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There are plenty of women who "control" their husband's comings and goings as well - they've been upfront about not wanting their husband to go to strip clubs, for example. Is that controlling? Personally, I don't think so. Each couple has their own rules that work for them, based on what each individual is/isn't comfortable with. Usually these are decided before marriage, and both parties are aware of them. In my own relationship, we're both extremely independent and are totally ok with the other going out alone or with friends to clubs, concerts, bars, etc., but if my fiance suddenly told me he wasn't comfortable with it, I wouldn't take it as a desire to 'control' me. Sometimes you do worry about safety (I worry about him getting too drunk to get himself home ok, for example), about spending too much money, about making stupid decisions (not necessarily cheating, but getting in trouble in general), etc. Just because Andrei has said he isn't comfortable with Libby going to clubs, does not make him controlling in my eyes. I equally wouldn't deem her so if she had told him she didn't want him going out with his guy friends. I mean, what works for you in your relationship doesn't work for everyone. And I've seen many happy marriages where one partner was definitely in charge and making the rules, but their spouse had no problem "submitting" to their demands (and no, not purely sexual either), so different strokes for different folks. Some people are more passive and actually like when their partner is calling the shots - as long as it's consensual, whatever. Would also like to point out that we haven't been shown any arguments between Libby and Andrei where they are seriously fighting about this issue. She brought it up half assed during a phone call, he said he wasn't ok with it, and she basically just let the topic die. If she had gone back and forth and seemed to be really serious about wanting to go out, and he was really serious about saying "no, I forbid it", I would change my tune on this issue, but it seems like people are mostly arguing a hypothetical situation that didn't really happen...

I'm Polish, so Andrei's stoicism and stubborn male pride reminds me of every dude in my family, including my dad. The thing is re: control, that it's usually said in kind of a jokey way. Like, my dad will say to me "no way you're going to Mexico by yourself, I won't allow it" (hi, I'm 32 years old), but 20 min later he'll help me pack and slip me some money and tell me to have a good time. The scene where Andrei was telling Elizabeth he didn't want her going out, it reminded me so much of the bravado that my dad and grandfather put up to almost "save face" and remind everyone they're in charge, but in actuality, they're very level-headed and rational and easy to talk down. I'm not sure if I'm explaining it right, but Andrei's behavior reminds me very much of typical Eastern European men, who might be quick to say "not on my watch", but all it takes is a tiny nudge to change their mind. I don't get the genuinely controlling vibes that others have accused him of - not based on what we've seen so far. I think he might need to work on being more flexible, but I don't think he's malicious towards Elizabeth. Also, let's not forget that the "controlling" narrative was started by ELizabeth; I wouldn't be surprised if TLC wanted her to focus on that, to create more drama for their story line, which is pretty boring otherwise. I'm actually kind of shocked by some of the accusations being hurled at some of these folks. Luis is a pedophile, Andrei is an oppressive caveman, David kills people and wraps them in garbage bags, etc. I mean really - these people are highly flawed, but watching them on a strategically edited reality show does not mean we get enough information to be able to make such statements. It makes me very uncomfortable that the snark has gone from lighthearted bitching to straight up accusing someone of criminal activity. Also, re: Annie. I live in Thailand, and no - it's not possible to just move to a big city and find an office job and move in with some girlfriends. Thais have a status system (and caste), and if you're a poor farmer's daughter from a small village, you have zero legitimate prospects. You can continue to farm, or you can become a bar girl, and that's about it. I would be very surprised if Annie even has a high school education; in most of the families I knew with backgrounds similar to Annie's, the kids were taken out of school at around 12 or 13 to help with the workload. Even working at a Starbucks or KFC - it's a somewhat coveted job because it's guaranteed wages, and the university kids in my city say it's competitive to work in fast food or hospitality. Actually, the only other option Annie would have is if she moved from her village to a tourist city or one of the islands and found work at a resort, either as a maid or server, in which case she'd get to share a tiny room with several other girls, work 10-12 hours, and make around $25-30 a day. If you're not wanting to spread your legs for some old white foreigner, this is the other path that's available. It's hard work, and it's sad because workers don't get to go home to visit their families very often, and marriage prospects are almost non-existent unless the family sets up a match for you. Yes, in a sense Annie chose David and the life that goes along with him, but in another sense, she really had very limited options available to her, especially if her primary concern is to care and provide for her family. What I am more saddened by, is that so many developing countries have this very distorted view of what life in The West (America, Canada, UK, etc.) is like. They think all westerners have mansionettes and pools in their backyard, and we all drive convertibles and have good health care plans, and can afford braces for our children. They've totally bought into the "American Dream", and don't realize there are folks like David Poor and Josh and the millions of other low to middle-class residents who may be rich by their standards, but are actually struggling to get by. I'll never forget when I was Cambodia, and met a woman who was absolutely shocked to learn that my fiance and I didn't own a home because we couldn't afford it (native Torontonian, so prices are insane), and that we were traveling on a backpacker's budget and could only afford 2-3 star hotels. When I told her "we don't have money, we're on a budget" she refused to believe it. I'm sure so many of these women think that marriage to an American = easy, breezy, beautiful living where they don't have to work, and everything they want is handed to them. And I don't know that the men really do anything to dissuade that fantasy. I find that very sad; to give up everything and be sold on the "dream" and then come crashing down into disappointment.

