That's what kills me when they describe the Visa as a trial period. It's not. You're supposed to know and be preparing to marry this person. Not doing a will they or won't they for three months. There hasn't been a time in history when it's been easier to have a long distance relationship, meet each other's families, and and plan a wedding because of technology. These people know they want love. They create a dating profile. Fly to another country, fall in love, and file all the paperwork for the visa, but can't figure out how to do some preparation for their wedding?