I think the show is working overtime to paint him as a villain, yet at the same time, there is, so far, other than the Bachelor Party, not a lot to justify this. By this time in other seasons, we have seen actual horrendous behavior by some of the guys, and this guy is nowhere near as bad as Luke, Matt or Brandon. He's not even as bad as Zach or Michael. So far, Brett was flirty at a bachelor party before he even met Olivia, and is sarcastically passive aggressive about owning his house and not wanting spend all of his disposable income on travel. Olivia seems frustrated, but she has not specified how he is different in private. She mostly seems annoyed that she can't lecture him into submission to what she wants. I don't know what exactly he has done to any of these guys to get the disdain they show on Unfiltered, or if it's just support of their wives who have taken Olivia's side (or in Henry's case, he has never liked him). But frankly, I can't imagine any of them being friends in real life with a guy like him. Either way, it just feels almost like bullying because nothing we have been shown has warranted this level of disgust (even from Pastor Cal!). Unless something will be forthcoming, I don't find him to be that bad, and I don't feel sorry for Olivia because she is just as annoying but in a different way.