I agree that the first half was "meh", but the later contestants really made it worth watching. Janice was my favorite of the night, and is now my favorite overall. I love that song, and I didn't think anyone could do it as well as Sarah Simmons did on her season, but Janice captured the raw emotion of it perfectly - and her voice sounds SO GOOD when she's doing rock-ish songs. I love her voice, I love her vibe, and I hope she continues to blow us all away. I'd be very happy with a Janice win. On top of having the talent and charisma, she just seems like such a sweet, genuine person. This was the first time that I "got" Addison. Her previous performances left me bored and wanting more, but I thought this was beautiful, and she played with the dynamics of her voice really nicely. I think why I haven't warmed to her as much, is that she's the kind of voice that sounds great on the radio, but isn't that exciting to watch on a competition show like this. She needs to pick songs that aren't just at one level, but have moments where she can break out and do something special. I did like Brooke, but I found her too "showy" tonight, and I'm no longer rooting for her as hard. I also don't think she has star quality despite having a great voice; I always have to be reminded that she's even on the show! Loved Noah, and I think Adam hit it on the head when he referred to Noah's time-bending persona; he totally does look like a 1950's teen heartthrob and he acts like an old soul - but he seems perfectly at home doing Coldplay. It's very bizarre. I'm kind of interested in him doing an electro pop/rock version of standards/oldies , just to see what it'd sound like. Synth Pop Elvis? Electro Sinatra? I'm here for it. I'm not feeling Keisha, and I question the whole country route. I'm thinking she may be marketing herself as a country artist just to stand out from other female diva/soul singers, because I do not get a country vibe from her at all. AT ALL. I get that she doesn't have a traditional country voice, and she can't really help that, but it's that she doesn't even sing in that style - all of her stylings and choices are straight gospel. It's like someone stated up thread, they give her a hat and necktie, a country song, and a country arrangement, but then she sings like a church singer. She has a killer voice for sure, but nothing she's doing is country. I also felt that Davon's performance was messy; like he was doing too much and trying too hard. Mind you, that song is a BEAST, and I'm impressed that he was able to keep up, but it felt labored. Also, I think he started too high, because we missed the richness of his middle-lower register, which is one of his sweet spots. It also didn't have the build that I was hoping for, where by the time the key changes for the first time, it's a wow factor; instead it felt like he went big about a third into the song and then didn't have anywhere else to go. JUDGES: Keep your damn shoes on. It was cute one or two times, but now it's just silly, and takes away from the artist. Just say they were good and move on.

I guess mine is an unpopular opinion, but I can't stand Emily *ducks rotten tomatoes. Her voice is fine; it's clear and she has great pitch, but it has zero character. I completely agreed with Adam/Kelly when they said it was "too perfect" - it's an excellent musical theatre/lounge voice, but I don't think she's a pop or radio vocalist. I think the song choice was especially bad, because as was mentioned, Pink's voice is sooo full of character, and her natural breaks and rasp make the lyrics more poignant. Emily's performance, by contrast, bored me to tears, and all I got was that she is a technically good singer who can hit the right notes. Also, she is just too mature. She looks old, she sounds old, she acts old, and that's certainly not a dig towards old people (I always lean more towards the middle aged contestents!), it's more so that the end result is that she comes across as old fashioned. I get major "fuddy duddy" vibes. Also a little disappointed with Moriah tonight. She was just "okay", and I think she sounds better on the full out rock songs than the rock lite/pop stuff. If she wants to steer clear of the 80's rocks stuff, she could tackle songs by Halestorm, Paramore, Ame Lee, etc. But personally, I'd love to see her do Janis, Joan Jett, Patt Benatar, etc. I think she may be too niche to win the whole show, but if she tried to do more of a modern vibe like Florence or Alanis, I think it could keep her fresh and more relevant in today's market. Still my main reason for watching the show though, and I'm sure she'll sail through the first few lives with no trouble. Oh god - I totally forgot about Jeremiah. What the hell was that?! One of the worst things I've seen on any vocal competition show. Also - did they edit part of it it out, or is it just me? It seemed super short. I loved the one shot of Miley looking confused as she watched him. Love Deep Purple, love Smoke on the Water, and I thought Adam did a decent job with it. But I find him very distracting without the guitar; his pacing and the weird fist bump thing he kept doing took me out of it. I hope Miley can help him to hone his showmanship, and I would actually love to hear him sing something slow and stripped down, to really get to hear his voice. Really enjoying Brooke, and I think she's worked her way up to my favorites this season, joining Moriah, Noah, Janice, and Esera. I'm just happy to see a bunch of new songs this year. There have been some refreshing song choices so far, and I don't feel as though anyone really messed theirs up (except Jeremiah - dude. no.)

