I have been reading your posts for a while, and I really appreciate the fact that every season you reiterate the idea that there is no “fairy tale” marriage, and no perfect spouse. I think that a lot of people who come on this show are under that illusion, and it’s sad. And I agree, most people who come on this show don’t need marriage, they need therapy! The fact that she thinks that depression isn’t masculine is concerning. I wonder how many issues she’s suppressing that will inevitably make their way into her behavior/their relationship.