I don't feel right about defending Aaron completely because I think he has made some major errors in judgement regarding the way he communicates, but I do believe as an invited guest to the BBQ, he had every right to voice his opinion. He had a vested interest in the topic because it concerned his family, and his wife has been bearing the brunt of it for weeks now. Since these Housewives freaked out over Denise's legit and harmless request, which they ignored, they have been raking her over the coals, slut-shaming her and demeaning her kids. (Not to mention gaslighting her- "mom shaming.") I'm sure Aaron wanted to say something that would end the abuse. He wasn't very good at it and it didn't help, but I defend his right to be a part of the conversation.