Dang, I love Janice so much. That Mary song is one of my favorites, but she did it proud. I also love that she's not a cliche soul singer; she's not afraid to mix up genres and use some rock stylings. Also love that she picked Miley instead of going the predictable route with Jennifer. She has great instincts, and unlike some of the other diva belters, I think she's also a storyteller; I find her very engaging and connected to the lyrics she's singing. Totally want a Janice vs. Esera finale, so we can have a battle of the pleasant, middle aged, gone through some shit, "last chance at success" singers.

I guess I'm in the minority, because I really didn't like the addition of Max. I don't think she added anything interesting to the story or the characters, and I'm annoyed that we had to spend time on her +her family. I was really hoping that there'd be a better payoff for both Max+Billy; that maybe one or both were also experiment children, or that their father was a spook. But nope - just a blended family trying to work shit out + domestic abuse. Not very interesting, IMO. I'm also over the cliche "tough girl" trope, where we're supposed to think a female character is cool just because they do things better than a boy, or because she likes "boyish" things. I also don't really care about Eleven....? I guess that makes me sound pretty heartless, but unlike the affection/care I feel for the 4 boys + Joyce, Steve, Hopper, I feel nothing for El. To me, she's a plot device, nothing more. She hasn't made me feel anything, even though I suspect we are all supposed to feel a combination of pity, awe, respect, and protectiveness towards her. I don't know if it's the actress, or the writing or what. Maybe it's just that I think she's eclipsed by the dynamic/friendship of the 4 guys. Also, I thought the actor who played Will was OUTSTANDING this season. Dustin is the fan favorite, and a naturally charming actor, but my god - Will completely sold every single second he was on the screen. I think he's the strongest of the kids. But I was really blown away by Hopper this time around - I thought the actor was phenomenal, and I just get such a strong feel for the character. Like he could walk out of the TV and just be a real person. But honestly, even the weakest members of this cast (Barb, Max, Dustin) are still extremely talented. Also, LOVED Dustin's little sister, Erica. I really hope we get to see more of her. In terms of the season in general, I feel like it was filler. A solid 7 or 7.5, but not as good as Season 1. I also think the writers bought into the hype and produced moments that felt manufactured and not completely genuine. Too many scenes to get laughs or "awwwwws". Also, as someone who thought the whole Barb thing was hella overrated last year, I hate that Nancy/Jonathan were essentially reduced to continuing an already dead storyline just to pacify the Internet. The first season was stellar because everything about it felt sincere and honest and real. By contrast, Season 2 felt like there was some shoe-horning happening. RIP Bob. <btw - why didn't Hopper just go with Bob to be his cover?! Or else Hopper could have flipped the switch while Bob could have done the computers..? I was very confused about that whole scene. As much as I like Joyce, she continues to be the dumbest person in any room. She's got guts, but brains? Not so much.

I've just been catching up on the spinoff "Before the 90 Days", and if any of you folks haven't seen that one yet (I didn't know it existed until 3 days ago) - it's a doozie. Please do yourselves a favor and start watching immediately. I bring that up, because Darcy reminds me a lot of Molly, yet her daughters had such a different reaction to their mom flying off to meet some stranger. I know there's a slight age difference, but it makes me wonder if there's more to the Molly story - if maybe she's done this so many times, that Olivia is now traumatized by the many men that have come and gone. Or maybe Molly just isn't as great a mom as she claims...? I'm not saying Olivia's reaction isn't justified (totally is!) - just made me curious if there was more to it that we're not being shown/told.

When watching this season, I kept thinking to myself that this group of designers was really weak; that I haven't really been "wowed" by anything (Kentaro's pleated kimono-style dress being the closest). But I was surprised that when I saw these collection photos, I knew right away who made what (except for Michael's sad, sad showing). To me, that indicates that they at least have a strong point of view, and they know their aesthetic, which makes me have a tiny bit more respect for their talent. I don't know why Brandon isn't called out for relying on the straps (gimmick), when even Sean from a few seasons back was given a little slap on the wrist for using fringe 2-3 times in challenges. And we've seen other designers get dinged for being a one way monkey. That being said, even though it's not anything I would ever wear, I do think his clothes are perfectly tailored and look very well made. Kentaro's is probably my favorite, because it's just a little bit whimsical and a little bit gothic, which is a perfect combo. I enjoy his design and personality the most, and I'm hoping he pulls out the win. Kenya's lacks refinement, and looks quite cheap. It's also not forward-thinking; it looks like some thing you could buy right now. I appreciate that Margerita used bold colours, but I don't find her clothing very beautiful. It looked like she let the fabric do all the talking.

