Amen to everything you say here!! I know I'm really late, Corona virus has made it possible for me to even watch the show! I just finished season 3 which I LOVED!
BUT I got to the scenes where they moved in together and I was like, where was the love scene?!?! Arrow had a super steamy scene with Felicity and Oliver before he joined the league of shadows! It was amazing. But there is clearly a force behind the scenes at The Flash that does not want to show a love scene between a Black woman and a white man on a CW show. Its really very sad.