an affable man he couldn't say no to anyone. 

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7 hours ago, Browncoat said:

Forking mouse just ran across my living room.  Now I have to go out and get traps and peanut butter (if I can find any -- I don't eat peanut butter).

I'm so sorry!  I had this problem in my apartment earlier this month, but my landlord couldn't get the exterminator in that week and I left that weekend for NJ(I live in nyc) and haven't been back since so I'll probably still have the problem whenever I eventually go back.  Actually in my case the thing was dead in my kitchen which may actually be worse since I have no idea what killed it.

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I've set the trap -- plenty of PB in the grocery this afternoon.  Now we wait.

I've actually set more than one trap, in a couple of places around the house and basement.

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Or you could get a cat and name it Peanut Butter!  🐈

We live out in the country, and field mice getting into the house was a big problem.  We've since closed the gap around our garage doors, and not such a problem anymore.  But before we figured out where they were entering, we lost our beloved dog, and my husband said no more pets, he couldn't stand losing them.  I finally was able to persuade him to say yes to a cat.  She's like a mouse-catching machine!  And I pretend she's a dog, so everybody's happy.

 

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16 minutes ago, Browncoat said:

If a cat moved in, I'd have to move out.

Any cat I've ever known would be fine with that arrangement.

I'm kidding.  Sorry about the allergy.  Maybe you could get one of those horrible-looking hairless cats.  That'd probably scare the mice to death.

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7 minutes ago, Mondrianyone said:

Maybe you could get one of those horrible-looking hairless cats.  That'd probably scare the mice to death.

It would scare me to death, too!  Imagine waking up and seeing one of those first thing -- especially before I put my glasses on.  

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20 hours ago, Mondrianyone said:

Or you could get a cat and name it Peanut Butter!  🐈

We live out in the country, and field mice getting into the house was a big problem.  We've since closed the gap around our garage doors, and not such a problem anymore.  But before we figured out where they were entering, we lost our beloved dog, and my husband said no more pets, he couldn't stand losing them.  I finally was able to persuade him to say yes to a cat.  She's like a mouse-catching machine!  And I pretend she's a dog, so everybody's happy.

 

We used to have a cat named Silver. He was super smart and also kind of a smart ass. We live on the lake so we occasionally get rats. Once when we went to Europe for a few weeks we came back and he yelled at us for a solid hour. The next day he killed a rat. and the day after that he killed another. Five rats in five days, it was a record. It was like "Leave me alone will you? I'll show what I can do!"

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3 hours ago, icemiser69 said:

I don't like surprises, and I don't like it when people pop in to visit without being given the heads up first.

😮 I hope you mean in normal times, and not that people are popping in at your house recently,  instead of social distancing?

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Yeah, I certainly hope it's not happening now!

But I don't understand why it ever happens.  This came up in conversation with my mom's cousin many years ago, and when she said she enjoys when people unexpectedly stop by, I was gobsmacked.  I've never known anyone to regard the pop-in as anything other than the rude intrusion it is, and I really can't wrap my mind around thinking it's okay to just turn up at someone's door without asking and expect to be welcomed with open arms.

My mom, who had a visiting friend with her, once phoned me from the car - meaning she was on "speakerphone" - to say they'd just had lunch in the area and wanted to know if they could stop by so Friend could see all the work I'd done on my house.  At least they didn't just show up, but the hell?!  I barely know this woman; show off your own projects!  If she's into home renovation projects herself, tell me in advance she'll be visiting and ask if I might like to show her what I've done.  Then I can plan, and invite you over at a convenient time.

I replied, "Remember when I was a kid, and you'd admonish me for asking you if a friend could stay for dinner or spend the night in front of said friend?"  And, no, I didn't let them come over; I said hello the friend, and hoped she was having a nice visit, but I was not prepared for company at the time.

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12 hours ago, Kiki777 said:

😮 I hope you mean in normal times, and not that people are popping in at your house recently,  instead of social distancing?

Yes, in normal times.

 

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I don't know if I mentioned it before, but three other things annoy me.

On more than one occasion, someone has volunteered me to do something on a certain day at a certain time for someone I don't know and have never met.   Then that person gets all annoyed when I am the least bit annoyed that I wasn't asked first.

On another occasion, I had made it abundantly clear that I did not want to be called for high school reunions due to the fact that my grade school years were pretty horrible and I wanted it all in the past.  Let sleeping dogs lie.  And yet, my best friend gave out my number to the reunion committee.  Which made me none to pleased, given that they kept calling and calling and calling when it was already well known that I wasn't interested.  Who wants to spend $100.00 to hang around people that suck?  And I don't mean suck in the good way.

A person that I thought I could confide in, only to find out I couldn't.  I caught her running her mouth after she promised she wouldn't, within five minutes of my conversation with her.  Then she acted like it wasn't a big deal.  I am the one that determines that, given that I am the one that wanted the conversation kept secret in the first place.

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15 hours ago, icemiser69 said:

And yet, my best friend gave out my number to the reunion committee.  

I never had any interest in school reunions either.  And yet my DAD gave my address to the elementary school committee AND the high school committee.  I would have been safe otherwise since I had moved to the other side of the country!  Luckily at that time I moved a lot.

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What is really amazing, and annoying, is how my college (a major California university where I earned my undergraduate degree a bazillion years ago) keeps finding me, despite several major moves and a legal name change (when I married) to ask for donations, like they need it! Their alumni association must have some incredible connections inside the DMV or somewhere because I have not escaped them sending me regular pleading letters. No, I say - the answer is no! Go away! Stop killing trees to send me begging letters!

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I've never had any interest in going to a high school reunion but I feel kinda insulted that I've never been invited to one. 

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Whoever was organizing our ten-year high school reunion went into full-on stalker mode.  Someone called my parents' house to ask for my address, and my mom said no, she would not give out that information, and she happened to know I had zero interest in attending a reunion, but she'd be happy to pass a message along anyway.  Then someone called the mom of one of my best friends, who's a teacher at the school, to ask for my address!  Thankfully, she also respected my privacy and said that's not information she's comfortable divulging, so no one ever got my address.

By our twentieth, someone would have easily been able to find my work contact info online, but thankfully we never had another reunion. 

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Your pet peeves are your pet peeves, and you should feel free to express them here. This topic is not to be used to say you are peeved by another member of this community or something they said, either in this topic, or somewhere else in the forums. 

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