Ha! My parents' dog eats organic vegetables and farm fresh meat that my dad specially prepares for him each night. When we come over for dinner? It's frozen lasagna or greasy takeout. I'm not ashamed to say that I've been jealous of the dog's meal on more than one occasion. I'm not a parent, but I totally agree with you. I think there's this weird culture around child rearing and parenting, where it's so sacred and delicate. Like, any tiny thing will scar them for life. Just do what works for you and your child. In this case, I think the leash is actually the smartest thing Nicole has done on the show, because Mae is hyper, and Nicole is slow.

The sad thing is, the American men I know who came to Thailand to find brides are still seen as a status symbol - no matter how broke they are. The village that Annie is from is near the Lao border, and it's quite rural - farmers and laborers mostly. So, to a family who is (at a guess) living off of $200 USD a month (if that), whatever David has going on is likely a better prospect for Annie than what she will get at home. Dave is poor by Western standards, but someone in a small Thai village would consider him very wealthy. Also, consider his future prospects; he may be broke now, but he could probably find a minimum wage job and afford a decent apartment/small house in an inexpensive city/state. Which again, is still seen as an improvement for Annie. I haven't been to Morocco, but spent some time in Egypt a few years back as a solo female traveler, and can confirm the modesty culture re: behavior in public. I went on a few dates with a local, and he also told me about PDA being a no-no, but it really wasn't as big a deal - more like "it's frowned upon, but not enforced". We still held hands and kissed occasionally. But I also wouldn't be surprised if Azan is embarrassed by Nicole. Having an American girlfriend is probably prestigious, but not when she looks and acts like Nicole.

At first I liked how this season's battles featured more harmonies and subtle showcasing of voices vs. the screechfests that we sometimes get when people are just singing all over the place. BUT - the last two episodes made me miss the artists actually "battling". Don't get me wrong, as performances they were more pleasant and seemed really polished and professional, but I didn't get to hear enough of each contestent's vocal stylings. I realized that my favorite battles in this show's history were the Katrina/Janice type pairings where there wasn't much harmony/singing together, and each vocalist was able to show off their tricks and range. Where it felt less like a grammy duet, and more like "I'm singing for my life". Weird! I agree - I think Ignatious had better promise overall, and given some coaching, I think he could be great. I think Jennifer picked Eric because Ignatious is too similar to her other male vocalists, and Eric will be easy fodder. That's the only way I can justify that pick. I'm loving Kelly Rowland. I enjoyed her as a coach on other shows, and I wouldn't mind seeing her try out a season here. But I worry that she's not a big enough "name", because in the US she's really only 1/3 of Destiny's Child, and not fully recognized as a successful solo artist in her own right. That's a shame. I'm mildly obsessed with Kelly Clarkson, so I cannot wait to see her in action. If anyone wants to be blown away, hit up YouTube and check out her covers of Adele, Radiohead, Otis Redding, etc., sometimes acapella or with only a piano. She is truly an underrated singer, and should be counted among the greats (Xtina, Etta, Patti, Celine, Whitney, Ella et. al). Actually, I love when the judges sing on this show, whether it's for fun, like Miley did this episode, or to demonstrate technique or runs, like Xtina and JHud sometimes do. When it's someone who is truly talented, it's such a pleasure to see them in their element and do what they do best. Ditto Adam/Alicia when they're arranging songs on the fly - it's very cool to watch. I don't find Jennifer annoying in this, like some other posters do - I only find her annoying when she relates everything back to herself and is all about "me, me, me". But, I'm happy to see that she's toned it down a bit. And I think her coaching has been excellent these last few episodes. So, who do we think has the strongest team so far?

