hottesthw February 27 Share February 27 (edited) On 2/24/2023 at 7:07 AM, Ms.Lulu said: Thanks, I have updated it. ### I understand Nicholas' frustration. Amrit's mother, whether on purpose or by accident, shared last year her lack of enthusiasm that Amrit wasn't engaged to a woman. She was concerned about how the community would judge her. She is expressing the same thing when she says that the grandmother or the community would ask why the parents weren't celebrated during the wedding weekend. Her son is marrying a white, gay male. And the partner her son chose grew up in a religious, midwestern family where Nicholas wasn't accepted for who he is. It was important for them to resolve this before the marriage--all four of them. So I was good with this conversation. Nicholas needs to resolve issues with himself and his parent, not the Kapais. She made a statement last year that she has moved on from, and in turn has accepted her gay son and his fiancé with open arms, throwing them a lavish wedding. She has on camera, shown nothing but love and acceptance for them both. Nicholas was point blank wrong for berating her for a feeling she expressed a long time ago, but has since evolved from. Maybe it’s just me but I took the comment about the “not a real wedding” because some of the traditions were missing, not because it was 2 men. The missing event was a big part of an Indian wedding centered around the parents. She lived her life waiting for her turn, and she didn’t get it. I am 100% certain she would have felt that way if Amrit married a white woman who didn’t want any part of that event either. It’s like every Catholic dad cringing at his daughters wedding ceremony on a beach somewhere instead of a church, it just doesn’t seem “real”. Who knows, maybe I’m wrong and momma Kapai is a secret homophobe and has us all fooled. I also don’t like how Nicholas parents are being handled with such kid gloves. Let’s play make believe put this wedding on NJ Housewives and Juicy Joe refuses to be filmed at his lesbian daughter’s wedding. I am betting all I have that Andy Cohen doesn’t respectfully put the cameras down when he walks in. These people don’t deserve the respect and adoration they receive meanwhile Amrits poor mother is taking a lashing by her asshole SIL. Edited February 27 by hottesthw 6 1 Link to comment
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