Girl you said it!!! I think AA is a great organization but the Big Book was NOT written for women. It is based on a stay at home co-dependent woman supporting her man. I have tried AA and have found the only females with true long term sobriety (A) aren’t mother’s (B) live by the mantra of you have to put God and program first (ya, try that as a single mom), and (C) judge women as less than the men in the room. I would love to write the “Little book” and keep a few of the chapters like #4 but get rid of chapters #8-10 (To Wives??? How about To Husbands). Women are encouraged to be doormats