I live in Thailand (Northern province), and Annie's family is absolutely fleecing Poor Dave. The Sin Sod (dowry) is based on the family's status, and the bride's education/career. In the preview, it shows them asking for 500,000 baht (15k USD), which is what you would pay if you were marrying a celebrity or very educated woman from a high ranking family. On average, you'd pay around 100-150k baht if you were marrying a woman with high school/some college education from a middle class family in a medium sized city/town. If she's a simple farm girl with limited schooling and her family's status is non-existent, you'd pay around 25,000-50,000 baht ($800-1500 USD). Given that I've been to the village that Annie is from (very small and poor), unless she is secretly a brain surgeon or on her way to winning Miss Thailand 2018, that family is WAAAAY overcharging him. Also, the money is usually returned to the couple after they are married, to help them start their new life - not always, but it's more modern to look at the dowry as a symbolic gesture, not a down payment on a wife. Annie's family is asking for cost of wedding + gold + buffalo + 500k? DANG. Does her vagina do magic tricks or something? I really don't understand why Azan picked Nicole. He's not a bad looking guy, and his non-threatening blandness would appeal to a lot of women. Surely he had other options? I too am wondering why he would pick an overweight, unattractive, immature, single mother who clearly doesn't have a cent to her name. Unless Nicole strung him along? Maybe he really only learned of her financial situation when she told him she couldn't sponsor him herself? I mean, I know there's a prestige and allure about marrying an American for many cultures, but Azan seems somewhat smart - surely he'd know that the situation he'd be entering into would not be one of extravagance and wealth...? And hasn't everyone heard by now, about the huge stigma and challenge for foreigners to find good employment in Canada/States? I mean, doctors and engineers are having to flip burgers because their skills/degrees aren't recognized or their language skills aren't up to snuff. What job does Azan think he could get that makes putting up with Nicole worth it? I just have so many questions. I'm also gobsmacked that Nicole could prattle on about how hot Azan is, and think that she in her present state would be attractive to him. It's not just her size, though that's the most obvious one given that Azan is a personal trainer and has expressed a desire for Nicole to be healthier - but she puts zero effort into her hair, makeup, clothing, posture, etc. Is she really that self-confident to think that someone as "sexy" as Azan is (her words, not mine) would find her so irresistible, when she looks like a blanched dim sum dumpling? I mean, maybe if she dressed up or carried herself in a certain way, then she could justify the attraction, but does she not ever look at Azan, who is trim, fit, trendy, fashionable, and then look at herself wearing yoga pants, a hoodie, no makeup, limp hair, slouched, barely able to walk up a hill, etc. and think "what does he see in me?". Either she is completely and utterly delusional, or she has the best self-confidence in the world. Elizabeth/Libby fascinates me, because she is like Jerry's date from Seinfeld who would look pretty in some lighting, but then like a swamp ghoul in other shots. Evelyn looks like a bankrupt man's Megan Draper. Those are some big chompers. My head canon goes like this: David moves into Pastor Tim's apartment, and the two end up falling in love and running away to San Fransisco to raise French Bulldogs, leaving Evelyn to rip out her mullet in rage and despair. She channels her heartbreak into a solo album that flops so spectacularly, the family has to sell their home. She then auditions for The Voice and not only does she not get a single chair turned, but she is not asked to "try again next year". Evelyn's not-as-pretty friend is a successful HR Manager, and when Evelyn comes to her begging for work, Not-as-pretty friend tells her to eff off, and then shows off the gigantic engagement ring her fiance, a recently-single Ryan Gosling has just given her. I am not religious, but I would pray to every god to make this happen. Sorry y'all. I really can't stand Evelyn. If I had a million dollars, I would hire Anfisa to run a training camp for foreign brides and grooms. Some of these people need help.

With respect, Nicole is 22. Her parents can't do anything. I suspect her mom has tried to get custody of Mae in the past, but Nicole may have threatened to move out of state or completely cut her off if she tried. The family has heavily implied that Nicole doesn't do much parenting; the mom and sister watch Mae most of the time, which is really all they can do (make sure Mae is cared for, since Nicole doesn't listen to anyone). And given that her siblings look like they turned out just fine, I'm not willing to blame her parents for Nicole's shitty behavior and attitude. Parents can only do so much. My own parents were pretty damn amazing, but that didn't stop me from becoming a drug addict at 14, living on the street and committing petty thefts to get by (that was just me being an asshole). The mom comes across as someone who has tried, but just can't get through to Nicole - like she's so over this shit. She doesn't strike me as negligent or uncaring, just frustrated. Whether she's emotionally stunted or just an asshole, Nicole is an adult, and no one can MAKE her do anything.

I really hate playing armchair psychologist, but I wouldn't be surprised if Nicole is developmentally stunted (for whatever reason). Her behavior really is that of a small child; other posters describe her as calculating and manipulative, but I think she's manipulative in the way that children are. She knows that crying/whining/etc. will produce an effect, so that's what she uses to get her way. When she decided to threaten Father Nicole with taking Mae to live abroad, it reminded me of a 6 year old telling mom they were going to "run away" if they didn't get the doll they wanted. When she was upset with Azan, she pushes him and (literally) throws her weight around like a bully. She goes crying to his mother to get someone on her side. She's jealous of her own daughter for getting more attention. These are the behaviors of a child, not an adult. And the fact that every single member of her family treats her like someone who can't be relied on to make good decisions, just confirms my suspicions. She's got the emotional intelligence of an 8 year old. When she rolls her eyes at anyone trying to give her good advice, insisting that she knows what she's doing, I lose any sympathy I might have for her. The girl is one of the least likeable people I've ever seen on TV, and I've watched every season of Toddles/Tiaras, Sister Wives, the Bachelor, and ANTM. Bring on Season 3! I, for one, will watch 8 seasons of Azan and Nicole, as long as it brings the lolz.

