Scarlett45 October 20, 2019 Share October 20, 2019 On 6/16/2019 at 10:50 AM, Scarlett45 said: I’m being a judgy McJudgy Pants I cannot believe I read this today. It’s father’s day right? Someone (a Facebook friend of mine) made their father’s day post not about their own deceased father, or the father to their kids, but about their boyfriend of a YEAR. One. year. And all he’s done for her and her girls (two). She’s been divorced from her second husband for two hot seconds and both of her girls have their bio Dad in their lives. Good grief 🙄. I am not knocking her for having a boyfriend (that’s fine!!), but after ONE YEAR he has not earned “DAD” title to your kids, especially when they have Dads and he isn’t even raising them! He’s your BOYFRIEND. Now if they got married and 5-10yrs from now the girls saw him as another Dad that would be one thing, but it’s been ONE. YEAR. I had to come on here and contend I’m still a Judgy McJudgy pants- the person mentioned above has married her boyfriend of 18months. 34 and on her 3rd husband and NO ONE DIED. She’s gonna be the next Elizabeth Taylor I swear. No space between men- her baby by her second husband is only 3! She hasn’t been divorced two full years yet🙄. What’s the rush???? This woman is black (like me)- I wonder what her mom thinks about this. (Her dad died when we were teens). The hopping into marriages/ stepfather thing is something I’ve noticed black women frown upon, or at the very best are very cautious about. Nothing wrong with a single mom having a boyfriend (or man friend) but you don’t bring him into your house until your kids are grown and gone (especially if you have girls). 2 Link to comment
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