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Just what was this black shabbat dinner supposed to prove? I missed the point. And then why does it have to turn into tales of supposed racism perpetuated on these black women (BTW, I'm black so I can ask the question, right?) Way to kill an upbeat shabbat dinner by holding everyone hostage to your stories of being victimized by racism. Why does everyone NOT black have to prove how anti‐racist they are by, as Eboni would say, just SHUT UP and listen to the stories, when that's not what you came there for? Sonja, not Ramona, is the worst, in my opinion, of tripping over herself to prove how anti-racist she is. Yeah, this show has lost it's spark. Thank you Eboni. I'm out.

I've seen her commentary in the past on Fox. I don't believe she's a regular pundit on any of the cable shows, just occasionally.

I don't know what all the clutching of pearls is about, myself! As if women fighting on these shows is something new now! I don't have to name the incidents over the years, as y'all that watch these shows already know! There's only so much popping off of the mouth a person can take before one gets popped! To me, that's all there is too it. Bravo loves this stuff. Has anybody been fired yet for putting hands on someone? On contrare,, it seems they get more prominent, more screen time. Robyn & Giselle need to take a seat, too! They forget when they marched into Ashley's restaurant to gang up on Ashley. That situation was a hair away from getting physical. I'm over the fight already.

It may be boring, but it's her situation. IT'S REAL LIFE! Most people know someone who had similar relationship with a person who we felt was not deserving of our friend, yet they would keep playing this cat & mouse game with them. I actually think Tinsley is being the most real when it comes to her love life, as annoying as it may be. Didn't Ramona imply she was heavily dating someone at one of the reunion shows, yet it was never shown on the following season. I don't know if it was ever even talked about. Why wasn't Dorinda up in Ramona's face about not holding back on her love life. Sonja had that fake relationship with the younger dude who she claimed was in love with her, but us viewers knew it was a lie. So why the 3rd degree on Tins? To say she's holding back is absurd when she's been pining & whining about Scott ever since she met him. To agitate about her finances, when it was made clear from the beginning that she is a trust fund baby, she married a wealthy guy & she also worked at some point & had a show once (or was on a show where she was the main character), plus the income from this show, is just so low brow & petty. Maybe she invested her income well. Also, I think during one of the many times she & her mom were talking, I think I remember her mom telling her why she cut back Tinsley's money stream because she felt that she was drinking too much. The women may not like Tinsley's back & forth with Scott, but it is what it is & she doesn't need to lay on her back or take Scott's money to afford her lifestyle. I'm not even sure that Scott has $$$ like that. Dorinda looks jelly & way out of line . But Im sure in the next epi she'll apologize & it will be business as usual. She is a piece of work. As for the new lady, I kind of liked her, but I know that will change after she starts drinking. But if she checks Dorinda, I'll love her!

I guess that's as good a reason as one can be. It looks like Kimbella is gonna test Yandy next episode to see if she'll throw hands by instigating & poking at Yandy till she snaps. Girl must like getting dogwalked!

Hey Y'all, haven't posted in here in a while. Hope everybody is good. Well, when the promos for this season were being played, I got interested again after tuning out for the last couple of seasons. And am enjoying the ratchedness so far! Dont really like Chrissy & Jim, but they are the car wreck that you cant take your eyes off of! He is such a sloth, yet he could give 2 dead roaches about his lack of ambition or appearance thereof. Chrissy ain't no prize either, but does exhibit some interest in accomplishing something. Although I think her R. E. Endeavors are lackluster to say the least. Can someone please explain to me what is Kimbellas's beef with Yandy? I'm not getting it, yet last night's episode, she went all Kung Fu fighting on Yandy, obviously looking to fight her. Whatever the slight Yandy supposedly committed on poor princess Kimbella, it does not warrant all that tomfoolery! Yet she is all up Chrissy's behind, the one who actually kicked her ass! TPTB will make sure we never forget that tiff. It must be shown in each episode less we forget. Is this all because her man is BFF with Jim so she wants to stay in with Chrissy? I used to think Tehiry had her head on a bit more straight than most of these women, but she looking a bit pitiful now. After all this time, she has no new man in her life and seems like she wants to keep that tie to Joe, even though he has moved on. Plus he's a jerk anyway. It will be interesting to see how this charge of theft from Olivia about Dollas plays out. It was a nice show of humanity for the fundraiser for the little boy needing surgery. Just don't understand why Jonathan tried to get some mess started by trying to get Yandy to talk to Kimbella. Glad she kept her distance as we all know how that would've turned out. Not the time or place, Jonathan!. Yandy saved your ass from being embarrassed in front of your nephew & other guests in not turning that place into the WWW.