I, for one, am not impressed by Miley's "all female" team. I don't see how that's powerful or groundbreaking. I agree with Adam that you'd only get lost there. (Still love Miley though) Very unimpressed by the singers in this episode; I could find better people at my local coffee shop or bar. It's all very 'middle of the road'. Really, this is the best their talent scouts could find?? Also, that stupid hat that all the indie chicks wear? Can someone PLEASE burn them all? The judges see a young woman wearing one of those hats and they're all "oh, you're so unique, you're so different". Um, what? How about the 8 other girls in hats who literally just came before her? Oh, and the battle preview they showed; a guy and girl from Jennifer's team singing Dangerous Woman? That's exactly why I didn't want her as a coach. Yelling, screaming, over-singing; runs up the wazoo, and every damn trick in the book. I'm already over it, and it hasn't even been aired! Sorry, y'all. I think someone must have pissed in my cornflakes. P.S. I need to find out which movie Billy Ray Cyrus has been in and watch it immediately. UPDATE: I have just discovered his tv show, "Doc". It's gold, Jerry!

I just don't understand why if Margarita had immunity, she was left on the stage instead of dismissed with the "safe" designers. Has that ever happened before? The only explanation I can think of is that they were exploiting the situation for maximum impact; they wanted her down there to tell the judges about Claire. I'll put this in a Spoiler, just in case: The twins HAVE heavily references their own and their model's clothing in past challenges MORE THAN ONCE, so this combined with the pant allegations (that Claire was patterning/measuring pants outside of work hours based on what she had in her closet) - I think it's perfectly reasonable to suspect that they are thwarting the rules. Now, I don't understand why these rules aren't clear to everyone. If they are, and the twins are blatantly violating them but producers haven't done anything - then I completely understand Michael's frustration. If the rules aren't clear, then that's also the producers fault for not just telling the contestants "it's fair, get over it". And I equally understand why designers would be confused and angry about the lack of clarification. I mean, you put your life on hold and your reputation on the line to come on this show, a show that previously prided itself on its integrity and quality, but then you realize you're just fodder, and poor designers are undeservedly rewarded to maximize drama and boost ratings . I would be pissed too.

I don't know what exactly your comment is referencing, but you kind of answered your own question. The edit is all we can go by. If we see a montage where the tribe is shown doing stuff around camp, and then a shot of Simone sitting on a log, the brain will draw the conclusion "Simone is lazy". Similarly, if this episode we just see Lauren sitting in the shelter complaining, sitting in the water complaining, chatting at the well about disliking Patrick, etc., then we don't see evidence of any hard work - just complaining. So if Patrick was shown killing the crab, building shelter, cleaning up, etc., then why wouldn't we think he has more value as a tribe member than Lauren? That's an editing thing - most people are not going to give someone the benefit of the doubt and assume they are doing work, when they haven't seen it. Also, I'm by no means a supporter of the 'fat is beautiful movement', but Lauren is...not even heavy? I mean, she looks very average to me. I certainly wouldn't look at her and assume she'd suck at challenges/be useless around camp. She has a few extra pounds, no big deal. She's certainly not ugly either! I'm thinking people are more so reacting to her edit; that she's been shown complaining, but not really doing much (at camp or otherwise). I'm neutral on her, but she does have a bit of a Debbie Downer vibe, and on a tribe of young, energetic people, it's not as fun to watch. And for some viewers, being a fisherwoman but not fishing for the tribe may read as "lazy". YMMV, obviously.

I don't think Cole was dumb for correcting Joe's guesswork re: the idol clue. I think he did it to gain trust with Joe, and he knows that Joe is an aggressive player who may have gone after him had he lied and gone for the idol himself. BUT - if he plays it right, it also gives him some power over Joe, because he could 'out' the idol to the rest of the tribe, so there's a good chance that Joe will play nice with him for a little while. Not to mention, given how paranoid Joe is, I'm sure it'd be hard to get away by himself to dig for the idol, hide it, and keep up the ruse that it's still hidden somewhere "5 feet in the ocean". I think it's hilarious when people lie about their professions on Survivor (especially when there doesn't really seem a need for it), but I think Lauren was smart not to divulge hers. Can you imagine the pressure? Others have already commented on the difference between commercial fishing and more primitive techniques, but there's also the completely different environment, i.e. tropical coast vs. deep sea fishing. I think it'd be a no-win situation, and my view of her as a player changed after hearing the lie. Girl might have some game. I like Chrissy. I think I like Ali. And maybe Dr. Prick and the ex. marine (Ben?). Everyone else seems way lackluster. I don't hate Ryan, and he seems good-natured, which I always appreciate, but I don't think he's a "smart" nerd a la David or Cochran. I suspect he may just be an awkward dude, which isn't as fun. Also, I hope they limit JP's talking heads, because you know, like, when you, you know, aren't very um....articulate, you know, it's so, you know, hard to follow. Christ. I hope it was just nerves (he appeared a little nervous at having to talk to the camera).

I'm doing a re-watch for the 3rd or 4th time, and just finished watching The Show Must Go Off, where Frasier and Niles produce a one-man show of their favorite factor. Whenever I think of my favorite episodes or moments from the show, this one never makes the list, and yet I die laughing every time I see it. Jackson Hedley's moans and whimpers during his opening monoloque, plus all the backstage shenanigans to try to stop the show from starting - HILARIOUS. Especially his delivery when he's leaving Frasier's apartment "Stiffen the sinews. Summon up the blood. Disguise fair natURE with hard favored Raiiiiiiiige!" One of the best guest stars for sure.

