I'm always amazed when (some) people on this show have significant others - not because of weight - but because of how seemingly horrible they are. I guess a person tends to attract, and be attracted to, people as damaged as they are - but honestly, what is attractive about a person who never leaves her home, who has one hobby (eating), who has no interests other than eating and who is self-centered and bordering on delusional? We've seen people featured on this show who seem genuinely nice, smart, generous and loving and yet AnnJeannette attracted a mate a short while ago, based on what? Erica seemed like a pretty nice person who worked to support them, picked up her life to help save her girlfriend's life and then because their short list of "goals" don't match up, AnnJeannette breaks up with her? Seriously?
I fast-forwarded the entire Lola part so I don't know what the "goals" exercise was really meant to be. Her advice is always the same to the point that we laugh when we see her and say, "So how long until she tells this person to confront mom and/or dad?" I cannot imagine that she advised her to sit down and tell Erica to "write down her goals" to see if the "match hers" and spend 2 minutes on that, with no explanation, no conversation and no instruction - and then break up with her because they didn't match perfectly. That felt so juvenile and silly, and then the fight erupted and all of a sudden their relationship was over. Okay then.
I rest my case that I see nothing in AnnJeannette's personality that would/should attract a mate.