I'm happy to see Luis back. He seems to have found his style and I think he looks great. I think certain people could get away with dressing less traditional in their profession and I think Steve & Luis fit into this category, as long as they appear clean and wear well made, non-cheap clothes and their style fits their personality. I'm assuming Luis has/is gone thru therapy for his depression or he wouldn't have come back to the show. I wish him the best, but yeah, don't saturate the show with him. I think the show has enough personalities now and doesn't need the other, as yet not introduced, personality.

I'm surprised that nobody brought up the topic of the bald head. Maybe y'all are unfazed bye a bald headed woman, but I'm not. I don't find a bald headed woman attractive. I think a woman always looks better with some hair on her head whether it's short or medium or long. And it especially irks me when ball headed woman acts like she's all that and a bag of chips because she's wearing no hair! She's got a lot more going for her then to think that it's her bald head that defines her. I'm also a bit surprised that her husband goes for it though, because most men, and especially black men, don't want no bald head woman. But if he's happy with it and she's happy with it more power to them! I don't like looking at it though and not sure if I'll be able to continue watching this show as I find it visually disturbing. I also don't know what Dr Imani is talking about when she says that there are no black doctors in LA.

Well, after all is said and done, I did learn SOMETHING from this season. The word Hippocampus and what it is. I guess I could thank Carole for something. Oh, and metier too. Words I'll never use in the remainder of my life, but . . . .

Hahaha hahaha!!! ??? !!

BTW, I posted my “good by’s” early on because. The hubs and I were in a major car accident sitting at a red light, and a guy going 50 miles per hour never stopped and slammed into back of my car. (Texting we think). Both were in hospital with major wrist, back, leg head injuries. Seat belts saved our lives, but my head went into side window. Anyhow, we are alive. I have been blogging on here to get my mind off of the million forms waiting to be filled out, in between going to doctors, phone calls and buying a new car as ours was totaled. This thread keeps me sane and gets my mind off things. All’s good. Xo Gem 10 OMG! So sorry that happened to you. But grateful that you & hubby will recover. I've been rear ended 3x's, twice in the exact same spot on my commute home from work, but luckily haven't suffered injury, except a slight whiplash. Life is funny like that. We have to be grateful each day we wake up. Take care of yourself and hope to read more of your witty posts next season of NY. BIG HUGS! ??

That's not how anyone talks about texts and not how they work. You can't have separate threads with the same person unless you are using different phone numbers or group texts, so all texts are just in one thread. For instance, I have one text thread with my sister that goes back however many years I've had this phone, but it has thousands of texts in it. I don't say I've only sent her one text in the last X years. No, all texts are not in one thread. What ties a 'thread' together is the topic of the text and the day, time of it. For instance, if I text my friend, brother, sister or whoever about, say how their trip to wherever went, we will have a back & forth about that trip. That's one thread of texts. If I text the same person the next day, or even hours later, about my big lottery winnings (I wish), and we go back and forth about that, that's a different thread. Yeah, it's all on the same phone, but they are separate convos. I even heard Bethenny say when her texts came up, that she sent 8 (?) replies/responses to her initial text about them getting together (or whatever), so to her, it was one text.

I think that was when they went to Mexico when Ro had the tomato face. When Sonja said she looked like a pizza pie with no cheese! Lol! Sorry, but I can't watch the link. It's too much for me.

But wait, we're only up to page 4! Well, o.k. then, Bye! ☹☺☺

When Bethenny claimed one text, she was referring to one thread of texts, going back and forth. And am I the only one who keeps wondering just what kind of bruise Ramoana has on her cheek, the one she didn't want facing the camera (as If it's not on full display anyway)? It looks dented. How do you dent your cheekbone?