It's funny, because Screamin' Jay Hawkins, Jennifer Holliday and Etta James are some of my favorite artists, and I love gospel/soul, but I find myself not liking the "big" singers on these competition shows. I think it's one thing to be 'moved' by the music, to where you enter OTT territory and scream, belt, growl, etc. - that, I love. It's organic, it's real, and I don't care if it's not perfect, or if it's "uncomfortable". But so often on these shows it feels contrived. Maybe they're trying to be THAT type of singer, which is why it comes across as phony, or they just flat out aren't that type of singer but they're egged on by their coaches. Which is why I hate when Xtina/Gwen/Jennifer encourage it. On the Voice UK there was a really good singer (forget the name), but they WAY over-embellished on the runs, tricks, and growls. In the pitch, I think it was Gavin Rossdale who said that if chosen, he'd work on bringing out the natural quality of the voice and playing with dynamics. Jennifer Hudson, in contrast, said she wanted even MORE - that she'd work on bringing more runs, louder belts, etc. out of the contestant. Well, they ended up picking Jennifer, and she absolutely did them a disservice. I love watching YouTube clips of singers doing crazy runs and vocal tricks, but that doesn't mean I want to hear that when they're singing "Mary Had a Little Lamb". I think that's what it boils down to. Are the stylings ADDING to the song, and the audience's experience? Or are they an exhibition for your abilities? I feel like on The Voice, it's 90% the latter. Also, I wasn't blown away by anyone in this episode. I watched both episodes back to back, so forgive me if I mixed up the order, but I liked the natural ability of the 15 year old (she needs to tone it down a bit though and choose her moments), and the warm personality of the NFL player. His voice was "ok", but I found myself smiling throughout his segment. Lastly, Blake really is the best at pitching. Whenever I see him make a smart, sensible, and compelling pitch and the contestent chooses someone else, I'm always thinking "wtf? are we watching the same show?" That being said, I think I'd pick Miley, given how involved she was with her crew last year. She makes a strong case for supporting the artist long-term, even after the show.

I haven't been too bothered by shitty judges in the past, but I have to say that Vanessa almost makes me want to quit the show. She's not even relevant/young enough to encourage the teen demographic to tune in - she's certainly past her HSM heyday. Other than attending Coachella, I'm not sure what she's been doing the past few years that makes producers think anyone under 18 will care about her. I really try not to put down other women, but she comes across as a huge bimbo. Completely vapid, with nothing interesting to say beyond "beautiful", "wow", "amazing". I'd take Christina Applegate or JTF over her any day - hell, I think I'd even prefer Paula Abdul. BLEH. Or - how about we switch things up and let some of the All Stars judge? Nigel, Mary, and maybe 2-3 others? Or have them rotate based on genre, i.e. bring in Paul+Jenna for ballroom (if we're stuck with her, I mean), Marko + Alison for contempo, Comfort/Fikshun for hip-hop, Robert for jazz, etc. I'd rather hear a trained perspective than someone who's just impressed by the novelty/flash of a routine.

I've grown to really like Blanca and Maria. You can tell they're not truly evil or malicious; they've just been backed into a corner and lash out because it's all they know. Plus, they deliver - there's nothing worse than someone who struts around thinking they're tough, but can't put up when the time comes (cough, Piper). The actresses who play Taystee and Black Cindy (my favorites of the cast, really) were phenomenal in this episode. Especially Danielle Brooks, she gave me chills in Kaputo's office. I worry for Luschek, my other favorite. He's a dick, but I love the guy.

