I married into the military, and was unemployed for a while (I’m a teacher, so, moving mid year makes it rough to find a job). I developed new hobbies. I learned to quilt, I learned to can, I volunteered at the base library. Nurie can find ways to occupy her time, if she’d like, especially if she has a car. And I think all of mine above would have even been Gothard-approved ways to do so.