IllLitShips

I totally Russ and Paola divorcing and Russ having custody of the baby so Paola can be a WWE superstar.

I am being nice and I am in denial that he could be that dumb.

They're both immature. Brandon is good at playing the idiot.

None of that is what I call love either, but I do think they really love each other. I really think he does love her.

I don't think Libby is wrong for wanting a nanny. I don't think being a SAHM is easy especially since she's working from home, too. I don't know what her job entails, but if she can't give full attention to both her daughter and her job why not get a nanny. My question is why can't her mom watch her baby? Julia is very immature. I understand her opinions on male and female friendships are probably different because of her culture. However, she needs to control her jealousy and not whine about a restaurant serving something she doesn't like. It was wrong of the doctor to remove more breast tissue than he had told Angela originally. I think it's sad Angela only sees her worth based off her commodities such as a "green card", her fertility, her breasts, and her money. She doesn't think Michael can love her for who she is.

I was dating a guy who was babied by his mom and he was a total psycho and I just felt like his mom was hoping we would get married and I would he his new parent. They want to be their son's one and only forever or they want to give him to someone else and let him be their burden.

I agree with your comment about how his behavior is from being raised only by women and coddled. They're so confident and have nothing to offer, but their moms have told them how great they are their entire lives.

That's what kills me when they describe the Visa as a trial period. It's not. You're supposed to know and be preparing to marry this person. Not doing a will they or won't they for three months. There hasn't been a time in history when it's been easier to have a long distance relationship, meet each other's families, and and plan a wedding because of technology. These people know they want love. They create a dating profile. Fly to another country, fall in love, and file all the paperwork for the visa, but can't figure out how to do some preparation for their wedding?

He is just being cruel. Natalie was wrong for her behavior in Ukraine, but I feel like he is even worse since he let her move to a new country just to leave her guessing about her future. It's feeling like he's making her wait to punish her. He had to know she was like this before the previous trip to Ukraine. She's set off so easily. I don't think she could have hid it for long.

If Mike and Natalie still had more to figure out why did he bring her over? It seems like you have a couple months to enter the U.S. before the Visa expires. Wouldn't that have made more sense? It seems like he is just as crazy as she is.

We like big families. Our values are very traditional. Marriage that produces children is very important. Our families are our greatest joy.

That part bothers me, too.

Ari is acting very protective like how Pao was after she had her son. She will probably relax after a few weeks. She isn't someone who handles change well and she threw herself into two major life changing situations at once. I have only heard good things about circumcisions. Health wise it seems to be in the boys best interest. I wouldn't call circumcision a mutilation if the boys benefit from it. She's overthinking the decision. It's funny how quickly she decided to make Bini and baby walk home because the car was too dangerous, but really pondered the circumcision.

I hope someone from TLC reads this. Make this happen.

I think she knew other guys were interested in her. She was a virgin and raised Mormon. She's from conservative culture and got pregnant. I think getting married was probably the next step in her mind. A lot of women and men get married because of a pregnancy. Even if they're mismatched with their partner. I think it's normal for people to want to keep their "family" together. Kalani just happened to find one of the worse people to lose her virginity to, get pregnant by, and to marry.

I am not sure why we still get fixated in breasts and breast feeding. It upsets me to see people being so rude and prude about breasts and breastfeeding. I think a lot of our own insecurities are coming out when bash Kalani for being busty and breastfeeding or Larissa for getting implants. I don't think Larissa needed the surgery because she was already beautiful. I don't think Larissa is selfish for not having her children here. Not everyone is meant to be a parent. I think she knows this. If she's smart enough to recognize that and let people who can give her kids a better life take care of them that's good enough for me. Why bring them into her mess more than they need to be? There are too many unwanted children with parents who aren't meant to be parents. I thought it was interesting that Andre went after Larissa for her life choices. I just think it's interesting because he is as vain and deluded as she is. They both want someone wealthy to take care of them and both talk about having careers, but neither have done anything. Does anyone else think Charlie and Jenn are worried about Andre and Chuck becoming close? Kalani and Aseulu need a divorce. Their relationship is too much work for the love that isn't there. Like Kolini said he is too old to be taught to be considerate. In regards to Angela's jealousy she has to accept that it's normal to be attracted to other people. If a man started feeding me that you're the most beautiful woman in the world I only have eyes for you bullshit I would call him a liar. That just isn't a realistic way to think. A paid performer shaking her ass will not matter more to Michael than his relationship to Angela.

Yes. I thought the same thing. Libby looked beautiful, too.

This is the spin off TLC needs right now. Ash giving relationship advice to former and single 90 Day stars.

Wasn't she pregnant after her son, but miscarried? Maybe she was pregnant? I don't think Jihoon gets enough credit for accepting Druscilla. Not many men will accept a child that isn't theirs and he seems to really care about her. He is always patient with her. Jihoon has a lot of flaws, but honestly he is probably the nicest guy Devan can get.

I just wanted to say that I like Libby better without makeup, because she's bad at putting makeup on and it doesn't flatter her face.

That's interesting to know. I was wondering if there were other Somoan families around them in California. He must have a friend he is staying with. His Somoan version of Mahamit's Wal*Mart Tom.

I thought he said he was looking for a place to stay. So, maybe a hotel or he magically and conveniently has a friend in the area? I thought he said he was going to a hotel or he magically and conveniently has a friend in the area to stay with as the cast often does in these situations.

I think he said something along those lines. I know he was not happy with the way women are treated there by the men. A lot of misogyny in this season

Keilani's dad is from Somoa. In their season her dad said he wasn't crazy about her marrying someone from Somoa, because he was concerned they wouldn't treat her right.

I agree that posters, myself included, we do have tendency to try to diagnose these people's behaviors as a mental defect. Like, with Jenny and Yolanda, I think they are two women who just want love and people do dumb things when they are In love. Being in love just makes you foolish sometimes. Some people are just in love with the idea of being in love. Like how Yolanda explained it. She was in love with that feeling of being in love. You build someone up to such a high standard and level it takes time to deconstruct that piece by piece and accept the reality of your situation. I do think Sumit and Jenny love each other. I didn't hold his hesitation to let his family know about Jenny against him.Expecting Sumit to defy all of his cultural norms and how he was raised to be isn't going to be an overnight process. He is taking the steps. Initially, besides lying to her about his identity he seemed to be more stable than most. He had a job and an appartment for them. He also paid for her plane ticket the first time she saw him. I do think he will find a job and support them. I don't think they will just rely on her income. His lies I do hold that against him. In the history of this show are his lies the worse? I do hope he is truly divorcing his wife. I had read somewhere that she worked as a sales person in a furniture store.