Random observation - those who live in Penthouses sure don't have a lot of privacy. I mean, how many times do people just get on the elevator and walk into the Waldorf/VDW foyer unannounced (maybe even Chuck's suite at the empire - I can't remember if he had a private elavator too)? I'd be pretty pissed if I were sitting on my couch reading the paper, and some rando just dropped by. You pay 20 mil for an apartment and don't even get a door?! I actually don't hate Dan, and don't find him to be as judgemental as others do. From his POV, I think he's a bit bitter about some of these rich kids getting away with whatever they want, while he (in his mind) has to work for everything and suffer his consequences, so maybe that resentment comes out. But I think it's natural, and totally believable. Also, let's not forget that these characters are horrible, and they regularly do incredibly fucked up things to one another (yes, even to people they so call "love"). I'd be judging the pants off them too! And as someone who always hated Serena, I find her "oh, but I can explain, it wasn't my fault" open-mouthed incredulity that anyone could not be instantly seduced by her charm and beauty to be worthy of judgement. There are a million times where she was in the wrong, and instead of taking full ownership, she tries to pass the buck or explain how really, she's the victim here, and she didn't "intend" anything bad to happen. So, yea, maybe if it happens once or twice, I'd give that a pass. But consistently? Sorry, but I don't blame Dan passing judgement that she is in fact exactly the spoiled, snobbish, irresponsible socialite that she claims not to be. I think the relationship that I found most toxic in this whole mess of a show, was Rufus and Lily's. I still cannot believe the story line where William comes back for the first time, and rather than listen to her husband, who thinks something is not quite right, she immediately takes William's side and tells Rufus to go back to Brooklyn. And then? "Oh hey, Rufus, I was wrong - my ex-husband WAS lying about me having cancer. Oops! My bad, guess we can get back together" and Rufus sees no problem with this and just moves back in, and everything is fine. DUDE. There have been a ton of other situations where Lily treats Rufus like crap, believes anyone and everyone over him, and then HE either apologizes, or just takes her back like it's nothing. I know they're not as central to the main plot as Chuck/Blair or Dan/Serena, but their relationship was always the most problematic for me. Anytime there's even the slightest hiccup, Lily acts like she just found out that Rufus drowns puppies for fun, and she exiles him to Brooklyn. I mean, Rufus sucks, but he deserves better! Actually, come to think of it, Lily's main character trait is probably "jumps to conclusions". Also, it amazes me that people like William Vanderbilt talk about Gossip Girl like it's a legitimate news source/threat, and not just some petty high schoolers. That's like hearing Barack Obama has a 'burn book' and reads TMZ. I always assumed GG was a teen thing, and mostly limited to the Constance/St. Judes audience. Plus even the name is so silly - "Gossip Girl". It's so ridiculous that these mega tycoons are sitting around discussing petty drama between teenagers, lol. My very unpopular opinion, is that I miss Jenny Humphrey in the later seasons. Sure, she was annoying and whiny, but she was a good plot device whenever there was a lack of drama, and I always liked her enemy/frenemy relationship with Blair. Though I admit that after she slept with Chuck, it was less fun. I really wish they hadn't gone down that road for either character - I didn't buy that Chuck would sleep with Jenny after his growth in S3, and I really hated that Blair only saw that situation as a personal insult, and not a case of statutory rape (or at the very least, as Chuck taking advantage of a young girl). I was always interested in Jenny as a character, and I thought that TM did a great job with her - particularly in capturing the desperation of wanting to fit in and be accepted. I would have liked to see Jenny graduate, and see how her character evolved over the final seasons. And lastly - Georgina Sparks was my favorite character after Blair, and I always grin like an idiot when she's on screen. I appreciate that they made her super smart and resourceful, and not just a bitchy mean girl. I love that she ended up with Jack Bass too - I would totally watch a spinoff where it's just Jack and Georgina ruining lives and taking over the world.

I love Jesse, and I really dug his original song. To me, Jesse is a vocalist, and easily on par with Lauren and Chris in terms of ability and natural talent (I like Aaliyah but want her to mature and grow into her voice a bit). That he plays guitar is just a bonus for me. I could easily say that Hunter was a great arranger/producer, but his actual voice is just "ok", and that TSoul was a better performer than he was vocalist. Liked them both though. I think it's a strong group this year - there really were no "wtf, why are they here" singers except for Mark, and I could see any of these 4 winning it. Though I admit, I won't be as happy about an Aliyah win because she's still so young, and Lauren because I find her boring. Lauren reminds me of a 70's vocalist - great tone and control, lovely ballads - but little else. Chris Blue was on fire tonight. I'll admit, I didn't think it was smart of him to start marketing himself as a Michael/Bruno artist, but after watching Rhythm Nation I was convinced. He has the whole package - vocal ability, charisma, stage presence, dance moves, etc. Just not sure that The Voice is the best platform for him, but then again, I don't know what is. To me, that was a Grammy worthy performance, and makes all the other guest artists the show has had over the past few weeks look like amateurs. I like Jesse best, but I'm pulling for Chris to win and for him to actually have a career after this. I hope Jesse gets picked up by some touring band either as a guitarist or vocalist, and he continues in his genre. Aaliyah - I hope she gets picked up by a development team who can figure out the best place for her in the industry. She has a hell of a voice, but no clear identity - and sorry Gwen, but "tween" singer doesn't really work.

I wasn't referring to actual prejudice, but being able to relate to people form different backgrounds and making yourself relatable to them. If you're on a team with 7 Coltons, then no, you're probably not going to get anywhere. But it sounds like Michaela is talking not about overt discrimination, but just differences in backgrounds, lifestyles, economic circumstances, etc. A good player can still find ways to bond with people from any walk of life. If rich white Brad is talking about his yacht, don't just dismiss it as something you can't participate in, get in there and join the convo. Shit, pretend you subscribe to Yacht Lover's Digest if you have to. Plenty of minority players, or players from the lower class were still able to charm, persuade, and wiggle their way to F3 or the eventual win. I don't think Michaela is unique in that way - she just didn't know how to work with what she was given and try to make the most of it.