I thought the quote was Grief is the price we pay for love, I’ve never heard the rest of it especially what Jeremy quoted.
So I googled it and I got this:
Dr Colin Murray Parkes , a psychiatrist at St.Christopher’s Hospice and a pioneer in this field. The full quote can be found in his book, Bereavement: Studies of Grief in Adult Life:
“The pain of grief is just as much part of life as the joy of love:it is perhaps the price we pay for love, the cost of commitment. To ignore this fact, or to pretend that it is not so, is to put on emotional blinkers which leave us unprepared for the