Very happy to see this thread. Was hoping for a wider discussion in a central location.
I loved this series so much I'm already 1/3 of the way through a second watch. It's interesting seeing it once you know how all the pieces fit together. In the episode where Jessica follows Simpson back to Kilgrave's latest hideout after Simpson "killed" Trish. The first time watching that, while I had theories and suspicions, I didn't quite know what kind of a game Kilgrave was really playing and I was literally talking to my monitor, yelling at Jessica about how stupid it was to get that close to him, especially since she never once suspected he'd lost his hold on her.
The second time around, not only was there less tension because I knew Kilgrave couldn't control her, but I was actually wishing she'd take the risk and catch him and kill him now and spare all those lives that were lost in the next eight or nine episodes.
Personally I find him so vile I think he's the best villain ever. In the larger scheme of things I could give a flying f--k if Ultron throws a giant Vibranium rock and destroys the planet. That sounds like a fast pain free way to go, and since *everyone's* family and loved ones all go out at once, there's no emotional pain or grieving spread around. Kilgrave on the other hand tore the very heart and soul in varying levels, of hundreds of people at a low estimate, given his age and how old he was when his powers manifested.
edited: minor typos