Wow! That WAS a lot between B & C. I'm talking about tonight's argument, not the season long jabs they've taken at each other. But, really Carol? The things you rattled off that B said were minor little digs that you should have been able to hash out and get over. I saw B attempting to stay connected even while you were separated and she was very busy. But you couldn't be bothered. And yes, people with kids, a busy (current) career and trying to manage a relationship with her man, have only so much time to hang out with friends. A real friend welcomes them when they reach out. Not try to shut them down and give cold ass responses because you're too busy with your other friends. Middle School shit. Bye, Felicia!

Really? At DOLLAR Tree? I didn't think it was still being produced. This is another product I once had of hers that was in Wal-Mart at one time. Believe it or not, it worked really good.

Sorry, didn't capture the quote. Retrying.

I actually like her original skinny margarita. It's a handy premixed drink when you don't feel like mixing your own. It's something I will sip on when I'm getting ready to go out where I might have one or 2 drinks at the event. I've also tried her chocolate truffle (?) and thought it was good. The Lime & Salt popcorn is very good. The last thing I tried of hers was one of those other premixed alcoholic drinks, (dont remember which one), but I didn't like that one. I do think she attempts to put out a quality product.

Well, that hour went by fast! They are already 6 pages of comments and I think I already liked about 50 of them. LOL! Wow, they are sure piling it on Bethenny! So far though, B's been keeping it cool. She sure put Carole in her place "we'll call you when we need you" - Hahaha! These women, though, all have the syndrome of not being able to see the log in their own eye while pointedly telling someone else about the straw in theirs. It's really amazing, especially Ramoana. Girl, you need to quit it! Talking about you never say/said any mean things to Bethenny. Then they show all the low down stuff you said. Really, Girl! Wow, wow, wow, just wow! But at least she did say those things to her face, unlike the mumbling, side swiping, blog writing, two faced Radzigirl who says things under her breath and tells the other grown women before they sit down, "I got your back and I got your back and I got your back". Dream Team. WTH! More like Mean Team. How old is she again? Well, can't wait for next week! Oh, was it addressed why Ramoana's face was bruised (I know, Anti-skin care), but for real. I thought Dorinda's face looked a little bruised also, the left cheek, as well as the upper part of her left arm. Or she just had too much bronzer on.

I liked Dorinda's jumpsuit from the top. I just thought the legs shouldn't have been so wide and long. A more fitted leg with a nice black heels would have kicked it up a notch, IMHO. I didn't mind her makeup.

My previous post popped up again? Don't know what happened there, please ignore. Just a question - in what house is Bethenny doing her THs? In the beginning, I suspected it was a room in her yet to be seen new house, but now that we saw her new place, it doesn't look like they're taking place there. Anyone? Thank you for answering my Nutcracker question. It makes perfect sense.

The reunion previews look CRAY CRAY! But what they showed is probably all the sparks. I'm not gonna get too excited for it, as these shows always leave us with fake cliffhangers. But I did enjoy Bethenny's Boo-Ya bitch to Carol. I still want to see all the texts!!! Thought the pillows Tinsley gifted Luann were very cute and a nice gesture. Tinsley can be quite thoughtful.

Beth did thank Dorinda. On the show and privately. On the reunion clip, Bethenny also told that she sent Dorinda a picture text with a happy Brynn and the nutcracker! Dorinda even acknowledged such, but all she is concerned with is the PUBLIC DISPLAY of having her ass kissed over and over and over again for the nice gesture of getting Beth the connection to get the stupid nutcracker ( BTW, why are these toy, wooden statues called Nutcrackers? - I'm too lazy to research it, Sorry). So, yeah, Dorinda did want a banner and a parade. In the Reunion clip on YouTube, she makes that clear when Beth says, but I sent you a thank you text privately, and Dorinda's all "well, yeah privately, but not on camera". She actually said that. But as others have also pointed out, she has showed her appreciation for Dorinda's help on screen, too.

The reunion previews look CRAY CRAY! But what they showed is probably all the sparks. I'm not gonna get too excited for it, as these shows always leave us with fake cliffhangers. But I did enjoy Bethenny's Boo-Ya bitch to Carol. I still want to see all the texts!!! Thought the pillows Tinsley gifted Luann were very cute and a nice gesture. Tinsley can be quite thoughtful.